My ex was abusive...

2021-01-09T12:58:32+00:00

Yeah I don't even acknowledge it anymore . I've also been in so many situations where I could have and should have smacked the bitch for something she said.. for cheating.. for deliberately doing something to get a reaction of me and in one case actually working as an escort behind my back for 4 months when I thought she was working nights in a bar . Don't listen to or trust women .. GYOW

Highflyer147 · 2021-01-09T14:53:07+00:00

I’ve been emotional wrecked by the last 2 birds.. I’ve had enough. I just want to sit in my own fuckin house in peace & quiet and be left the fuck alone & work.

beatstorelax · 2021-01-09T12:57:45+00:00

so true.... while lots of women are abusive as hell to their boyfriends and everyone thinks that's normal.

dachengchuan · 2021-01-09T12:35:51+00:00

Yes and all women are abusive, at least with words, attitudes and behaviors the first levels of violence. and women are in 2/3 of cases the first one to use physical violence. it means that when a woman says "my ex was abusive" the man was only responding to violence in most of the cases.

Ays_500 · 2021-01-09T14:31:19+00:00

Lol as a guy my ex was abusive and a cheating whore

BobbingForBunions · 2021-01-09T14:54:13+00:00

I remember dating a girl decades ago who told me that two of her ex-boyfriends raped her.

I noped out of that impending trainwreck faster than you can say "I don't believe you." lol

cleats4u · 2021-01-09T15:48:42+00:00

It's an excuse for their shitty behavior, and to get you to feel sorry for them. It's learned manipulation of your feelings because they are borderline personality disordered or bipolar (50% of women are personality disordered or have a mental illness). Find out their exes name and look him up. None of that shit happened! Then change the locks on your door or change your name and move away. Lol.

confusedwalrus23 · 2021-01-09T16:57:26+00:00

They're just trying to abuse your protector instinct. Don't let them

shivzuh · 2021-01-09T13:08:47+00:00

I told my ex that the relationship we had always cared about her feelings, she never asked how I felt in the relationship. She straight sad you are a man you don't have emotions. I am a woman, I'm emotional. Woman's are abusive. They don't care about you. A relationship is an entertainment show for a woman where she is the star in her eyes.

Red_Liner740 · 2021-01-09T16:31:28+00:00

Huge red flag. Primarily because it paints her as a victim in her mind. A victim has no agency and therefore won’t look into themselves to see how they can improve or what part of the relationship falling apart was their fault. “You learn from your mistakes” well, if they believe they didn’t make any mistakes and were poor little victims then there’s nothing for them to learn is there? Secondly, for her to be a victim, there has to be the abuser. And sooner or later you will become that abuser in her mind. Guaranteed.

Locus of Control. Any person who believe they have very little influence in the course of their life will be difficult to have a relationship with.

Women swing hard towards the lack of control side. They always believe in Astrology (outside control), religion (outside control, although I’m not saying all religion upbringing is like that), mystical bullshit (lack of control) etc

PretendDeparture7400 · 2021-01-09T18:25:34+00:00

I think a lot of women nowadays consider any behaviour that's not worshiping the ground they walk on as some form of emotional abuse. It's all part of the victim complex that's making them more and more dependent on men.

And we're starting to give less and less of a fuck.

theanchorman05 · 2021-01-09T18:34:59+00:00

I had a girl in college I knew who had what she described broken up with her boyfriend. I met him, he was a cop and seemed like a really cool guy. I asked her why did they break up and she stated because "He hit me and was abusive to me". So a couple of days later I ask the girls "friend" what happened and she tells me the truth. Girl and boyfriend went to a club, girl proceeds to get really drunk and hooks up with a guy right by the boyfriend. Boyfriend immediately dumps her and dips.

The funny thing about all of this is they got back together a couple of months later and have been married for like 10 years now.

CuriousIncel2 · 2021-01-09T13:10:49+00:00

That's what happens when they cry wolf too many times.

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-01-09T19:45:45+00:00

Unless she has photos detailing injuries (and considering how many thots update their IG's right after getting slapped around, it's possible that she does if anything actually happened) then I just refuse to believe her.

In other words, I presume innocence until guilt is proven. This is especially reasonable when "abuse" these days includes men not paying for dinner or telling a woman to get off her ass and do a few chores around the house.

joythegreat96 · 2021-01-09T14:06:02+00:00

I wish I slapped her hard when she was hitting in restaurant, in shopping mall, in street! When last time, she gave me nail marks and I said, "what's wrong with you?" , she replied, "why don't you hit me back?" I should have hit her too. LOL

daproest1 · 2021-01-09T20:21:15+00:00

Every single one says the same thing. The English language has lost all meaning.

fantastick6 · 2021-01-10T00:02:28+00:00

I hear it almost everytime i meet a new woman. The problem however is that I've had a crazy ex that accused me of violence, while in fact she was the one that attacked me on several occasions, and i just held her down so that she could cool off. She event went so far ass to call the cops 2 times and both times the cops were baffled that I was the one with scratchmarks and bleeding while she didn't even have a mark on her. Luckily it just strengthen my case when se filed a police complaint. That and the fact that I had documented our last fight, with audio and pictures, so there was no doubt who was the aggressor. It's just a pity point women throw out there, both to shit on their ex, and to get free sympathy points from you. It's sad really, as men we are barely allowed to defend ourselves, while women can go crazy on you and your still in the wrong because your a man.. the hypocrisy..

Never take a women's word for fact, always take it with a pinch of salt. That's at least my experience.

i_accidently_reddit · 2021-01-09T14:50:45+00:00

It's a crimson red flag. A women saying that is undateable. Either it's true, which means she will have issues and hang ups, or it's a lie/projection, in which case she's bat shit crazy or evil. In which case steer way clear unless you like prison.

So either way you need to distance yourself for anything longer than two nights or whenever she asks for your last name.

casra888 · 2021-01-09T16:18:28+00:00

If you include mental abuse.. lesbians have a domestic violence rate that hovers around 35-90%.

A few women I dated were bisexual and told me "I love sex with women.. but they are mean and crazy"

Mynewadventures · 2021-01-10T02:13:51+00:00

Yup. It's a given that any girl you have met has had an abusive ex.

Hell, from what I understand, I'M an abusive ex to some crazy cunts, and I've never laid a hand on a women in my life ever.

GTFO_Lmao · 2021-01-10T06:16:45+00:00

I was an actual victim of abuse in a relationship with a woman. It was a long time ago. I don’t talk about it with just anybody. To confide in someone with that kind of personal information takes a significant amount of trust and time.

If you just meet someone and they casually explain past abuses from exes, that is a massive red flag.

PhatPlonker · 2021-01-10T05:21:44+00:00

Yes, every single one

alone_not_lonely_45 · 2021-01-10T05:48:10+00:00

Stay away. She will be telling the next guy that you were the abuser. I think there was a simpler time when there was one type of abuse. Now there is financial abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse. There is sexual abuse and apparently neglect is some type of abuse. It is crazy how they have created this narrative where its pretty much impossible for a man to not be abusive.

Solo_and_Simple · 2021-01-10T23:02:55+00:00

Someone posted a few days ago that of the 10 women he dated, 7 of them said they were victims of abuse or had recently gotten out of an abusive relationship.

It's a big red flag to me.

casra888 · 2021-01-12T16:30:45+00:00

The last time I heard a chick say that crap to me, I just told her "Ok, get some therapy. Good luck." and walked away.

casra888 · 2021-01-12T16:29:42+00:00

He told her "No" once.

My ex was abusive...

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Title	My ex was abusive...
Author	mgtowpowerballz
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Date	January 9, 2021 12:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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