I have a cheating fiance but I could be getting an amazing job while staying with her for a little bit longer

UtetopiaSS · 2021-06-06T05:32:50+00:00

Get the job, and dump her. Don't commit to marriage before, don't get engaged, and don't let engagement be a condition of a good reference for the good job.

pig_benis2 · 2021-06-06T06:34:55+00:00

Wait a few days/weeks after starting job and then act all surprised when you "mysteriously" find out. This way you can avoid any blow back from her or her families side. That would be playing it safer and chances are you won't get any false accusations. Act really hurt and buy yourself something expensive to piss her off, I mean to reward yourself for getting a good job.

Left_Motor · 2021-06-06T08:23:01+00:00

She used you and was gonna stay because of the job. Get the job, wait 30 days then, out her to her parents.

MrGunny94 · 2021-06-06T10:28:04+00:00

Get the job. Secure your future first then tell the family what you found out just a couple of days ago

KingWhoCared86 · 2021-06-06T07:14:44+00:00

Hold out for that job for sure. Getting yourself set up financially is priority and then dump her afterwards.

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-06-06T11:51:38+00:00

Hang in there for the job but dont knock her up..

Ceruleanknight1 · 2021-06-06T07:06:11+00:00

I’m just wondering if it’ll be very wrong of me to stay with her while knowing that I’m gonna breakup with her as soon as i got the job or should i just breakup and think about the job later?

Dude, she cheated on you multiple times with multiple people and it looks like you have proofs.

She disrespected you, possibly put you in danger of catching a STI/STD off her, and will carry on after the wedding.

Just take what you can take from her (she do the same with you right now) and leave when you're set. Keep the proofs you got, try to avoid intimacy if you can and protect yourself if you can't, but if the job is that good try to get it.

A girl can say no to sex, so can a guy.

Oh and forget the "Nuclear Revenge".. its a vindicative woman thing to do. 🙄

womenthro · 2021-06-06T14:39:02+00:00

Hell yeah wait for the job. It's the ultimate revenge.

MGTOW-guy · 2021-06-06T14:32:24+00:00

Use this. Money first! Treat her as a free whore :)

Failedalife · 2021-06-06T05:34:29+00:00

Go neuclear revenge on her.

Your her atm, and while she uses your money, she goes and get plowed elsewhere. The baddies, the criminals and what's not.

Tolerate it and be the happy person.

One option is simply go on with the marriage and publish picture of it wide open and on a big screen on the marriage night, for all the see. Public humiliation

Both to teach others about consequences

I'm deeply against just let it be and do nothing. Then they get away free and from their perspective only loose their atm. No set a example so other females learns too.

There is a few good youtubers who share others neuclear revenge on YouTube

Whatever you do, dont just let or go. But yes get the job.

PH_Bravstar · 2021-06-06T15:07:30+00:00

Don't forget to collect hard evidence of her cheating so that you end up being the good guy.

Swedishplumber21 · 2021-06-06T07:18:15+00:00

Wrong of you? Or course not man, shes the one cheating. Take the job and then dump her and then when your making more $ upgrade to a hotter chick with a bigger rack

Bardox30 · 2021-06-06T18:09:15+00:00

Man, I'll tell you this. Give her family aware about this behavior. Let them know with proofs that she was cheating on you. Don't hesitate about it. Make her look like a bitch for everybody you know from her life.

ChicoMongol · 2021-06-06T18:46:31+00:00

After a few days of work, talk to her father, show her your evidence by telling her you recently discovered, and don't make them your enemies. Don't have sex with her, make excuses, or she might get pregnant with another guy, or pretend and use it against you.

PubliusVirgilius · 2021-06-06T20:15:29+00:00

It all depends of course in what country you live, but if their family is well connected, consider, that they can make your life very miserable at this job afterwards. They might not be able to get you fired, but they can pull strings, so you will leave there by yourself.

Especially if they realize that you continued staying with her only to get the job.

Selfmade_3127 · 2021-06-06T20:45:32+00:00

get the job and leave her in the dust ... they really hate it when the guys they left get insanely successful

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-06-06T17:16:02+00:00

Is it possible to send proof of her infidelity to her family after you start up at the new job?

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-06-06T20:56:16+00:00

Just remember while your plotting against her, shes also plotting against you

gorilla_blanco · 2021-06-06T21:04:32+00:00

The magical word is calling it off… she null and voided the relationship. Explain to the father first why you are “calling it off”. And let that be that…. Don’t even call it a break up people break up when they realize they aren’t meant for each other she flat out ruined the whole sanctity of a relationship… This shows you don’t even think she’s worthy of being in your mental history book

daniellederek · 2021-06-06T21:22:31+00:00

Most new jobs are 90 to 180 days probation. For gov check with your union rep on how long is required for full card status.

DeStroiuM · 2021-06-06T21:35:12+00:00

Show us the pic of what she was doing .. let’s see if it true... jk dude. CYA!!!!!

Beluga_27 · 2021-06-06T16:02:35+00:00

Milk her and her connections. Haha. Phrasing.

Take the job.
Visit dad and explain why you are breaking up with her daughter. Show evidence if necessary.
Promise to keep in touch with dad after break up. You do owe him that. Tell him how grateful you are for the job and you see him as a mentor. Old dudes like this shit. Also tell him there is no way you guys would get together after all this.
Go to the bitch and break up with her.
Profit and enjoy the caviar.

cleats4u · 2021-06-06T14:24:28+00:00

If her family is well connected enough to get you a job. The reverse is also true. And they might find you floating in a lake (there's always a third option nobody thought of).

UrImaginaryFrend · 2021-06-06T05:34:00+00:00

Do eeetttt! Gotta look after no 1

Squiddy-the-wise · 2021-06-06T12:13:23+00:00

She used you, now use her.

Get the job and bounce

Thegr8cnoz · 2021-06-06T12:10:58+00:00

Dog get that job & once you’re secure in the company, DUMP HER immediately. You could cheat as well to be honest.

dachengchuan · 2021-06-06T07:38:28+00:00

the family will make you wait until after marriage before doing anything for you about the job !!!! RUN AWAY !!! It is a scam !!! The family knows about her bad behavior and want you to marry the scam ... RUN AWAY !!!

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rowdyate9 · 2021-06-06T14:27:13+00:00

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Kyburgboy · 2021-06-06T20:38:43+00:00

Only Beta bitches work in government. Get a real fucking job that doesn't live off of other people's money and ditch that whore.

M1L03 · 2021-06-06T09:29:15+00:00

Well, tbh, when something like that happens to me I tell myself: 'If they are shity people you don't have to be.' I see nothing wrong in doing as you planed, I totally suport it, but I would even more suport you not doing that. Anyways, I would strongly recomend you to get the job, not my level 2 respect. Level 1 respect plus the job is where I would put my money on.

TimberJACKinsuit · 2021-06-06T09:46:17+00:00

Ask the question: How do I feel about the situation, if she sleeps with other people? Have you ever cheated on her?

To be honest, if you say that I do not plan LTR with her, we can have an open raltionship, and I can also fuck another pussis, then say nothing, get the job.

However, if you are monogamous, hold your balls, and talk with her about her behaviour.

Title	I have a cheating fiance but I could be getting an amazing job while staying with her for a little bit longer
Author	NegativeInternet8214
Upvotes	1
Comments	62
Date	June 6, 2021 5:24 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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