So there's a bartender at this quiet place nearby. We grt along pretty well and she is likely dtf. Long story but I am well aware that she is "paid to be nice" and all that. This is another type of game I'm playing.

Anyway, the other night I was there, got wasted and the sexual talk started getting more and more open and explicit. Her friend was there at the bar (along with another guy) who were all kind of going along with it.

At some point I just blurted out a couple of weird way-too-explicit things (to the girls) like "do you girls wax or shave?" And "when was the last time you went down on a girl?"

I was drunk as fuck and just didn't care at the moment if they were offended.

I could tell these put me in the "creep zone" real fast. Thing is, I like going to this bar as some friends from my neighborhood go to it on the weekends but I'm not sure how to handle interaction with the chick now.

Just pretend it never happened? Double down on it and "hold frame"? Acknowledge that I was fucked up and saying weird shit.

I am almost in the zone of just saying "hey, about the other night I got a little too blitzed and realize I may have crossed a line." Or some such?

I don't really care at this point but would rather maintain a friendly dynamic with them in the future (free drinks / staying after they close, etc)

Anyone have experience recovering from ok foot in mouth?