I (18M) have been lurking around all these popular/controversial subreddits revolving around men, women, dating and related shit for over a year now. Ultimately, I'm stuck with this question:

Which 'group' of men provides the best mindset to follow to be able to make the best out of the next 12 years, until I hit 30?

By groups, I mean these:

(1) MRAs

(2) MGTOW

(3) PUAs

(4) Redpill / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

(5) Blackpill

(6) Incels

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My experience so far:

I think I'm too disinterested in debating online for men's rights and stuffing myself up with political shit right now, so MRA is a no-no for me.

I read MGTOW and PUA and Redpill / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen, which is good to follow, but often leads to unhappiness and dissatisfaction at the end of the day, when I see the bluepill dream fallen apart and find myself alone.

I was advised to go through the blackpill, but unfortunately, it had already been corrupted by incel talks and debates when I was going through it, that it worked negatively and planted strong insecurities and issues in me, adding up to the loneliness.

I've been HUGELY fortunate to have come across David Goggins' podcasts and his book (Can't Hurt Me) and that is brought an immense shift in my mindset. As of now, I feel he has more of a MGTOW mindset (although he has a fiance now? idk), and he spends the least part of his head to think about women in general.

So, I'm planning to do the same, to go off Reddit and move away from all of this content and drown myself in self-development and mind work.

Conclusion: I feel like not thinking about women is more MGTOW than scrolling through the subreddit MGTOW.
I don't know how much sense my post has made, but I've basically poured out what has been inside my head for some time.

Would love to know what you guys think about this and feel free to provide any helpful input/advice. Thanks.