I have noticed on this forum that you get into a relationship with a man while you still possess several traits that are not attractive, such as being bossy, nagging, dominant. Then you become redpill when your relationship begins to falter, and your relationship improves dramatically.

I read another website by KatarinaPhang and a lot of the articles seem similar. Woman dates man, she is quite forward and they date, then the man pulls away because he decides that she is too forward. She pulls away under the advice of KatarinaPhang, which leads them to getting back together, she becomes more feminine by letting him lead and the relationship improves. What drives these men to date these types of forward women in the first place? It seems like it is better to be a bit forward and lead at the beginning, and then gradually become more RP and lean back after a while rather than be totally RP right from the beginning.

I only say this because I used to be quite forward and dominant. One example was when I basically led the relationship while dating this guy. He pulled away, so it led me to finding out about femininity and RPW. I leant back and let him lead, and he became smitten with me! We aren't dating anymore because he left the country.

But since I have been RP since the beginning, I feel like I have less men in my life... Although the men I do attract seem really into me and possibly have higher status than the previous men before finding this forum. But I still have not met a man I like enough or where there is a mutual attraction yet. Maybe it serves its purpose to be slightly more forward as well as feminine at the start, and become fully feminine once you are dating. What are your thoughts? It may be an odd question, but I have been thinking about it for a while because so many non-redpill women are in a relationship with the type of men that I would love to date, that it makes me think.