A thought ....

Sid_Insidious · 2020-02-22T23:09:26+00:00

oh if you don't want sex, I can' see a reason to bring a woman into your life - in the modern world.

IBudgetForIt · 2020-02-22T23:14:04+00:00

Wow, you don't feel like having sex or some kind of intimacy? That's amazing to me, I'm 60 and the craving for that is still very strong. Fortunately, I finally figured out ways to get that craving satisfied without a dating relationship.

everydaygreyman · 2020-02-23T01:32:59+00:00

No 2 is absolute misery. Women expect this nonsense now. Back when marriage was necessary for survival (it's true purpose) wives didn't expect this bullshit. They were too busy taking care of the children and the home while the men tended the farm or the shop or toiled at the factory or the shipyard or what have you. Nowadays feelings trump loyalty and commitment and responsibility and consequences and the family court rewards women for this infantile behavior and idiot's expectations and destroy men's lives in the process.

Never marry gents, NEVER marry.

Impossible-asset · 2020-02-23T01:37:21+00:00

Get yourself a good few dozen hookers on a vacation. That'll take care if you for the year when it comes to that.

When you do finally realize that the best companion you could ever have is not a woman, but a good dog. Itll make you appreciate women for what they're good for (sex and not much else), and why the saying that dog's are man's best friend is true.

utalo · 2020-02-23T02:10:22+00:00

In its most fundamental DNA, any relationship is predicated on the premises of invalidation of a male partner's existence unless the living conditions of the female partner are improved, accentuated, refined, etc by the active efforts and sacrifices of the man.

There is great natural and biological imperative that predisposes a man to self-sacrifice in order to meet his reproduction mandate.

There is really no rational discussion. Biology trumps cognitive/rational thought process. Only reason MGTOW exists is because women's demands and their behavior is non-conducive to an average beta's reproduction strategy. The demarcation of incels and MGTOW occur because a woman has ceased to be a man's partner. One accepts it and moves on, other laments and holds grudge against women forever.

Keep taking strolls in the nature. It is best anti-dote to narcissistic tendencies that humanity has been enshrined with from all the social media apps.

DangZagnut · 2020-02-22T23:05:51+00:00

early retirement life

That should be the focus. Bad financial times are ahead, or good ones if you have the opportunity to invest on the down swing.

801735 · 2020-02-23T00:08:06+00:00

5. What does SHE bring? WHY would you bother, you know?

6. (crickets after you being called gay)

GTOH4U · 2020-02-23T11:33:22+00:00

I think we all start thinking these things when we start rationally analysing it all. The one question that sets it all up is....

"What does she bring to the table that on balance enhances my life".

That coupled with your own red lines...

I think about 80% of men should avoid marriage, but it's their internal weakness that they fall foul of.

sainterosa92 · 2020-02-23T14:33:34+00:00

I mean honestly a relationship would require a lot of compromise on both parties to allow for anything of reason.

Not all women need lavish but would definitely cost more than living with roommates (actually that even depends how bills are split). $900 a month for a half decent place, 2 bedroom, no washer/dryer free water and a $120 eléctrico bill and whatever services you want split 50/50. Maybe not cheaper than $500 a month but not totally unrealistic.

Dating and having mutual fun can cost as much as tolerable for both of you. But yes this is very dependent. I see women with broke men all the time so it might not be an issue or it may be.

The meals at home is very questionable, some women can't even cook and even if they can it won't usually be much different to you being alone cooking for yourself or going out, going out though can cost you twice as much as it cost by yourself or even more. Some women are willing to cook everyday or other few days (assuming she also cooks in a few days extra instead of one meal, which I think is a horrible way to cook).

Honestly the issue with having a woman is you have to compromise life for her happiness and if not careful it will be a lose lose for you, often women will add unnecessary and ever changing complexity (my mother is a good exam55 of that, ever changing desires and rules), eventually you will find your life is too disrupted if you let it fo too far, I personally have a very efficient life style so anyone changing it to fit their own minds and needs (or laziness) would really peeve me off, one thing is laundry, never do I want anyone doing my laundry they always have everything disorderly, it's folded yes, but I always pair things to make outfits, it can take an hour to pair everything, but it's what I do.

Honestly it's good to not be driven by the desire, your life isn't just about having a wife and kids or mating, ultimately you have to have a life fitting to yourself, even when being selfless you have to take care of yourself to be able to function at all for as long as possible.

ElOweTea · 2020-02-23T12:41:04+00:00

Do you practice semen retention?

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-02-23T22:53:07+00:00

In this day n age marriage is a lose lose situation. Especialky since the average is 7 yrs before divorce rape.

Title	A thought ....
Author	Quest4Peace
Upvotes	1
Comments	34
Date	February 22, 2020 11:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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