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Help me TRP. I feel like shit.

tryhard-exe
December 5, 2013
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Title Help me TRP. I feel like shit.
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tryhard-exe
Upvotes 0
Comments 24
Date December 5, 2013 12:42 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1s4ejk/help_me_trp_i_feel_like_shit/
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[–]dabidniss 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Forget about her. On to the next one man. How old are you?

[–]tryhard-exe[S] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

18, I'm new to this and it's hitting me full force. It goes against everything I was taught. I asked the girl out and was direct. I'm usually calm and non reactive, patient and funny. Those are good but I just didn't know what to do after getting the girl. I didn't kiss her or really do anything. Kinda feel into the provider role.

[–]jolly--roger 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

18, what the fuck would I give to have that age again, having the knowledge I have now.

Swallow TRP, it is the best fucking thing that could ever happen to you.

[–]tryhard-exe[S] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm swallowing but it's just stuck. It'll get there man. I promise, it's just hard initially. After this experience it's getting kinda easier

[–]jolly--roger 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, (probably) most of us have been there. It will pass, you'll actually have a good laugh about it later, no doubt about that.

You got here early and you've got time. Consider yourself very lucky and don't waste it.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

remember that almost everyone in this forum has had the same difficulty swallowing the pill. What you went through was shitty but it could have been so much worse. It sounds like she wasn't into you or you were holding back a lot. Take an honest look at yourself and see where you could improve. Don't blame this girl for not finding you attractive anymore than you would blame yourself for not finding a fatty attractive. Find the problem and eliminate it.

[–]tryhard-exe[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Much more holding back than anything else. I lied to myself and said she's different and I should take it slow. I know what I wanted, so I asked her out. I was confident, said we would go bowling at this day on this time blah blah blah. I did all of that correct then I held back after a week. Then it just went downhill. Time to stop holding back. I'm a fucking man who knows what he wants and what he needs to do to get it.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Best of luck to you man. I hope trp helps you out as much as it has me.

[–]tryhard-exe[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

With advice like this and people like you here supporting me I know I'll make it.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]tryhard-exe[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

How do I maintain it? I get girls attracted to me because of kickboxing and guitar and I'm funny. After a while it just gets stale.

[–]peopleofthepine 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

By turning the conversation sexual as soon as your fairly sure she's attracted. Look up escalation ladder.

If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you've always got.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]tryhard-exe[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Become more sexual, got it. Thank you and everyone else in this subreddit. This is what I've needed, I feel a shit ton better now.

[–]648262 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Don't let it get to you.

Look at it like this: has that girl given you anything? If you saw the potential for something, but she did not provide it then she's given you nothing. Nothing but the feeling of shit.

And great for your friend, he got a blowjob from some worthless slut. I say worthless because from your perspective she did not provide you with anything of value.

The conclusion? Next her, find a few new plates.

If you had two additional girls, who provides you with something of value, then loosing that one girl does not matter much, now does it?

It's easy being me in this situation though. I'm just a keyboard jockey providing some complex theory to an unknown person somewhere. I know the feeling you have now though. It's the worst of the worst. Get away from it and your mind on to something else. Forget she exists. Play a video game, call your mother, socialize or hit the gym. Keep yourself busy.

[–]tryhard-exe[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This is good advice, thank you.

[–]648262 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You're young and I completely understand that experiencing and reflecting what you're going through now is rough. You now see how the world is, and it's not pretty.

But you're young and that's your strength. You don't see that to the full extent yet, but you will in time.

Consider yourself lucky. There are hundreds of men here that wish they could trade places with you. 18 and TRP? Shit... I'd trade in a second!

Stay strong and carry on.

[–]tryhard-exe[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Stay strong and calm

[–]newgabe 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

First off forget about her. She isnt the one. No girl is. Second, either congrat ur friend or cut ties. I would say cut ties since u wont ever grt over this for a couple of years. Accept the fact that girls are sluts, cheaters, whores, etc. Work on yourself (mental knowledge, trade skills, physical build, personal hobbies, social interaction) and the bitches will come...

[–]tryhard-exe[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Alright man, I'll do that.

[–]newgabe 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I know it sounds harsh. But I almost had it happen to me. I was trying to get this girl to see me. Developed oneitis hard. If she didnt call or text me back, id get angry and sad, etc.. then one day she calls my best friend that ive known since middle school up and wants to meet with him. He goes to her work, but she INSTEAD tells him to meet her at her house. Now I went on a couple dates with her and she never invited me in... ever. It confused me until I read TRP. He comes from the Southside of atl, he is ADD, is pretty physcially built, has money, and is overall socially active. I am the opposite. I am from northern metro suburbs, I am aspie/ocd, dont have much money, am not as built as I should, and am introverted so I shy from social interaction bc I hate it. I understood then and there why she was willing to invite him and not me. She viewed him as a possible mate. He told me the next day, that she cooked for him and put on a movie for them to watch. He initially said bed but then changed it to couch. I was mad for a couple days but then I got it. I shouldnt be mad at him... but her. She is the one "whoring" to the best mate... he was not pursuing her. It is difficult to get over but once you work on yourself, the rest will come.

(Oh I also had a death threat from a guy who found out about an affair I had.. said hed kill me and etc... I told him straight up. "If I see you anywhere around my spot (around atl) and ur girl is not holding you back, I will put one between your eyes, you hear me. I am not afraid of you and you better think twice before contacting me again." Sounds tough bc it is. It made me feel alpha (maintaining dominance and frame that I wont take shit from you just bc ur cheater gf cant keep her pussy or trap shut). If I see that man anywhere near me, especially with a weapon, he will sorely regret coming back here.) Idk what I was talking about but there you go. Just dont be afraid, I suppose is my point. People will respect for taking a stand. If they dont, beat their ass, then they will.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]tryhard-exe[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They're dropping and will be used. Side effects of the pill I'm guessing. You all are really helping me get through this already, damn this anxiety and anger shit is fueling me for workouts more than anything right now.

[–]TRProdigy 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Learn from this. Learn that your NAWALT views got you here.

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