So I've only just heard about this community, read up a bit and it seemed like something somewhat similar to my beliefs.

So I thought I'd do a short ish intro to see if I've finally found a group of people with similar ideas to my own

  1. I'm not religious. I'm not strictly atheist, as there are few religious principles I agree with, but I dont believe in one single almighty creator

  2. I believe there is a value in purity. Most guys get cheered on when they lose their V-card, but nowadays I'd say KEEPING your purity should have more societal value

  3. I have romantic fantasies, but I dont believe in love. This might sound like something found on r/im14andthisisdeep but I genuinely find that love is a waste of time and effort. As much as it's something I want and crave for, I know that I shouldn't.

  4. I have sexual fantasies, I express them, but I dont act on them. There are things that i want to do sexually, but i also see this as a waste of time, and in some cases, not good for my emotional stability (I'm 17, british, so legal in the UK)

  5. I have a very cynical and Realist world view. Some people say I'm a pessimist but I find that I look at things in the most realistic way possible, which in many cases, is very negative.

  6. Honestly, I want to be able to drop my desires and become more productive and efficient, I've mentioned the possibility of castration to my parents before to which they said "dont be a fucking idiot."

I want to not care about women and sex and live as a human instead of a foolish boy in a man's body, but it just seems impossible, I'd really like to hear peoples thoughts, thanks for reading :)