Post first date....

oldsoulkt · 2017-02-07T14:03:16+00:00

Read the sidebar. Stop snapping and texting her. Texting is for logistics. Schedule another meet up, apply kino, etc. and see what happens from there. Women love to talk, but always ignore what they say; instead, pay attention to what they do. If she declines the meet up and doesn't offer a reschedule don't text her again, find another girl who's interested. Stop sending snaps. You are not her snapchat buddy.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-02-07T14:24:46+00:00

You spent hours qualifying yourself to her over snapchat and text, and other insecure, validation-seeking behaviors.

You should have called and set up another meeting, then found something better to occupy your time than constantly fiddling with your phone.

Next day sent her a message asking did she reckoned we "clicked"?

Validation-seeking. Who the fuck cares? either she agrees to meet you again, or she doesn't.

Unabummer80 · 2017-02-07T14:31:23+00:00

Next day sent her a message asking did she reckoned we "clicked"? (Had asked her out to see if we "click"!) She just said there were times where we had nothing to say to each other. I replied saying it could have been 1st date nerves or there prob was no chemistry. But despite not being sure before meeting, I liked her and I'd like to see her again.

She then went onto say "I don't sleep with men on first date" which I dealt with.

None of this sounds any good. She was kissing, she was into you. You didnt need to ask if you 'clicked'. You come off too keen. You do to me anyway.

TheBlackAlistar · 2017-02-07T15:33:52+00:00

Her saying she doesn't sleep with men on first dates is just a typical shit test. If you were Brad Pitt, she'd be in your bed on the first night.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-02-07T17:24:39+00:00

Next day sent her a message asking did she reckoned we "clicked"?

You doomed yourself and entered her frame by doing this.

Game, set, match

She just said there were times where we had nothing to say to each other.

Translation: I am not attracted to you

I replied saying it could have been 1st date nerves or there prob was no chemistry. But despite not being sure before meeting, I liked her and I'd like to see her again.

Digging the hole deeper, and deeper, and deeper

Few more snapchats back and forth but I sent her one yesterday morning and haven't heard anything.

And you continue to orbit her, be clingy, and make yourself too available, pushing her further and further away.

but I reckon she is into me

Denial is a river in Egypt

oldslut · 2017-02-07T23:53:28+00:00

you asked her if you clicked? if you were near me, i would hit you on your head with your own dirty shoe. pathetic. why would you ask that? wtf? from there, it just got even more cringe worthy. if she was into to you, you're creepy texts scared her away. you need to study the side bar. i don't believe you actually have read it already. so, she keeps sending you texts, and you keep failing miserably. tell her to meet up with you again, and go from there. and stop caring about what she thinks. she's not your professor giving you are report card. would a high value man ever ask that? fuck no, he would not give a shit.

1NV0K3R · 2017-02-07T15:37:28+00:00

"I don't sleep with men on first date"

That's funny. Because I definitely slept with her on the first date.

I reckon she is into me. Not sure how to proceed.

protip: no she's not

Title	Post first date....
Author	neaideabh
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	February 7, 2017 1:57 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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