TBH I roleplay the blue pilled in internet (following hot girls on social media) and talking about hot girls IR, like a "normal guy" so I don't have people bothering me about my personal choices.

When asked "hey are you dating someone?" or such, I give vague answers like (there is a girl in my work I'm interested) and fuse another subject in the conversation (and she likes beer too, and talking about beer did you tried the new one) while also having my "social circle" about going my own way, like this sub and some others.

I'm 36 now and I'm been red pilled since the last couple years and I can say - with all the letters of alphabet - that to me was the best choice. People don't bother me anymore, not only in this matter, but in everything. I don't talk about politics anymore, don't talk about personal choices, goals, ideals, philosophies etc, I just live them. When people make questions I go full NPC. In the end I just show them what I want and what they need to know and now I'm just that guy who talk about Rock'n'Roll, motorcycles, beer, boobs and hobbies. Of course, take you precautions and do not do anything stupid like really dating a "normie girl" and you will be fine.

I'm even less angry about all this shitty situation that we are, because they think I'm one of them while I'm doing a "inside job" to change things.

My advice: go full NPC. Do the roleplay. In the beginning is hard to listen the BS talking and "be friends" with the normies, but in the end you learn to conduct the conversation to things you like and it even can have some benefits later.