I figured this might be a good place to post, because not many people consider how men loose their V card, only that it’s gone. Meanwhile, most people DO ask this question about women, while they hypnotically prefer that women do have their v card. It’s a very strange double standard.

My boyfriend (20M) and I (22F) are long distance, and I’m driving up to see him in early September. It’s been happily agreed that we will be having sex. It will be his first time, and I want to make it special. My first time wasn’t great, so I want to make sure his is fantastic so he doesn’t have to feel like I did. He means the absolute world to me.

Men of Reddit: what’s the ideal way you would have liked to loose your virginity? What can I do to make it special?

(FYI I did try to post this to r/askmen but it wouldn’t let me with a throwaway account. My boyfriend and I follow each other’s mains.)