Is any kind of touching considered an IOI?

lietruth · 2017-02-23T08:54:35+00:00

Yes.

Any physical contact initiated on her part is a good sign.

She wouldn't do it if she was disinterested.

Toussant · 2017-02-23T10:56:05+00:00

Depends on how hard the slap hurt.

Sometimes they kino generally to make someone jealous too.

Just keep escalating, don't reject yourself, make her do it and see what happens.

quicklogaccount · 2017-02-23T11:51:54+00:00

A shy girl will poke me for no reason when talking to me but won't do it to others.

Yep, it seems she's looking into initiating kino, doesn't it?
Touch her and see if she shrinks away or receives it better.

NewZealandSed · 2017-02-23T12:33:18+00:00

Yes assume IOI unless it's a kick to the balls or the likes.

TheStumblingWolf · 2017-02-23T13:28:57+00:00

If she does <x> to you and not to others it's probably an IOI. Similarly if she does something that'd normally be considered an IOI but to everyone it might not be.

summermatters · 2017-02-23T14:52:40+00:00

I used to think so, but one of my females friends who touched me a lot rejected me when I asked her out.

On the other hand, I have other female friends who love touching their guy friends (including me), and I doubt they're interested in all of us.

Poptart318 · 2017-02-23T20:53:36+00:00

Ask her to poke your dick next time. Jk it's a good sign that she's into you.

oldredder · 2017-02-23T09:36:17+00:00

No, some pokes and buddy-high-fives and just-friend-hugs are for sure anti-IOIs that are sending out the just-a-friend / friend-zone signal.

Occams_Stubble · 2017-02-23T15:32:17+00:00

They will also touch Beta Orbiter 'pals', keeps the orbit close.

Title	Is any kind of touching considered an IOI?
Author	RedOnGear
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	February 23, 2017 8:52 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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