Unsure about where to start and how to trust my husband after an abusive episode

teaandtalk · 2017-02-10T04:30:39+00:00

Red pill relationship advice is only suitable for non-abusive relationships. If your man is hitting you (outside of consensual kink), he's abusing you. You have a child to think of, don't try to convince yourself to submit to someone violent.

[deleted] · 2017-02-10T03:51:36+00:00

Submission is earned. I submit to my husband because he proved himself worthy of my submission. I trust him to act in my best interest at all times, and he does. If my husband raised a hand to me my submission would disappear in a second and I'd be gone, just like I'm sure he'd be gone if I was suddenly a raging bitch or cheating on him.

You need to seek professional counseling NOW. You have a child. What will seeing this dynamic do to him/her? What type of relationship will he/she grow up to have with him and with a significant other in the future? He has been violent in the past, and now he's getting more violent, how violent does he need to be for you to leave? Broken nose? Broken arm? Shattered pelvis? Concussion?

Please think about this. Submission is not something you should just give to anyone.

NittanyLioness84 · 2017-02-10T02:51:23+00:00

Please, please, please get professional counseling, for you and ESPECIALLY your child's sake.

frpilled · 2017-02-10T05:17:31+00:00

This is abuse, not just red pilling :( You need to put your child as the priority now, and understand that your relationship with him will be the relationship your child will grow up and experience, shaping their future experiences as well. I grew up in a household where there was abuse, and it taught me that toxic relationships was the norm, only until finding RPW am I getting out of that mentality. So please think of your kid before anything else.

SouthernAthena · 2017-02-10T13:17:03+00:00

I know this post is deleted, but get help and leave IMMEDIATELY. There's no such thing as "a relationship with some abuse" that is not an abusive relationship. You only submit to those who are worthy and will always protect you. And submission does not involve violence. This is not a pro battered women's sub.

HappyLollie · 2017-02-10T14:38:33+00:00

Please leave him and find shelter elsewhere (try to stay with family or look into domestic abuse shelters if you don't have family nearby) it's not safe for you stay there. Abusive men are never worthy of captain status. Good luck.

Title	Unsure about where to start and how to trust my husband after an abusive episode
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	February 10, 2017 2:38 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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