I was looking around on r/Feminists and found this little gem. To be honest this annoyed me because their acting like this happens to every women ever every single day. Do they honestly that a male want a female to stare at them because their cute or muscular? What are your guys thoughts?

nitamadee · 2020-09-12T05:39:06+00:00

You don't need a reason for bad people to do bad stuff. I've experienced stuff like that, it's common. There are enough reasons as to why there is a dress code, my mother would've never let me worn leggings as pants to school. Some stuff you do only gets bad attention, and we don't stand still to think about it. While I am sure that harassment is common for girls/women .. I'm also very sure that boys/men too get harassed (it's just not talked about it that much).

qemist · 2020-09-12T03:38:46+00:00

Do they honestly that a male want a female to stare at them because their cute or muscular?

What?

thereslcjg2000 · 2020-09-12T04:59:51+00:00

The majority of these are more about her feeling like no one will help her than actual experiences.

runthereszombies · 2020-09-12T13:43:54+00:00

You seem to think women don't get harassed... especially if you live in a city sexual harassment is a daily thing. Guys following you into the subway station, into stores, down the street, etc. Will say disgusting shit that's so bad that the guy who works the counter is visibly uncomfortable and you feel the need to be on the phone with someone just in case he tries to follow you home. When you ignore them they call you a whore and get in your face. Doesn't matter what you look like or what you're wearing. I've been sexually harassed wearing sweats. Men are bigger and will make you feel scared.

If you dont sexually harass women, good on you. But don't assume it doesn't happen all the time because it does.

dzkrf · 2020-09-12T03:47:20+00:00

Tl;dr

Whenever I see a wall of text like that I assume the writer has issues.

Darrkelite · 2020-09-12T17:43:25+00:00

What do I think?

I think this has nothing to do with Men's Rights and is just an excuse to bash feminism.

mikesteane · 2020-09-12T07:47:44+00:00

A series of minor events over a quarter of a century. Most blokes have far, far worse stories to tell than these. Not to justify any of it, but if she thinks she has done it hard because she is a woman, she is completely wrong.

freedom2b2t · 2020-09-12T15:32:11+00:00

The thing I never really understood is why some of these lady’s don’t report being attacked or sexually assaulted? Now about the school thing? What school in hell would do that. A guy at my school broke up with his gf and told the school he assaulted her and he got expelled until it was found out she was lying, no school would ever punish a female for saying he was grabbed on the ass....

goldenjuniper · 2020-09-12T14:48:32+00:00

I'm certainly not going to say that women don't have a fuck ton of adversity to overcome in life. Least of which is being sexualized at a very young age.

Hell, I even think feminism is a good resource to help women with these issues.

But feminism overall is rife with half truths and outright lies. It leads women down a victim hole where they start seeing every encounter through the lens of the oppressed and twist normal, everyday interactions as oppression. Feminists see equal treatment as misogyny.

It would be great if feminism could work on legitimate problems that women face without the false narrative of being oppressed by the patriarchy. That bullshit isn't necessary to tackle sexual assault.

kurkurkurkurkurkurku · 2020-09-12T12:58:21+00:00

Feminists have victim complex spread this

qemist · 2020-09-12T13:15:09+00:00

For people who hate sexual attention women seem to invest a great deal in attracting it.

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