How do I stay single?

Bojof12 · 2021-01-01T08:11:46+00:00

Stop using women as a crutch for your loneliness. Start working and improving yourself and filling your lonely hole with improvement and you won’t even pay attention to women. They say they like men who chase them like dogs but in reality, they fucking hate it. It makes you look weak and she will treat you like a spineless sack of shit, make you question who you are, and play mental games with you to try and break you bcus she feels she can. Work on being a strong, confident, and assertive man FOR YOURSELF first before chasing some woman, learn to become a little selfish and have some pride in yourself. Women should be way down on your priority list. Change your thinking from putting women on a throne to putting yourself on a throne. Embrace your loneliness and work on yourself. Your goal in life should be to become a better man. Your purpose in life is NOT a woman. She is only an add on and if you let her, she will become a huge problem. Do not EVER depend on other ppl for anything and especially a woman bcus you will always be let down at some point. If you feel lonely, grab that shit by the balls and find a solution outside of a woman. That will never fix your problems.

bEaT-eM-aLL · 2021-01-01T08:31:08+00:00

I'm curious what personal issue you have to not hire pros don't worry you don't have to tell me.

inferniteamin · 2021-01-01T07:27:26+00:00

Work on yourself, the bitches will come - then just pump and dump if you really can't handle your urges

dickle_doot · 2021-01-01T10:48:10+00:00

Jerk off and indulge in hobby communities to stave off loneliness.

2021-01-01T07:39:28+00:00

If women want you. You will not be able to stay single. I tried manfully, but finally succumbed. However, If women don’t want you. You can stay single forever.

prove_this · 2021-01-01T12:47:50+00:00

I don't think sticking your sausage in a warm wet oven for a few minutes is a cure for loneliness.

Your real problem is you're not living your life very well.

Get some hobbies and self esteem.

2021-01-01T17:53:28+00:00

Get a fleshlight.

Eumemoriginal · 2021-01-01T20:32:41+00:00

feel lonely? get a dog, best bud a man can have, about the "urges", any 13 year old with a hand and some lotion has it all figured out

daniellederek · 2021-01-01T14:06:53+00:00

Think about every interaction you had with a woman 8n the past year.

How many of those women were actually upstanding quality go getters in society.

Were any if them focused career people?

In my case

Grocery and retail workers, resterant backline waged. Working out of necessity at minimum wage. Most likely just getting enough to scrape through to cover their accumulated debt from years of poor choices.

Medical office ,dental office ,legal secretary, pharmacy tech, mid-level government drone. Making 20 ish dollars an hour . I think I met all of 2 who were debt free, some investments doing an air bnb rental property etc. Zero interest in anyone who wasn't 6 pack, 6 ft, deep into 6 figure established income.

Then the top teir actual doctors lawyers accountant firm partners franchise and store owners. They might consider someone with artistic potential as a novelty for a summer or a year, or the almost chad with a toe hold in their career path.

So remind yourself. Any relationship can be ended at any time for any or no reason by her. You'll be OK if you enjoy each day at a time and if there's 5 bad ones in a row just bounce, as she will certainly check out emotionally that quick while leaving her claws in your wallet.

TheDildoDeliveryGuy · 2021-01-01T15:15:27+00:00

It really depends on how you look at things, and how you understand MGTOW. I for examble haven't cut women out of my life, not completely at least. I will still date casually and have sex, but I will never marry, never be in a long term relationship, I will never have kids, and I will never be dependent on a woman, and I also make that abundantly clear with the women I date. Doing that though requires a good bit of self control, and self esteem. And no offense, but by the sound of your post, self control and self esteem sounds like something you are lacking.

Loneliness is in large part an urge for validation from another person, and you still this seek validation. Now maybe it's because of a lacking self esteem I don't know, but it sure could sound like it. The soner you realize that the only person you need validation from is yourself the better.

My advice to you is that you need to work on your self esteem and you can do this in a plethora of ways.

Go to the gym, better your health and work on your body
Get a hobby that makes you happy
educate yourself, already have an education already? Maybe get a better one and improve your stance in the job market maybe also increasing your income in the process.
hone a skill, maybe you wanna learn how to cook, or how to fix things, if there's something you want to learn or to be better at, start doing it.
get rid of of your vices, stop smoking, drinking, masturbating, whatever it may be.

Now you could do all of these things and many many more. But the important thing here is that you do it for you and no one else but you. You are the one who needs to set these goals for yourself and you're the one who needs to validate whether you did a good enough job of it, if you didin't or there's new goals, then there's still work to be done. So you keep improving yourself and your goals until you yourself is satisfied, fuck what everyone else thinks they're not the ones who get to validate you, you are. So you start work towards your goals and don't stop until (YOU) are satisfied.

ABicycleRide · 2021-01-01T16:48:07+00:00

Aside from "pornhub is your friend", here are a few hints:

Have friends.

Have passions and hobbies.

Open your mind.

Try things.

Accept that IT'S NORMAL to feel lonely at times! If you think you're never feeling lonely when you are married or with a girlfriend, think again.

Put it into your mind that living a life alone is not perfect, but neither is living in a relationship. Life is whatever you do with it. The important keyword is "DO".

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-01-01T08:09:34+00:00

What is that you seek?

Companionship and life-sharing? Or do you have, y'know, urges?

allen-lifts · 2021-01-01T11:16:57+00:00

Nofap. i'm not joking either, there was a thread on here where someone asked the same as you and a couple of posters said nofap long enough 90 days + and your desire for women wanes heavily. heres the liink https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/k9pzye/looking_for_a_relationship_when_youre_lonely_is/

coastbooster · 2021-01-01T12:24:47+00:00

Fuck a hoe and send her back to the Streets

Cordero_Biggs · 2021-01-01T15:07:29+00:00

Date casually. Its okay to respect someone, find them attractive and enjoy their company. Its even more okay to have several women around that you date casually. Don't allow anyone to leave anything at your place and don't leave anything at theirs.
If feelings begin to develop - walk away. Put more time into personal hobbies and other interests.
I'll never believe that living like a monk, or relying on pros to satisfy every physical urge, is the only way to live MGTOW. You can go your own way by living life on your own terms, in lieu of someone else's.

Reciprocity12 · 2021-01-01T16:06:35+00:00

You are not going to 'outsmart' your biology no matter how many posts you read or videos you watch.

Just play the game and deal with women. Mgtow isn't for all men.

priestMarX · 2021-01-01T22:12:15+00:00

Honestly just do no fap. Meditate. The urge goes away. Also crack the Bible. Jesus is real. Everything in the world is so fucked right now because we are in the end times. The elites are working with Satan to do the Great Reset and institute the New World Order. They want to chip is and give us the Mark of the Beast

totallossguy · 2021-01-02T00:25:18+00:00

Just date and be very upfront with every romantic interaction that you are not interested in tying yourself down or being supportive to your partner.

Lonely? Maybe going your own way isn’t for you. It isn’t for everyone. Best I can say is give it a real shot if it’s something your interested in.

a_aniq · 2021-01-02T07:31:09+00:00

Hey, you do you. But you need to work on yourself first. You should learn to be self sufficient first. Women should make your life easier, they shouldn't be the solution to all your problems. When you are depending on them to reduce loneliness, you will remain lonely no matter what in the long run.

Same goes for women, they should learn to be self sufficient. You shouldn't batter them up with money and what not. Today everybody works for themselves. There's no excuse not to be self sufficient anymore.

Wild-Win8415 · 2021-01-02T08:09:45+00:00

Easy. Don't approach women.

Keppler401 · 2021-01-01T21:14:28+00:00

Then get with a girl. You can either do it online or go out and meet someone. Staying single isn't a brag or anything, and neither being a relationship. If you're lonely and need someone to love, find a person to fill that hole in your heart.

Title	How do I stay single?
Author	aristotleisweak
Upvotes	1
Comments	27
Date	January 1, 2021 7:03 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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