Ok so sometimes I post red pill/gender related stuff here because I feel like it’s relevant.
Story time - I met a girl in college and we sent texts back and fourth. Not sure if we were friends on fb but we kept planning to chill. Anyhow, we were all drinking one night and she came over. One thing lead to another and we were in bed together going at it. Suddenly she has to take a call while I’m fucking her and tells me to be quiet. It’s her man. She says all these loving things in a soft voice while I’m inside her. She finally says I love you and we finish up. She also bleed all over my sheets. Turns out it was her boyfriend. I go on her Facebook and they are in an extremely loving long term relationship, he’s ad a different school. This girl was like 5 foot tall and seemed so sweet and feminine and shy. At the time I thought I was the man, in fact I bragged about it.
But over the years it’s really worn on me. Any woman im dating, whenever they call, I go into panic mode. Like heart races, scared, mind racing, anxiety filled panic. Any noise I hear over the phone I think about how coldly that girl treated her man back when. She never asked me if it was cool. Honestly I think that’s how it is with rape. Maybe the girl doesn’t consent or she is confused and thinks it’s a good idea. Then several years later she associates sex with confusion and fear and it fucks up her future relationships.
All cases are different and my point is to more just show how guys can go through sexual traumas too. And not just losers but “Chads” get used and can develop distorted ideas of sex and relationships.