Had my first RP aware encounter last night. Me 30 6'2 240 not great body but confident in myself, her early/mid 20s HB8 but lower SMV - drugs, law issues etc but clean now. Date went as expected, switched venues 3 times, kino went well etc. We split late dinner, her 3 drinks me 0. She was throwing out weird mixed signals, but I thought nothing of it at the time and held frame mostly throughout. Once I looked back on it I realized:
in public places like the cafe and restaurant she was receptive to kino, reciprocating and generally seemed happy to be seen with me. But in more private setting - sidewalks and benches but nobody around - she was cagey and standoffish. In my first obviously overt kino I gently pulled her in very close to me while she's talking outside, and over time she drifted away slowly so I pulled her back again (1 example).
What does this tell us?
I didn't realize this at the time because like I said I didn't pay any attention to her mixed signals.
So dinner went well but I got a bit board by the end, so I planned to take her home. Then she said 'lets go somewhere else' as we got in the car so I figured it was on. Drove around a bit to find some boonies to take her, eventually found a spot. As I pull up she says 'what are we doing?' and I just gave her a look 'like don't give me that shit'. As I'm stopping I said 'well this place looks fine' and she said the same thing again.. I stared her straight in the eyes without breaking eye contact, put the car in park turned off the lights and leaned over and kissed her. . .
Makeout session went okay, she threw out 3 or 4 standard shit tests and I gave textbook RP responses which worked. She gave me the same shit test twice tho: 'We're not having sex tonight' which 1st time I laughed at her and said 'you're not even my type darling' with heavy sarcasm, 2nd time I said 'damn girl all you think about is sex'. No big deal with the first 3-4 shit tests. She wasn't really reciprocating that strongly and generally I was just unimpressed with her enthusiasm but kissing and touching her was fun (she's hot). I'm thinking she may be emotionally damaged? She had 3 drinks and is pretty loose casual girl who was giving strong IOIs and yet kisses like a milk jug. So finally one of the times I pull away a bit:
TL;DR after about 5-8 minutes making out she says 'ok let's go' in a tone that conveys she's uncomfortable. I was caught way off guard and immediately said 'home?!!?' like flabbergasted, which she said yeah, and I gave her a weird look for about 3-4 seconds thinking. I couldn't come up with a good response, all I could think of were whiney and out of frame responses. Plus I was tired and not that hot for her anyway, so I simply said okay.
Is this LMR? It didn't feel like it, but now I assume it is.
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