Asked woman out via text, no reply. See her in person again, everything great. Should I try once more?

TheStumblingWolf · 2016-12-29T15:49:55+00:00

A woman flirting doesn't necesarily mean she wants to take it further. She could simply be enjoying the attention and validation. In the case of not replying, it's a subtle way to say "no thanks". Disregard and hit on other chicks.

fnordsnord · 2016-12-29T17:58:01+00:00

And the lesson here is: Don't ask women out via text. It allows them to ignore you.

Ask her out again. In person.

You will almost certainly get either an excuse or "I don't feel that way about you."

Because women who are into you don't behave this way.

rp-Ubermensch · 2016-12-29T18:00:37+00:00

Why don't you grow a pair and ask her out in person

TehJimmyy · 2016-12-29T15:48:44+00:00

Nah something smells fishy .Soft next or until you provide more background

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-12-29T18:30:45+00:00

Mixed signals aren't so mixed. Here's the problem

If she's into you, then she'll let you know for real. If she's not, then you will find yourself trying to figure out if she's into you or not.

Late30sMasculist · 2016-12-29T16:41:43+00:00

Ask her out again in person. It will take two minutes and the worst she'll say is "no." If she doesn't do it, then move on and stop wasting time texting with her.

FireNix33 · 2016-12-29T17:19:33+00:00

I think you screwed it up with that text message, and it's not something that can be easily repaired. Hard next. And next time, ask women out in person.

oldmach · 2016-12-29T18:59:14+00:00

You people are so tough with your 'grow some balls bruh' talk. You sound like teenagers who think they're hot shit on reddit.

OP: Some chicks enjoy flirting without the desire to act on it. They're not like dudes, they flirt for validation, attention, self confidence, power, whatever. This chick probably is one of those. Forget about her, it's a waste of time. Don't enable her.

[deleted] · 2016-12-29T17:49:30+00:00

Look her in the eyes and ask her out in person. Do t be a puss

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2016-12-29T16:58:24+00:00

Why the hell are you asking her out in text. Grow a set of balls, because by asking out a woman over text she is assuming you do not have any testicles, and therefore are a pussy.

Arcturus_ · 2016-12-29T18:15:06+00:00

Was probably nice in person because she didn't want it to be awkward.

mbillion · 2016-12-29T18:49:28+00:00

Yeah but not in text, you should have asked her out when you were face to face. Women want you to make an effort, not when your drunk, not over text, when you see her and things are going well make the effort to ask her out.

someboringdude · 2016-12-29T20:04:12+00:00

NO.

Lice138 · 2016-12-29T20:44:40+00:00

I don't like to ask at all, you should try telling them. "Im grabbing you at 8, we are going out". I always thought it displayed more confidence and in my experience, girls kind of get off at being ordered around to a slight degree

KingFriday_13th · 2016-12-30T00:12:45+00:00

Ask her out in person. There's no option to ignore your question like she can with a text. And you can observe body language, facial expression, tone of voice etc.

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plasticslug · 2016-12-30T18:37:56+00:00

No, move the fuck on.

Fucking HB10 walks up and says let get a drink are you going to piss around snd think about it... No she does not have the tingles

Title	Asked woman out via text, no reply. See her in person again, everything great. Should I try once more?
Author	FireNix33
Upvotes	17
Comments	43
Date	December 29, 2016 3:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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