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What are some less noticeable red flags?

Poptart318
January 21, 2017
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Title What are some less noticeable red flags?
Author

Poptart318
Upvotes 5
Comments 13
Date January 21, 2017 11:33 PM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5pdp9a/what_are_some_less_noticeable_red_flags/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/what-are-some-less-noticeable-red-flags.81186
https://theredarchive.com/post/81186
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Comments

[–]JuanLesPins11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

For me and in the LTR context: parents divorced; no girl friends/most guys friends; tattoos(noticeable); Travelled the WorldTM ; needs/wants constant attention; father is "not a man"; smokes.

When they say "I don't cook"...

[–]Poptart318[S] 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Those are good. Especially the "I don't cook"

[–]lietruth1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel like "I don't cook" is a really complex shit test meant to weed out the betas. Like the modern day Disney princess shit test- that you have to con her into somehow.

My LTR never used to cook. Same Disney shit test. But every time I was in the kitchen making my food- I'd tell her to do tasks like "cut the vegetables really small "or "get me the coconut milk" and "mix this for 5 minutes".

She happily helped every single time. Not one complaint. This really helped develop the "captain/first-mate" dynamic as well.

A few months later, and she's totally oblivious to it now. But she cooks 70% of the food between us.

[–]-drukpa-kunley-7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Watch how she treats the people she DOESN'T need. Waitstaff, people beneath her socially, strangers, etc.

If she treats them with anything other than respect, that is an insight into her personality.

[–]mrrooftops1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a big one. Massive.

[–]theredpill221 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the most important one if you ask me.

There's so much focus on looks here. I have no intention of spending time with shitty people, even if they are attractive.

[–]JuanLesPins0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good one! I missed it in my comment.

[–]honeydogg7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not cooking is huge. I've spent too much time with chicks in the past looking past this one; thought to myself: "Eh, it's not that bad. She'll learn or I'll pick up the slack".

Fuck that. It's basically the equivalent of a guy saying he doesn't lift.

Don't LTR chicks that can't cook. One day you may have a crazy cold and fever, so you need to stay in bed for a couple of days. Good luck getting her to turn on part of the brain that says: "I should take care of my man while he's getting better".

[–]TheBrokenRuler 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If she complains about something on the 1st or 2nd date, and you spin her as a plate for a few months, she'll bitch about those two things endlessly if you let her

[–]ecosci2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Victim mode all the time.

[–]Nyquil-Junkie4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Statements like "When I had a penis....."

[–]ViceTerm2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Major Key.

[–]crf13971 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Especially when she forget her hormones at her place, and there as snow storm, so you are stranded. By the time we got out his beard was longer than mine

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