I finally made the decision to accept the decision my STBXW made. She asked for the divorce and I tried for the last 3 months to try and work on our issues. I can no longer waste my time with someone that doesn’t value me. I have my fair share of the blame for this divorce but I refuse to always be the villain. Luckily no children involved. I chose the wrong person and I’ll be much more selective in the future, for now I’m focused on myself and my mental and physical health. Be compassionate to yourself.