"Were not on the same page."

basebool · 2017-01-12T19:17:11+00:00

Hey free sush is free sush. As long as you don't get sucked in the drama she is probably preparing for you and stay chill, then shit will be fine

RPShitlord · 2017-01-12T19:56:14+00:00

Talking about not being on the same page means she wants to betafy you. Approach from the point of view that she needs to turn to your page, and not vice versa.

That kind of talk isn't for eating out. Postpone sushi for some other time and talk at home.

Yashugan00 · 2017-01-12T21:45:48+00:00

Remember Brifault's Law, that sushi is only free in your mind till you see her pay for it. Plenty of opportunities to get mad about something and walk away.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-01-13T00:00:09+00:00

Be aware that something else may be going on, either there's another fox sniffing around the henhouse, or one of her cunt girlfriends who is unhappy with her life is poisoning your well.

judo_ftw · 2017-01-12T19:22:26+00:00

The glass is already broken. If you don't have any other plates in the air, you're gonna have a bad time.

uwotm891 · 2017-01-12T22:50:01+00:00

Agree and amplify and amused mastery. I wish I would have used this shit on my most current ex ltr rather than playing beta game and arguing my case. Remember son, girls are not rational beings. Don't take what they say as fact because, truthfully, it's just a feeling they have at the moment.

quicklogaccount · 2017-01-12T23:13:17+00:00

She doesn't want to break up with you. If she wanted it and didn't have the courage to do it, she would rather fabricate fights.

She's feeling the need to get more comfort from you. Maybe you failed comfort tests, maybe she's needy. The only way she has to "force" you to give it is by hijacking some of the power (and lead) in the relationship.

You can try to deescalate it by offering some more comfort (comfort, not space. reinforce your fondness of her, don't suggest you need her. If questioned, say you want her), but once the talk takes place you can't concede an inch.

Wallace68LeMay · 2017-01-13T16:03:53+00:00

Op, if I find out you went on this sushi date, I will find you and beat your ass.

Wallace68LeMay · 2017-01-12T19:44:49+00:00

Flake at the last minute on the sushi date and go radio silent for 5-7 days

Title	"Were not on the same page."
Author	paceyboy
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	January 12, 2017 7:14 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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