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[–]ASeaOfQuotesFDS Specialist 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are being abused. Emotionally and physically. Please contact a domestic abuse hotline to be connected to resources. Also, when you’ve moved out, take some time to read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft, it goes deeply into the abusive mindset. You can even do a trial to Audible if you’ve never had it and use the free credit, or find a free PDF online by searching the title.
You are NOT crazy, you are a victim of deep trauma, and your feelings are going to be so all over the place. I’m so sorry you are dealing with this, you are stronger than you know and I really hope you get away from him and begin to heal.
[–]sewingmachinesavior 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need to take your photos/evidence of any abuse and get a restraining order. It DOES get better. So. Much. Better.
You are NOT crazy. One step at a time. You’ll get back to yourself.
Please get a copy of Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft.
If you absolutely can’t afford it PM me and I will send you a copy.
Be brave. Your life depends on it.
[–]flowerpower102938 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read "why does he do that"
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[–]Whateverbabe2FDS Specialist 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everyone is right. You are being abused.
Try not to go back to your parents house, seem like they are not healthy either. I would look for a room to rent in a house with other women tbh. It will be cheap and you'll have healing company and a safe space. When I was starting over it saved my life.
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