Hi, I am in the middle of a strictly personal endeavor to better define where I stand on many ideological issues.

I am looking for a book, or an essay, or a Youtube lecture, that presents both the feminist point of view and the antifeminist one. Something that tries to clean up the ideological mess and sees through the propaganda. I asked for that in AskFeminists. I was told there is no such a work to their best knowledge, and I was redirected to contemporary feminist books like "Me, not you".

But I CAN'T STAND THOSE BOOKS! If you want I can share with you all the inaccurate points the authors make, or the opinions presented as facts I identified before being fed up and throwing the books in the bin.

I want an angry-free, mostly factual, overview that explains what modern feminists, women, men and MRAs think on the gender issue. I want it clear, simple and to the point. Is there such a thing?