Has swallowing the red pill had any weird side effects for anyone?

hateCaptchas · 2013-07-20T03:17:39+00:00

What are the benefits of these gender roles?

I view gender roles as a sensible distribution of work. How that happens can vary quite a bit from couple to couple. Traditional gender roles happened - well, because of history.

Do most people date in college until they find an awesome partner to battle through the rest of life with? Because that is my current plan...

Well, I can't speak for everyone, but that's what I did.

I think there's a real advantage to building a relationship young. One, is that you grow up together - you learn how to navigate adulthood with one another. The trick to longevity is remembering your responsibility to remain an awesome partner after you've found Mr. Awesome. (For whatever values of "awesome" that apply.)

Welcome.

sugarcrush · 2013-07-20T03:36:08+00:00

If you don't want children while in school, you will need to decide which is more important to you. The only other options are have children before and go back, or go to grad school first and take the gamble with fertility and egg quality. Freezing and IVF is wildly expensive especially since insurance wouldnt cover it in a non necessary case like this. Adoption is rather expensive and time consuming as well, unless you want to go the foster route.

I did date while in high school and college. I had my first serious bf my senior year of high school through the beginning of my second year of college. Then I met my husband during my second year and we've been together since, obviously! So it was a good plan for me.

TempestTcup · 2013-07-20T14:12:19+00:00

I know this wasn't the question, but how serious are you about grad school? Is it a program that will be lucrative? How far in debt will you be when you finish? Captain Capitalism has an excellent book "Worthless" that really explains how degrees work in today's society.

Will that grad degree be worth putting off marriage & children? You really need to make some hard decisions & figure out your priorities now so that you don't have regrets in the future.

ButterfliesOnSunday · 2013-07-20T14:47:50+00:00

You should do whatever you want, have kids when you want, go to school whatever. But take time to consider your long term goals and figure out how you can get there. Then see if all of your short term plans still seem appropriate or logical to you.

You need to have your life together, be able to take care of yourself, financially, emotionally and in every other sense of the word. Just be happy with yourself. Once you've accomplished that, you will be ready to meet someone, whenever and wherever that may happen to be. The alpha male we refer to is a man who will stand his ground and be able to take care of his own, as well as, you. You don't want someone you can walk all over right? you want a partner not a puppet.

If you read more into the TRP and RPW you will start to realize the reasons why men and women do the things we do. The more you understand the reasoning, the more successful your future relationships can be. After all, we're going to do the things we do anyway, might as well know why.

Just relax and figure out what YOU want and then figure out what you need to do to get those things. And as far as men, think long term too. Yeah he may be super nice and do everything you say now but is this what you want in the long term? You don't want a pushover, you are looking for a father for your children and a partner to spend your life with. Not every man will fit into your plan, so just now what you are looking for and what you want out of it.

margerym · 2013-07-20T03:57:11+00:00

It's not impossible to have children while in school. It comes down to figuring out your priorities and working around your top one.

Title	Has swallowing the red pill had any weird side effects for anyone?
Author	Katiekat33
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Date	July 20, 2013 2:08 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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