I asked my wife for a divorce last year. Our anniversary was a few days ago and I find myself missing her. I scrolled through her pictures and I felt hot, sad, ashamed. When I asked her for the divorce I wasn't sure if it was the right call and during the speration I wasnt sure. I told her I needed time to decide. She didn't want to wait until I was ready to give her an answer. She made me give her a time frame but I wasnt ready when the time came to give her an answer . she has since moved in and she has told me there is no chance at reconciliation. I understand where she is coming from, no one wants to wait forever. I am not the kind of person who will fight a losing battle. I just wish she could have been more patient and let me have my space and time needed.