Family keeps ridiculing me

oushkul · 2021-05-15T08:31:56+00:00

Haters gonna hate. Losing your V is no big thing. You follow your own path and see your family's ridicule as their issue, not yours.

If you really want to be with a woman, go be with one. Keep yourself wrapped up and protected and don't let it become serious. If you dont want a woman, keep doing what your doing.

I guarantee as soon as you start ignoring their ridicule and enjoy living your own life for you, their behaviour will no longer matter to you. You may even start to find it amusing. Good luck bro... GYOW

Styx3791 · 2021-05-15T09:13:04+00:00

Has anyone ever explained sexual market value to you?

Women: start off at the peak of sexual market value, with looks and fertility. This constantly decreases.

Men: unless you have no ambition: as you accrue skills and resources, you demonstrate the ability to provide for a family so your value increases.

Jolly_Ruin2303 · 2021-05-15T13:08:40+00:00

Bro, just fuck a whore and you'll no longer be a virgin. You'll see that's not a big deal. As for your family, tell them to fuck themselves.

morphious525 · 2021-05-15T08:29:53+00:00

It's okay if you are virgin, first chase your goals (finances, health, etc). It doesn't matter if you are brown, your success is what matters. And don't fall for female trap now. I am brown too, and I can assure you that even white girls chase you, when you are on your path. And don't care about family.

ronoda12 · 2021-05-15T08:32:53+00:00

The primary goal of a man should be financial independence. If by 35 you are not rich (and by that I don’t mean middle class or even upper middle class) I can promise all your problems will become 10x worse. But if you make it you will get to feel how a 18 yr old pretty woman feels like. Good luck.

b1ngnx33 · 2021-05-15T13:58:58+00:00

Toxic family. I left mine. Best decision ever.

Lalgoli · 2021-05-15T17:40:11+00:00

Brown families are toxic. They are too controlling.( Indian here).

AquaPiranha · 2021-05-15T10:36:19+00:00

You should stop worrying about what your family thinks. Focus on developing your career, hobbies and maintain your health and you'll be fine.

chamfucklal_gada · 2021-05-15T08:37:46+00:00

If ur virginity is bothering do, do a ons or something. Or maybe hook up by tinder

sqiop · 2021-05-15T09:53:40+00:00

Why would you want to have a gf? Just to appease to your family?

Mine did that too, until i draw a line and move out.

DubsPackage · 2021-05-16T09:16:52+00:00

You will lose money chasing women.

But you will never lose women chasing money.

Wasntme_37 · 2021-05-15T13:02:27+00:00

Misery loves company, Let your family do their antics and live in misery. in 2021 no woman deserves a man's attention. Find your purpose and dedicated yourself to it.

GoMake_me_a_sandwich · 2021-05-16T04:30:24+00:00

Ask them if they are going to pay for your divorce when it happens and watch them shut up.

TurinL · 2021-05-16T03:02:34+00:00

Same shit here bro, family just call me gay for i don't have girlfriend, but it's okay, i have nothing against gay people and i pay for sex whenever i can so... i really don't care.

yamahantx700 · 2021-05-16T00:44:16+00:00

I'm the opposite. When my grandma became senile, she started hitting on me. It was funny and sad. Girls flirt with me, but I just make a few jokes, entertain for a bit, and say goodbye.

The truth is, even if you could have your pick of woman, you wouldn't like what you're going to end up with after 6 months. It's not worth it. Women are insecure, impatient, and demanding. They realize deep down inside a man is there to do the things she can't, but they'll never say it. They'll even tell you how much they appreciate you. My women have been loyal, but they still think their career is important. Sorry lady, you have a job. I have a career. Don't get it twisted. 95% of people have jobs, not careers.

As for how to deal with your family, get your revenge by living well. If you're doing good for yourself, suddenly those aunts will want to set you up on blind dates. Don't do it.

Crafty-Tackle · 2021-05-15T23:45:45+00:00

Ignore whatever they say.

Just learn how to ignore their bs.

Go your own way, and do your own thing. You are young. You can go in almost any direction you like. Own your life.

belshoedid · 2021-05-15T17:39:05+00:00

fuck your family, they hate u cuz they aint you

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-05-15T17:04:58+00:00

To get a girl you just need to improve yourself enough until they come to you but is not worth it anyways. Maybe just tell them that you dont like dating and dont need sex to be happy.

sicrm · 2021-05-15T13:54:06+00:00

you’ll have the last laugh when you don’t lose half your shit and keep pushing back your retirement because your ex “wasn’t happy”

IntellegoTheTrue1 · 2021-05-15T16:11:57+00:00

Get a career and get the hell out of there. Start your journey. You will become a hero. You will even get to love your parents better when you will miss them, and appreciate for the good forgetting the bad.

cz_masterrace · 2021-05-15T16:02:33+00:00

Ask them for money to support a wife and kids if it means that much to them. You'll be waiting a long time.

Wildhouse83 · 2021-05-15T15:02:14+00:00

Just watch how guys end up after interacting with women. You do not want to do this to yourself.

Losing your virginity is very easy: go where prostitution (the honest version, not marriage) is legal.

BlueCollarSinner · 2021-05-15T14:53:02+00:00

Don't let you Fam keep you down all young and older men are being made fun of because we don't have a gf or we are not married with kids. It's like peer pressuring and in their minds "growing up" is having a gf or kids. But how come nobody ever tells us when we are young to first get a job, have our own place, learn skills or trades to get a better paying job before getting a gf or wife? Stay your path and focus on making yourself happy and wealthy. Then if you want to find a gf go for it, if not don't. Remember a women chases a real man, not the other way around.

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RatingsOutOfTen · 2021-05-15T09:12:40+00:00

I would shun the negativity. If you thing meeting up with them for a meal will get them to bring this up, you don't have to go.

The interaction is voluntary.

You also can't be happy enough to find a date if you are in a negative mood constantly from ridicule.

DumbIdiotsReadThis · 2021-05-22T20:08:24+00:00

Jesus, just get a hooker dude. It's no different to dating except the hooker stops lying to you after the deed is done. Once you have knocked that one out of the ball park, you will realise that pussy isn't magical and you can focus on real shit like going to the gym or something. Who cares what your family thinks. They are not the ones being tricked into marrying some greedy banshee because thats "the right thing to do".

sacandbaby · 2021-05-15T13:10:35+00:00

Had too many GFs at your age but no money to hang on to the hot ones.

Germantaffer · 2021-05-15T11:20:53+00:00

Cause they have standards, you mean. Don't make yourself small of your skin color, I don't do either, even our feminist want me to do so. 😏😂 10000-20000 years ago we were all black. This standards for women to be sexual aroused, you mean. They are pretty high indeed, they were in earlier days higher too, at least as long as groupies exists. But because it's very annoying to chase chads, they decide one day for the normal guy. But they don't love you like you maybe love the girl. You can try to control her, you can try to buy her, you can try to overwhelm her with love, take care of all, but it's a risky path and often doesn't work. As I have seen, women has generally much less problems and inner conflicts leaving a man. Of course this are JM2C.

It's actually not the problem, that you are not attractive. As long as you avoid drugs, care of yourself and you use your brain, other women go after you, cause you are attractive this way, you promise stability. But this doesn't mean, that she adore you a life long, please don't forget that. Regarding your virginity, sex, especially sex with new woman is hardest drug, I'm aware of. The whole porn industry lives from this drugs, everyday a new woman. I fear we will lose many man to virtual sex films in the next years, maybe in combination with some sex toys. If you looked ever to drug addicted, they aren't happy people. Men do the dumbest thing to get sex, ruin their health, their wealth, their self-esteem. So maybe you are thinking loosing something, but actually you don't. OK all this doesn't help you with your family. But you have good reasons for your life decisions, and your family isn't intelligent enough to grasp it, I think.

Title	Family keeps ridiculing me
Author	mickymouse8893
Upvotes	1
Comments	32
Date	May 15, 2021 8:04 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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