I’m exhausted and I don’t know what the right thing to do is. Her lawyer went off the rails, lying and saber rattling to the point that my stbx went on her own, ditched the lawyer. But the negotiations barely moved the needle only modest concessions and now I’m about to be laid off. She’ll effectively get the majority of the severance if I just look at the numbers in total. I write this and I know I shouldn’t sign. But I’m over this Bs.

How much will I get back 20% ? Doing the spread sheet calculation on standard of living and the duration of the marriage the agreement isn’t far off.

Idk guys. Better to pay 20k excess and move on? Next step is litigation.