I am scared.

Dream_Shine · 2020-05-18T00:13:38+00:00

CreatoroftheRoom · 2020-05-17T22:45:15+00:00

It's a worrying world we live in now. I do my best to be kind and respectful to everyone, but there's a worrying risk that in the future I could have my life ruined. I've considered going into politics for my future career, but because of my political views, I could be vilified for the rest of my life because some random chick doesn't want me in whatever office and accuses me of rape.

Or maybe I piss some random chick off at college, and she decides to get revenge on me by accusing me of rape because she thinks I deserve it. I've heard of dozens of these situations, and the girl gets away with it 9 1/2 times out of 10.

I think the best idea is to just be the nicest person you can be to as many people in your life as possible. If tons of people know you and your character, there's no way someone could get away with accusing you of rape. I waited 8 months to hold my girlfriend's hand (I had to wait to date her because her parents weren't okay with her dating yet, so I couldn't hold her hand or anything for a while) and I'm still as respectful with her. I know if some chick accuses me, I will almost definitely escape that, because I have my girlfriend and many others to defend me in court and stuff. As for the fighting aspect, unfortunately there's still a huge double standard. Girls can hit guys 20 times in the face with all their strength, but if the guy shoves her away, he gets gang beaten. And often this same girl refuses to let guys hold doors open for her because she's "strong and independent."

I totally understand how worried you are. My advice, summed up: just be careful. Make friends and relationships that can vouch for you, and if you have to be in fights with chicks, bring a tazer to use on her and everyone that might step in. It'll hold up in a court of law.

Anime__Jesus · 2020-05-18T04:10:21+00:00

Personally, I don’t do anything with girls that I’m not 100% about doing (not normal stuff, but like deep interaction and shit). Just like any other person, they can take advantage of you. Only difference is society will side with the female more than the male, because women apparently aren’t capable of doing such things.

Like I still feel it’s a bit of an overreaction or paranoia, but I still am afraid of someone accusing me of something in the future.

2020-05-18T00:27:06+00:00

Dont talk with women

Problem solved

xX_throw__away_Xx · 2020-05-18T00:12:05+00:00

The chances of it happening are super low, and women like that always give off a ton of red flags before. You’ll be fine.

mrahub · 2020-05-18T02:03:51+00:00

You really need to step back from this sub and probably reddit in general, and realize that most people are decent enough, nobody is out to get you and there still are good women out there (of all generations). Most of the women who do these things come from screwed up households and have red flags. You’ll be able to quickly identify them and keep your distance.

That being said, you should focus on building your social circle and community standing. Stay away from crazy leftist chicks and protect yourself with backup plans, anonymity and recordings when necessary. If you find yourself with a crazy one, do not let her think it would be an easy takedown. Don’t leave yourself vulnerable.

And for crying out loud, get off the internet and go outside. Treat this sub as entertainment only.

WeAreMoreThanUs · 2020-05-18T01:42:11+00:00

lose

erickroseno0319 · 2020-05-18T02:28:42+00:00

Same mate

p0lizei · 2020-05-18T00:23:22+00:00

Think you may need to get off the sub lmao and go outside bud

andymoney17 · 2020-05-18T12:31:28+00:00

I was actually in a parking lot in my car and my ex girlfriend started punching me from the passenger seat, a witness called the cops and told them I was being assaulted. She was much smaller than me, nobody got arrested but I was happy to hear they called her in rather than me!

lilastr · 2020-05-18T04:19:52+00:00

I’m a woman and I can assure you most of the women I know (me included) are not crazy enough to pull off shit like that. It’s hard to find totally psychotic women. Media and internet brainwashed you into overthinking it but still just be cautious and woke and avoid crazy women. You’ll be okay.

flyredditguy · 2020-05-18T01:46:27+00:00

Only the open minded and intelligent men will survive, less thinking with your dick and more with the other head, as you stated, it’s for survival.

sadomasochrist · 2020-05-18T07:25:43+00:00

One thing that all these men have in common is the women who pull this shit on them believe they won't do jack shit about it.

When's the last time you heard Tyrone getting locked up on bogus charges?

GTFonMF · 2020-05-18T00:11:03+00:00

Welcome to r/MGTOW brother.

FindingKeeping · 2020-05-18T04:35:14+00:00

Yes MGTOW is the way. Unfortunately reddit admins purged the MGTOW contents

Hunt4Yoshi · 2020-05-18T02:00:21+00:00

if anything does happen to you,lets hope a member of this subreddit is nearby to aid you

Chowmeen_Boi · 2020-05-18T06:55:00+00:00

Stick to the "wheres the evidence card" and shut up. Let your lawyer to the talking in any legal confrontation. Talking will get you fucked

angelsandairwaves93 · 2020-05-18T07:14:46+00:00

Nothing to be afraid of, friend.

The vast majority of women aren't crazy or out to get you, that's the first thing to remember. You will spot the bad seeds from miles away.

Play it safe with women: don't do anything stupid, don't stalk them, leave them alone when they say no or don't show in interest in you, NEVER initiate any form of sex if you even think there's even a 1% chance she's not fully aware of the situation. If you feel you're being set up and unable to leave, record the hell out your situation immediatel or take it to a public place with cameras. Other than that, be cool, be kind, don't be a walking mat but don't be a dick either. Don't send nudes and don't ask for them, unless you're married.

mutageno · 2020-05-18T07:22:09+00:00

Take it easy but watch your step. You gain nothing with getting anxious. Focus on yourself and good family and friends. And if things ever get too hairy, bail.

Sinner12180 · 2020-05-18T12:01:38+00:00

FightTheMatriarchy

wheremypp · 2020-05-18T12:48:18+00:00

Dont look at women, dont talk to women first, but be confident in yourself. From my experience, only good genuine people want to get to know me if they see me around enough, crazy women that would ruin your life dont want to put the effort in because they always feel entitled for a person to work for their friendship/love. Be a confident man, and let your friends find you. It landed me a very rational and beautiful girlfriend, 4 other female friends all in good fields (ie compsci, neuroscience, psychology, doctor). For me this applies to men as well. You get less douchey guys as friends and more well put together guys who are tough but laid back. Just work on yourself and your own goals, be a good person, and good things will come your way. Good luck man :)

T_Nightingale · 2020-05-18T14:02:15+00:00

Dude, it's tough but the good news is most people in society are not like what this subreddit shows. Please find the genuine people around you, find people who are more intelligent, who are generous, who are honest and stand by their commitments and you will find a world where justice reins and responsibility is of paramount importance.

tallygraub · 2020-05-18T15:44:13+00:00

Dont fall victim to the narrative this sub pushes. This sub literally cherry picks situations where a women gets away with something she shouldnt. Its the point of the sub and does highlight some societal issues. But don't think that these situations are the norm whatsoever. I could go googling and find just as many times where men get away with crimes but thats not what r/pussypass is for.

The sub was supposed to be funny/dark humor about times when women get away with shit they shouldnt. But the comments have been filled with woman hating men who are very very insecure and angry at the world. You really dont have to be afraid of being a man as long as you don't mix with women who arent mental cases who destroy lives for no reason. That goes for everyone though. Don't hang out with crazy people.

I'm sure i'll get downvoted to fuck for telling the truth though. If you find yourself truly believing the shite this sub pushes you need to take a step back and spend time with normal women. Best of luck to you

mariusalb · 2020-05-18T15:46:19+00:00

Are you living in USA?

usnraptor · 2020-05-18T16:12:04+00:00

MGTOW is the answer.

MournWillow · 2020-05-22T06:31:27+00:00

I had a close encounter of this kind actually. I had an issue with a girl I met on campus at college. We became friends pretty quickly and she liked to touch me and tease me to make me flustered, after a little bit of time being with her, I admitted to finding her attractive. We hung out in her room, in my room, at the cafe, and we got along pretty well. But when I told her that I found her attractive, things got a little weird. Firstly, she told me she had a girlfriend in another part of the state we lived in, and I was said “okay, cool.” A little while later and we were sitting in her room and I felt a little vulnerable and believed her to be a person I could trust and I told her some dark things in my past. She sat on the floor and comforted me and when we looked at each other our eyes locked. I will still admit, she is stunningly gorgeous, and she had been feeling something for me (she admitted). She kissed me to see if I was a good kisser cause that was a thing that turned her off of people, and she found out that I’m not bad at kissing. Soon the kissing escalated to being fuck buddies and after almost a year of being in this weird limbo, she cuts all contact with me over summer. Me, being the panicky and kinda broken thing I am, freak out and try asking her what I did wrong (mostly because i would like to fix the problem cause I don’t really enjoy losing friends.) fast forward to fall semester and two things happen, 1) I get together with one of my ex girlfriends I really loved and felt horrible for leaving, and 2) I get slammed with a no contact order from the school telling me not to contact the original girl who had a girlfriend already. I had walked up to her in the cafe and she was sitting with a friend of mine and another dude and I asked all three how their day was. She turned to me before anyone could answer and told me to leave. I did immediately and after I sat down at a secluded table (I don’t really like talking to people as I eat, or being near people I don’t know) I see she had gone to the bathroom. So I get stuck with a title 9 (the anti rape/sexual harassment) investigation against me, and I lose almost a third of my on campus friend group.

Good news with this story is that me and my now fiancé are almost at our 1 year mark and the investigation was in my favor as to if I had done something wrong.

allgespraeche · 2020-05-22T14:11:47+00:00

What u say are pretty much 1 in 10.000 cases. Nothing that happens everyday idk how often. And somebody not believing a women got raped happens more often then that..

Aakash050 · 2020-05-18T09:11:42+00:00

No relationship. No cohabitation. Don't look at them. Don't go near them. Only talk to them in public area or with lots of people around. Always record your conversations

Tilinn · 2020-05-18T04:47:07+00:00

Don't worry. Many of these cases are rarer than what you believe. Yes it happens, but not as often. I know men that got away with physical abuse, who left quite visible damage. So you should probably be fine even if accused.

Just remember. Don't put your dick in crazy. Ever.

HoovyHug · 2020-05-18T04:37:44+00:00

You're doing something that alot of people tend to do, and blame the general population of said group. Not all are sexist as much as people believe.

2020-05-18T14:51:32+00:00

Bruh it's not hard just don't interact with females.

SpunkinShrek · 2020-05-17T22:31:08+00:00

Man up you pussy

BenSlimmons · 2020-05-18T00:47:28+00:00

bufftart · 2020-05-18T00:39:40+00:00

You doughnut

Title	I am scared.
Author	DarkRevann
Upvotes	491
Comments	71
Date	May 17, 2020 8:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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