I wish male victims of sexual abuse were taken more siriously

turbulance4 · 2020-07-28T15:14:33+00:00

I seem to see more [removed] posts linked here than one's that are still here. I think we should just start linking directly to archives

IamBex999 · 2020-07-28T13:35:01+00:00

My (soon to be ex) husband sexualy assulted one of his male friends during a MFM threesome, that he (the ex) had invited him (the friend) to participate in, by forcing oral on him - after clear boundaries has already been set around no male on male sexual contact being made because his friend was straight - in an effort to sexualy humiliate said friend into submission like he (the ex) was use to doing to me.

When I went to police about what the ex had been doing to me this friend made a false stament against me and in favour of the ex who sexualy assulted him.

I was fucking furious - until I realised the stigma of it all. Of course the friend lied. How could he not lie.

Breaks my heart.

Ironwarrior29 · 2020-07-28T15:27:58+00:00

And it's been removed, typical

kaii_king · 2020-07-28T15:33:32+00:00

I made a petition on this subject months ago. It amassed a large amount of signatures within 2 weeks and was shared by a lot of big pages in the U.K. and wouldn’t you know it the government sent out a reply saying they have no reason to consider this petition. Men very much are tossed aside in these regards.

Also that post was removed; what a surprise.

jasperhaan · 2020-07-28T15:07:28+00:00

it got removed

True-Lychee · 2020-07-28T17:10:42+00:00

Here's the deleted post if anyone is interested:

The reason I say this is because I just watched a video of a male Uber driver basically getting groped. Many of the comments were saying "he liked it because he was holding her hand" "if the cameras weren't on he would've taken them home".

There's two things wrong with this. First the blatant victim blaming. When I'm touched uncomfortably with no invitation I smile because I'm nervous and I have no idea how to react, not because I like it. I wouldn't be surprised if the guy was having the same reaction I do.

He was probably holding her hand to get her to stop touching him. The second problem with those comments are the fact they are assuming a sober man would take advantage of clearly drunk girls. Not every man wants to fuck 24/7. It was late, dude was just doing his job and trying to make money.

It pisses me off because those comments and others similar to it insinuate that men have no self control and will fuck anything that comes to them, even if it's UNWANTED GROPING. That is assault, no matter who it's coming from. Unwelcomed touching is not fucking okay.

IdiomMalicious · 2020-07-28T15:54:07+00:00

They took down the post. What did it say?

rahsoft · 2020-07-28T12:38:52+00:00

I know of a case in the Uk where a driver( not sure if uber or normal taxi) was accused of sexual assault. He got the usual "men are bad" attacks and the heavy treatment from the police. the only thing that saved him was that he had in cab cam recording that shows a drunk woman behaving badly, hence why I believe that most uber/taxi drivers would never want to get involved with their passengers because of the risk, plus there have been a number of cases whereby passengers do a runner to avoid paying the fare and use the claim of attempted rape or sexual assault to justify their actions.

I wonder if these women ( who attack drivers falsely accused) realise that eventually drivers will just refuse to pick up any fares at night that involves young women especially those who are drunk or have been out on a social night out, and then they will be more at risk( but not at any less risk than men) trying to get home in the middle of the night..

Hexalt_ · 2020-07-28T15:45:59+00:00

And it got removed ? HMMMMMM

RichManSCTV · 2020-07-28T15:56:07+00:00

annnnd removed

blaizken_420 · 2020-07-28T16:38:00+00:00

Fucking removed. Of course.

shinbet · 2020-07-28T09:59:47+00:00

Sorry for misquoting the original post title, I'm dumb

Assassinboi21 · 2020-07-28T17:07:00+00:00

People these days don’t understand what “forced to penetrate“ means. They think that females can’t rape men. Stop underestimating females.

2717192619192 · 2020-07-28T17:26:19+00:00

The sad thing is. If this topic was posted in any other sub, it would be taken down and you would most likely be banned because it doesn't fit the victimhood narrative.

TheDraconianOne · 2020-07-28T17:41:17+00:00

And of course it’s removed, I knew it would be. Fuck r/rant and it’s shitty mods.

W0lf2033 · 2020-07-28T17:51:22+00:00

This kind of censorship is exactly why men suffer in silence. Nobody gives a fuck about us, we have to suffer in utter silence because If we don’t we’re not man enough. And when someone has the gumption to speak up, it’s removed by the same people who virtue signal on the internet all day. So done with it.

2020-07-28T17:02:57+00:00

It's always the same bullshit "bUt YoU eNjOyEd iT!!!!!"

bigred9310 · 2020-07-28T18:17:38+00:00

Men are treated the same here in the United States. Female teachers who have sex with male students get a slap on the wrists. And men saying “Where was that babe when I was in high school” or “He’s 16 he wanted it teens are always horny”. But if a man were to do the same he’s facing 15-25.

Thatawesomeguy4 · 2020-07-28T21:09:37+00:00

r/rant mod response

I messaged the mod team about this post’s deletion and here is what they said.

Matt_the_Alien · 2020-07-29T01:11:50+00:00

It’s probably not going to happen, I’ve told multiple people my story and nobody remembers to the next day

bigred9310 · 2020-07-28T18:13:52+00:00

Well you can thank other men for that. Where was that teacher when I was a kid.

seannymcmuffin · 2020-07-28T18:42:52+00:00

You know it’s not being highlighted when it’s classified as a rant

Autistocrat · 2020-07-28T20:45:23+00:00

What does a Canadian pancake taste like?

GizmoBerbies · 2020-07-28T21:37:26+00:00

No one cares. I was molested at school by a female 23 year old teacher when I was 11. No one cares.

Title	I wish male victims of sexual abuse were taken more siriously
Author	shinbet
Upvotes	1025
Comments	51
Date	July 28, 2020 9:57 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/hzbwy3/i_wish_male_victims_of_sexual_abuse_were_taken/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/i-wish-male-victims-of-sexual-abuse-were-taken.846855 https://theredarchive.com/post/846855

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