So other than getting a lawyer in preparation for custody and money reasons what else is helpful. She’s a stay at home mom but hasn’t kept up her end of the bargain. Would pictures of an absolute dump of a house be helpful for attorney/court? How about keeping a journal of all the things she has done, like spend money recklessly? Does any of this help a guys cause when it comes to a divorce? Anything else I should be doing to get prepared? I feel it coming