Virgin with no rage?

p3p3_sylvia · 2021-01-08T19:56:35+00:00

Yes, or maybe you have the emotional maturity and awareness to know you can liberate it but actually chose not to. That’s precisely why you’re not an incel. Guys get mad because they try and try and simply can’t.

YouSaidChicken · 2021-01-08T20:15:51+00:00

I was lucky. I never associated women with "validation" in my life, so to me, sex was, "I'll just rub one out", as it's just taking care of a biological desire.

Thats' it. No need to chase pussy. No need to "need" it. Just take care of an urge. I don't chase women to help men sneeze, I don't chase women to help me orgasm either.

They can be nice for that, and if I was dating someone I had them for that purpose, but the need wasn't there.

i think a lot of the rage bullshit, is an emotional response between what people think reality should be and what reality is. They have a disconnect between the two, and when reality doesn't match expectations they lose it.

You see this in politics, video games, etc. There's this huge disconnect between what you want and what you'll get. What's a "want" vs. what's a "need".

The "need" for sex, to me, is just an urge. I've never expected it to be anything other than that. Scratching an itch as it were.

Consistent-Feeling44 · 2021-01-08T22:19:48+00:00

Tbh once you have sex... It changes you slowly and you have to fight more lust and teptations. You notice their smell more and start to clearly see their moves and so on... It is a major wall for your progress in life if you wana achieve something that is for sure. At the same time I can tell you sex without feelings and geniue care about other person is even worse it leaves you empty and with regret. In the end you regret having sex with low value people for absolutly no reason and submiting to urges and lose of willpower.

Thats some expierance from other side

Aussie_Chart_Trader · 2021-01-09T02:02:23+00:00

Your simp friends have attached their self-worth to sticking their member into the other gender. That's why all the ragie.

You're thinking with your big head, not your little one. Thus, no anger.

You're not lucky, just smart.

GTFO_Lmao · 2021-01-08T23:24:10+00:00

Sex is a personal responsibility in many ways. It goes beyond just protecting yourself from pregnancy and stds.

A lot of men won’t admit it but if you don’t have the maturity to be responsible with your emotions after sex with a woman, it could change your life. Always remember that when you are having sex with a woman, your judgment can be clouded.

I know countless guys that always say “I love my children, I just wish she was not their mother.”

Men get so caught up in the haze they end up married, having kids, and either stuck or divorced and unhappy. It’s because they get caught up emotionally and proceed forward without paying attention to red flags and obvious issues.

You are in the stage of entering adulthood, and you are at really important crux in it too. And that is you have plenty of opportunity to mold it into what you want it to be.

As long as you keep your head on your shoulders and stay focused on your purpose, sex will come and go. What you need to worry about is if you will trust in yourself to make the right decisions afterwards.

If anyone gives you shit for being a virgin, you can just tell them you respect your self enough and think twice before getting caught up with any bee-yotch. Then ask them why are they sweating over women so much.

guggyub · 2021-01-08T20:16:19+00:00

Exactly, you should be proud of yourself brother. This way you get to focus on your life purpose rather than constantly thinking about sex

IBudgetForIt · 2021-01-08T21:43:21+00:00

The fact that you've had "plenty of chances" probably has a lot to do with your lack of anger.

TigPlaze · 2021-01-08T22:08:02+00:00

You're better off without rage. Rage makes you do stupid crap that can get you into trouble. I would concentrate on accepting yourself and building a great life regardless of whether you have sex. It sounds like you may be doing that already, and that's good. If you don't feel a bunch of rage, count yourself lucky.

confusedwalrus23 · 2021-01-08T23:08:58+00:00

I think so. I was a V at 23. PLENTY of rage. you're also ahead of the game if you read these forums and are red pilled.

dickle_doot · 2021-01-09T00:07:20+00:00

Then you’re doing better than those that submit to the societal pressure of being non-virgins early in their years.

Shit’s not worth it.

Bayesian11 · 2021-01-09T02:00:17+00:00

You can’t imagine how many men have become the slaves of pussy.

Solo_and_Simple · 2021-01-09T00:00:41+00:00

Yes, I think you are fortunate that you don't suffer from the insecurities that a lot of guys your age do, when they're virgins. That's good. There must be something in you that recognizes your value doesn't depend on whether you get laid or not. Good for you, man.

p.s. As someone else pointed out, I'm sure it helps that you know you CAN get laid, if you want to. It's not a situation where you badly want it but can't get it. That's a tougher situation to be in, because then it feels more like you don't "measure up" (which is where the anger/rage comes in, as a defense).

ImlackingOriginality · 2021-01-09T06:56:05+00:00

Well im the same! Though im just 17 lol. I think I will have chances to lose my virginity in the future, but i rather die a virgin. I think we are truly blessed considering how other people do nothing but think about/have sex.

People insult virgins, yet Newton and Nikola Tesla died a virgin.

HarshTruth69 · 2021-01-08T23:29:39+00:00

It's more common than you think and it's a blessing too many men sacrifice for ungrateful women who dont truly love us

forbsmith · 2021-01-09T04:33:02+00:00

Yes you are lucky. I had rage 4 years back when I was 23.

Female validation becomes a thing for people. I was curious (still curious) about sex.

Somehow the rage has subsided now. I see the risks associated with sex and falling in 'love'.

Earlier I used to get horny when seeing women who wear skimpy clothes. But now I know why they do it and simply ignore them.

SparkMarcus · 2021-01-09T09:20:06+00:00

The fact is cuming into a vagina doesn’t help much to solve psychological problems. Sex isn’t the cure for loneliness and depression.

You’re totally right for no feeling sorry because of your virginity.

Brian-_S · 2021-01-10T10:41:44+00:00

I'm in the same boat but I'm 26

BroscienceGuy · 2021-01-08T23:47:12+00:00

Same but I am 19, almost 20.

Plenty of chances but I have never felt the pressure or need to do so. I have always been repulsed by their advances.

I am much happier being on my own and pursuing my own things. It was that way even before I was redpilled.

You are not the only one.

super-happy-throw · 2021-01-09T04:27:31+00:00

I'm same way as you in every way. It's just sex. The idea never attracted me. I'd definitely say we're lucky. I don't care for sex since most women are a huge turn off; ironically I'm hetero. I guess someone could categorize me as demisexual, but rather I'd say the reason I don't care for them is because they're not worth fucking. Too greedy. Too ungrateful. Too extravagant. Too entitled. I am not the least bit bothered.

akibjo98 · 2021-01-09T06:34:15+00:00

That's me too. Same here.

kuchigatana · 2021-01-09T16:53:38+00:00

U need to quit jerking off and go to the gym

super-happy-throw · 2021-01-09T17:33:15+00:00

I wonder if more young men feel it's too risky to have sex.

Mynewadventures · 2021-01-10T02:57:32+00:00

This isn't probably the correct sub for you to ask this and get the guidance you seek. Men Going Their Own Way has nothing to do with sex; it literally is about dudes talking about the things that they do that make make them happy.

Your virginity has nothing to do with this sub, unless you being a virgin makes you happy and you want to discuss why. If your virginity makes you unhappy, then there are LOTS of subs to discuss that.

As a man, what do you want to do with yourself to bring you happiness?

Title	Virgin with no rage?
Author	super-happy-throw
Upvotes	1
Comments	53
Date	January 8, 2021 7:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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