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DISCUSSIONNittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 11:30 PM
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NittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 04:45 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGENittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 07:54 PM
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ADVICENittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 06:00 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTNittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 09:29 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTNittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:09 AM
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LTR/MARRIAGENittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 10:01 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTNittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen08/01/17 06:08 AM
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ADVICENittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 01:19 AM
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NittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:15 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTNittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 02:33 AM
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ADVICENittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 04:54 AM
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NittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen09/07/15 03:30 PM
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NittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 03:05 PM
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NittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:10 PM
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LIFESTYLENittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 11:03 PM
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NittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 09:36 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGENittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 05:33 PM
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NittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:45 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGENittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 01:20 AM
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DiscussionNittanyLioness84/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 03:28 AM
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NittanyLioness84/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 10:18 PM
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Hook him up to be friends with my fiancé lol. My fiancé is an attorney who loves movies and exploring.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 02:34 PM
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I did a preliminary search on Meetup, there is some hope to find a local running group :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 02:33 PM
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I can't even.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 06:27 PM
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Society has brainwashed me to believe femininity is a weakness. I grew up dirt poor, fatherless, and my single mother was not the best of role models. I embraced being masculine out of a sense of survival and joined the military when I was 17. My relationships did not work and I subscribed to hook up culture because, again, I never had any guidance from a father figure. At 29 I found this sub and incorporated what I learned in my LTR I met when I was 30. Three years later, I am engaged. We both …
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/17 05:06 PM
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lol touche
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 05:52 PM
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I didn't know she invited him anywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 04:26 PM
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You seem disappointed in your married friend. She is being a human and acknowledging her weakness. At least she is attempting to mitigate by not ending up alone in that guy's presence.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 04:04 PM
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Only machines are logical.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 04:02 PM
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I don't put people on a pedestal..?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 04:00 PM
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You are in a mourning period and it is okay to think about him. Time will dilute him from your thoughts day-by-day.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 02:30 PM
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Student loans suck. Look for careers that provide student loan forgiveness as well-like something that will get you a job in Alaska or something.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 11:38 PM
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You should be able to apply for unemployment benefits. When I ETS'd from active and joined the guard, I was able to collect almost 2K a month while I went to college full time for like two years. Get rid of the wife and fight for your child. Since you're getting out of the army, you aren't on the hook anymore to take care of her dependapotamus ass.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 11:21 PM
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My PMS hormones turn me into a hungry chihuahua. I was at the gym and trying to do lunges in a little corner out of the way near a machine (gym is getting crowded). Yes, I know the machine right next to me was not being used, but this guy insisted on just not wanting to wait for me to complete 10 more lunges and asked to use the machine, which would make him literally inches from me. I told him, GIMME A MINUTE! K THANKS! RAWF!
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 11:04 PM
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Well, they may sh*t on your rug, but never on your heart lolz
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 07:13 PM
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My cousins both remarried in their late 30s/early 40s. They are both nurses and blonde skinny little things with children from previous marriages. They do very well for themselves in central PA. They both left their former husband/fiance to be with their new mates.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 05:43 PM
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Damn. I haven't even been married once yet. No way I will catch up.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 05:39 PM
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We do get startled easily and we readily retreat for shelter in our bubble bath. Coax us out with wine and froyo and you will earn our trust.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 10:44 PM
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Sounds kinky.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:47 PM
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Are we women in our 30s weird creatures needing a documentary?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:03 PM
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I told him I need more time. He said okay. Now he is upset with me and I feel bad about tweaking our plan. I am not Wonderwoman. He thinks I can hit the ground running when I get home. Maybe I can, but I don't want to. I am tired of stressing myself out over life. This is my fourth deployment. I think I have earned some relaxation time before I make the leap into quitting my career and moving to Manhattan. I need a drink.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 06:48 PM
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I know. He is expecting me to do so much in such little time.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 06:38 PM
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He is so gun ho on getting me up there (understandable) but to do so requires me having a job. He makes just enough to afford living there. I can't get him to understand I just need more time. He thinks I am going to cause more unnecessary time and expense by 'relaxing' in VA.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 06:34 PM
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He says to trust in him, and I want to. BUT I only have the past few years of experience with his financial track record and it involves me as the breadwinner supporting us. It is too much for me to leap into this, but I am going to, I just need more time than what was agreed upon.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 05:46 PM
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Hypergamy has been killing me as of late. I have spent almost six months overseas working with alpha males who flirt with me despite my being engaged. I know what they are after, so at least my desire to protect my long term happiness is keeping me from losing my mind.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 04:50 PM
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I was just thinking this is a short list, sadly. I had a lot of trouble trying to find a man that matched this list, due to my limited choices in central PA while I was a full time college student as a veteran woman in her late 20s. My fiance is now just finally getting his shit together financially and beat his weed addiction. He has the alpha personality as an NYC attorney though.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 04:21 PM
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Financial independence. No addictions. Healthy diet and works out. People respect him and only playfully tease him. If he has a dog, the dog respects him and appears well balanced-not anxious because it does not trust his leadership or lack of.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 06:41 PM
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Honest, please.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 08:58 PM
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I told him today my sugar mama days are coming to an end once I quit my job. I am just getting frustrated with being with someone who is not financially independent by now.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 11:09 PM
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It seems that we can get a house when we have kids. When we have kids-I have no idea. He is not ready. I am not worried about a down payment because as a veteran, I can get a home loan without one.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 11:03 PM
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His parents and I are guilty of enabling him. He has never experienced poverty (I grew up poor) and has always had his parents around to help him. He asked about combining finances, but as newly engaged, I said we should wait until we are married on paper. I am fine with us sharing just expenses like bills and rent. Buying a house and having kids are another topic for later in life, too. He is happy with setting our roots in Manhattan. He feels that after several years of unhappiness in a crappy…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 09:14 PM
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Have you considered therapy to help you make peace with yourself?
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 03:58 AM
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Meh, I attracted both younger and older men. Love just happened with my fiance and age was irrelevant after that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 09:46 PM
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I regret nothing. What is the point of hating myself? I can only affect the present and future.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 06:04 AM
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I guess I feel like it would look stupid just to move back after doing all that. Nah, it is stupid to stay with someone who makes you feel like crap. he keeps putting it into my head that I won't be able to find anyone else "as good as him." People who say that tend to be easily replaceable with someone a lot better. Finding a man who doesn't hamster his cheating by tearing you down is already echelons better than him. I hope you can find happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 10:17 PM
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Why are you staying with someone who repeatedly tells you that you are not good enough? My heart hurts for you and my fiance would be hard nexted if he said such a thing to me to justify bad behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 09:42 PM
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Yeah, I think he just retained his urges. When he was being babysat, he humped my friend's cat who was in heat.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 10:44 AM
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I drove out to the boonies to pick him up and the owners were an older couple who also had a female Japanese bobtail. Yeah he was spraying the house and stalking me and trying to hump my foot. Now he is lovable, but he still humps clothes and stuffed animals.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:48 AM
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Yeah it grows pretty quickly! He is a blue point Himalayan. I rescued him when he became an unwanted stud cat. He was an asshole, but after I got him neutered he has been my baby princess who cries for lovin.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:43 AM
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Also, your friends might seem impatient if they tell you to 'get over it.' They are just trying to make you feel better, but it is unrealistic to simply 'get over it.'
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:38 AM
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My fiancé takes him to the groomer twice-three times a year for the lion cut. When I am living home for good this spring, I am going to be brushing him more often because I do miss having a fluffy kitty.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:36 AM
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New stimuli, routines, experience, etc. will help you get your mind off of him. There was a song I used to be able not to listen to because it made me think of an old boyfriend. Now I can listen to that song and not care. You will get there, OP. Don't rush yourself. Let your emotions flow and use the energy to make yourself better.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 05:50 AM
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I am sorry to hear about this OP. How do you move on? You will move on. It takes time. You will cry yourself to sleep one night, then not cry for maybe a couple weeks, and then regress to crying yourself to sleep. It is okay and natural. You are in a state of mourning and only time can heal. You will learn to accept that he has moved on. You will move on, too. You will probably get your heart broken a couple more times. When I broke up with my boyfriends, I focused on improving myself. Gym, resc…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 03:15 AM
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I got my man a generous Seamless gift Ecard. He lives in Manhattan and I am deployed, so we didn't get to spend Vday together. He went hogwild ordered sushi, burritos, and corn dogs last night LMAO. Now he said it is my fault he has to do the dreaded cardio at the gym today. Poor, poor man.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 11:52 PM
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Plate This makes me hurt for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 10:32 PM
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the ex said after 25 no one would want me F that guy. I lived in a college town for four years when I was 26-30. I was a nontraditional student because I had been active duty in the army. Pickings were slim, just like yours-younger college dudes only wanting to spin plates, professors, or the locals (rednecks). As soon as I ventured out a couple hours to a bigger city when I was 30 and about to graduate, I was immediately swooped up by my fiance. You may have to leave your small pond to find big…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 10:11 PM
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I really miss my cat. Meet Xerxes
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 09:53 PM
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I am sorry you have to tiptoe around his emotions :( An alpha is supposed to be a rock to your storm. I suggest you next, heal, and find someone who is your emotional safe space. This guy's description is stressing me out.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 09:49 PM
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The last time I came home from a deployment, my vag was so out of shape from lack of use that my core muscles were aching for a few days when my fiance and I went at it. Sheesh! Aww :( Is this his first trip away?
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 10:07 AM
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You sound beautiful and I am sure he thinks the same or else he would not be seeing you. Prize yourself, and he will, too.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 12:36 AM
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"Toughness (distinct from resilience) reduces a woman’s femininity, thus mitigating her desirability to men. A resilient woman can maintain her femininity and draw upon feminine strength without masculinising. Resilient women continue to build upon and maximise their femininity in spite of hardship. They do not give in to the corruptive allure of masculinisation and poison themselves with a lust for conquest. They expend their efforts on becoming personable, wise and altruistic. They look for sh…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 11:06 PM
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Deployed since October. I am so jealous you get to wear some nice lacey things this Vday. I may need to google how to do sex when I get home it feels like it has been so long ;*( I told my fiance I snapped my Tiffany's necklace that I wear everyday for casual clothes. He saw an easy gift idea and ran with it. I ordered him a Seamless gift card. I can't be home to drain his balls, but I can still help feed him this year lol.
/r/RedPillWives13/02/17 10:05 PM
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Well, time is money :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 03:51 AM
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Perhaps start from there: "DH, I cannot continue doing this." He might balk against it, but just hear him out and avoid fighting back. If he feels the heat from the fire of tight finances, his inner captain might emerge and he will start carrying more of the burden. Disclaimer: If he is TRULY an addict to video games, he cannot be in charge of finances.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 09:59 AM
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I have gone back to school, which leaves me juggling housework, kids, and homework ON TOP of a part time job How long can you sustain this? What would happen if you told him, "I can't."?
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 07:12 AM
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vulnerability specific to him I think this is it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 10:59 PM
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Guys can be weird. My "lying about my face," hair extensions, and push up bra are what attracted my fiance to me. Now, he wants me to be natural and not wear any of those. He is not the one who has live life in my body, so I wear what I want that makes me feel good and confident, granted I don't look like a top-heavy clown or whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 10:22 PM
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If my fiance gets too playfully cocky with me, I have to defy him by tickling him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 09:00 PM
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LOL thanks but I am low key princess pretending to be tough
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 05:29 AM
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A professional will help you navigate what is going on in your head. Your priority is to ensure a safe home for you and your child.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 03:12 AM
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Please, please, please get professional counseling, for you and ESPECIALLY your child's sake.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 02:51 AM
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Welcome to dating :) You might have to weed through a lot more...candidates to find your man. Stay focused on the prize. You are only 22 and are not running out of time, so don't let that make you compromise your standards. Enjoy this part of your life, because this will make your LTR so much better when you find him. Happy hunting!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 02:35 AM
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Another thing I forgot to mention, any woman can GET a man. RPW helps you KEEP a man.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 09:29 PM
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Thanks for this post! I have been serving in a component of the Army (active and national guard) since I was 17. I have a degree in accounting but my full time job is defense contractor-I do the same thing I do in the army, I just make more money. Obviously my job(s) take me away from home A LOT. I am sitting in Afghanistan which has turned into my second home. I like my job, and I love the people with whom I work. I get along very well with my coworkers because we share the same culture and lan…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 09:15 PM
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To me, being RPW means: -Never stop improving-do it for YOU not HIM (THEM) -To attract the masculine, be feminine -Knowing that men require respect, healthy food, blow jobs, appreciation and quiet time
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 02:48 AM
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Funny thing happened today. I realized I entered the wrong routing number on my federal tax return, and being deployed and not wanting to deal with calling my tax preparers/IRS, I asked my attorney fiance to help me out (brought him my problem). He called my tax preparer, who told him to call the IRS, who then gave him another number to call-he ended up in automated menu hell and ended up calling his tax preparer for help. He said that the IRS will cut a check if the routing number is bogus and …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 01:33 AM
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I would say the best advice to her is: Be what you want to attract. Never stop improving.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 01:04 AM
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I have two cousins just older than she is who are both recently remarried to high quality men. Granted, these men are divorced and have children from previous marriages, so do my cousins. My cousins are both blonde, athletic and tiny, so despite their age, their enduring SMV has helped them out. They are both very feminine and respect their men. This is why exercising and diet are sooooo important to us post wallers. If your friend goes hard at the gym and can start seeing the results, her confi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 12:56 AM
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Meh, if she is decent looking and has a healthy BMI, she should be just fine in the dating world. Just try not to shoot too far out of your league to avoid the risk of being plated. If you think your friend will benefit from the news, and you can sugarcoat it, then tell her. How old is she? I met my man at 30.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 12:45 AM
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First and foremost, I would recommend you bring up the notion to her that her options for LTRs decline as her age inclines; but at the same time, do not scare her into settling for some chump because of the wall. She can still LTR a high quality man as she ages, but she will have to search/work harder for it. She may have lost the luxury of just sitting there and having men always approach her. Post wall women can still have a high SMV, just not as high as it used to be when they were younger.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 12:35 AM
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Girl who grew up with a single, unhinged mother and absent father here. My mom even lost custody of my half brother to her second husband in a mommy state and I was like, damn, and I am stuck with her? My inner child makes me say to you to continue being an awesome role model. You are giving them the knowledge of what they can be if they follow your lifestyle and choices. Missing role models are what really hurts kids in section 8 housing because they are surrounded by...well, poor people. Not s…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 08:56 PM
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I second this.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 10:13 AM
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Ask him if he is employing dread game 😂 >sarcasm<
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 07:23 AM
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Sorry, OP. I gave you my gut reaction based on MY experience. Did he ever respond?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 07:22 AM
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I scream you scream we all scream for commitment here at RPW and avoiding plate spinners. Source: Got engaged by 'screaming needy' and did not waste time on guys who displayed flakey behavior. They would've went out of their way despite a busy day to commit to plans with me if they liked me enough. Edit: Now that I think about it, I never had to feel needy with my fiancé because he has been and remains consistent with his communication behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 05:33 AM
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I would agree that he may have just opened the message and was too busy to read it-but this seems to be a pattern and he has not yet responded.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 11:49 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 11:28 PM
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This makes my eyebrow twitch as I read this because his lack of committing to dates with you just screams he is plating women or not that into a relationship right now. He never answered the text even though he saw it, which didn't surprise me as it seems to be how he rolls... It feels like he has you conditioned to accept this treatment. Do you really want that? If it was me, I would text him saying it was fun (to end on good terms) and move onto dating another man who would be less flaky and c…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 11:21 PM
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I am guilty of being a Pokemon Go player over the summer :D It made my jogs a bit more entertaining.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 02:22 AM
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I would initiate a talk with him to determine if it is indeed official; then you can put the hamster to bed. No use wasting any more time.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 02:19 AM
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he won't ever face an empty fridge or kabinet LOL! That is awesome. I remember when I started staying at my fiance's place while I was on military orders (I didn't want to live in the barracks) for a couple months. I ended up mostly just living there during that time and I offered to pay rent, to which he declined. I decided to pick up groceries and cook because I would get released from work (self pace army course) a lot earlier than him. I ended up spending more money on groceries than just gi…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 12:42 AM
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He gets a squirt of glittery body spray if I catch him lurking around the bathroom when I am busy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 10:35 PM
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He knows I am at my most vulnerable while in the bathroom doing my daily construction.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 10:26 PM
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It is hard to NOT think my fiancé is my soulmate when he sneaks up on me when I am trying to get ready, pulls up on my underwear, and goes, "Who's got a cameltoe? Who's got a cameltoe?" and runs away before I can retaliate.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 07:33 PM
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I am going to respond with Direct Combat Support. Hahah yes, I am allowed to express opinions on the internet. Have you seen veteran-type Facebook pages? We are just not allowed to talk badly of our Commander in Chief and civilian command. Women are valuable in the military because they are very capable of filling personnel, intelligence, medical, civilian engagement, logistics, etc. type roles. Physical demands are very low in these types of jobs. For the controversial combat arms roles...sure,…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 10:52 PM
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Oh def! Exhibit A: Former General Haight. He used to be my brigade commander. We all loved him, but we knew there was a reason he kept pretty female officers around him. His swinger lifestyle was regarded a potential security issue because he could be vulnerable to blackmail.
/r/askMRP04/02/17 10:41 PM
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National guard on orders. I am also a contractor full time, but I can go on military leave when there are courses, deployment opportunities, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 10:34 PM
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why not bang some women on the side? There are many bedroom police in the military and adultery is UCMJ punishable. His wife could contact his chain of command if she suspects infidelity.
/r/askMRP04/02/17 09:02 PM
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I am five years away from military retirement When is your clearance up for renewal? If you only intend to maintain your clearance just for the military, and your clearance is due to be renewed, wait for the adjudication and then file for bankruptcy. Also, a dude on my program was able to keep his TS despite a bankruptcy.
/r/askMRP04/02/17 08:59 PM
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Chads keep the office fun. I work for high tier military so there are a lot of them here. I am so happy I am engaged and don't have to worry about vetting against Chads anymore. I love dangling yarn in front of them (returning some flirtation) like they are kittens and watching their plates seethe with annoyance when they see their Chad making their rounds on the girls in the building.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 08:33 PM
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If you got an SMV high enough like Maria, probably not.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 05:59 AM
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Hello. I agree that women will go for men for LTRs that are at least financially independent. But some women might sacrifice that if their SMV is too low and they trade in financial independence for other traits. Hypergamy is not just limited to financial status-a man being 'better' in education, looks, etc. could make up for a lower financial status. If a man is not financially as high status as a woman would like, but that man turns out to be a personal trainer who looks like a ripped Clark Ke…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 05:38 AM
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It's all fun and games until you hit the wall.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 09:04 PM
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Dogs are like children! If adopting a dog is not an option, volunteering at the local shelter could be another way to help dogs. My cat and dog are in good hands right now in Manhattan with my fiancé living better than me!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 07:02 AM
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Hahaha <3 Seriously. My fiance would have a candle burning, pizza and a bottle of my favorite cav/merlot blend ready for me when I would get home on the weekends. I would instantly overlook his dirty socks laying around in the living room. It is impossible to be mad about a dirty house when your man is shoving wine and pizza in your face.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 05:43 AM
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Do them out of love lol. You'll have one very happy man despite some jaw muscle exertion.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 02:21 AM
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Whhhhheewwwwww. Do you have any wine? I have been in your position, my fiance is awesome, amazing, everything I could want, but the man of my dreams can be a piggy boy. I accept that. No one can be perfect. I picked him. He isn't trying to be disrespectful, he just does not prioritize cleaning as much as I do. His qualities overshadow his pig boyness lol, and I try to focus on those. Deep a couple deep belly breaths. Read your last paragraph. REREAD IT AGAIN and ONE MORE TIME. More deep belly br…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 01:22 AM
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Those hills are your friends! Where I was living in VA there were nothing but hills in our neighborhood so I would begrudgingly run those. I was slow AF, but come two mile run test for the army, I am able to run in the 14min range (passes on male scale, too). I would like to be thin again like how I was when I was 26, but people said I looked sickly when I went into my 130s (I hover between 144-148 at about 5'6" right now). I like looking in the mirror at my body right now though, so that is all…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 01:02 AM
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Knowing how to cook is key to being healthy and avoiding obesity, and people love a meal cooked for them. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 12:44 AM
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Resilience :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 12:43 AM
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I don't get hurt easily over petty comments, especially from people I don't care about. I tell my younger female coworkers who complain to me that so-and-so said this about her. I always say, does this person give you your paycheck? No? Okay, move on!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 12:38 AM
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I rescued a ratty puppy (mini poodle/Italian greyhound) when I went through a bout of depression after a break up with a cheating boyfriend. I would take him everywhere I went and people would approach me to pet him and he loved it. Be like a puppy-wag your tail and show people how happy you are to see them. A dog will waken your alpha, because a happy dog requires a calm, assertive leader. He also helped me lose 30lbs during my depressed fall-winter of 2013. We would go on adventures-hiking, jo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 10:44 PM
1

Bahahhah
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 10:40 PM
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Literally don't know how to be mean 90% of the time Someone/something will have to reallllly mess up to get you mean then haha.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 10:13 PM
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You sound like you have an accounting/finance/business degree/background because you are speaking language (FIFO, tax allocation,etc.) I know :) Empathy is a good strength, I like how you consider the long term effect versus short term when you understand someone even if you disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 10:12 PM
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OMG OMG a fellow veteran! Okay, so when you gain weight while you exercise, are you monitoring your diet? Some people think they can eat more when they exercise. Also, this is where the calories in < calories out expression comes into play. BUT all calories are not created equal. 100 protein calories requires the body to burn 30 calories to process versus 100 carb/fat calories. Your body wants to remain where it is weightwise if you have been at that weight for awhile. As soon as you dip under t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 09:50 PM
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I love my jogs, but I am really enjoying my push-ups, close-handed push-ups, planks, and lunges (up to 60lbs).
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 09:15 PM
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Damn girl. Aannnd I just got picked on at work for checking out a chick.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 09:09 PM
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Anyone else in this situation/have solutions besides leaving and finding someone richer? Join the military if you're able bodied and get commissioned. They will repay some of your student loans and provide you with free healthcare, housing, and food and dependent allowances. Paid maternity leave!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 08:48 PM
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But I'm curious, does anybody else out there compare themselves with singers or celebrities of any sort? Only to celebrities who are not in their natural habitat. Look at pictures of celebrities out on the street and getting bombarded by paparazzi when they didn't have a team of makeup, hair, plastic surgeons, trainers, cooks, clothes to do them up to get to HB 10 status. Kesha is a good example of this. I love her, but girl looks like an average chick once you see her not done up. On the other …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 08:29 PM
2

I wonder if there are any other RPWs with a younger man. I know u/deadsandsushi has a younger gentleman :>
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 07:11 PM
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I joined when I was 17-so it'll be 16 years this June :P I can't wait to retire at 37 hahah. The army rescued me from poverty. I feel like it is one of the most effective ways of upward mobility in the US if you don't mind going to war. But yeah, the benefits are awesome. I got a free ride and then some for college, my healthcare is inexpensive, and I could go back to active duty if the job market tanks. I am guaranteed a small business and home loan, too, as a veteran. Good stuff!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 07:02 PM
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I was 26 and he was 35. He was good looking and successful. He was too set in his ways and seemed to only want a wife and kids like he was checking the block. We weren't falling in love with each other so it ended. He actually traded me in for an older model. I don't know about the 25/50. I couldn't even get along with a guy nine years older than me. My fiancé is a bit younger than me and we get each other. Maybe I have a 20something mentality lol.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 11:25 AM
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I will have to check that out when I get home. Since I have been deployed, I have been able to enjoy a lack of rent, food, utility, gym, etc. expenses. I love it. I will def dl a finance tracking app to add to my calorie count app.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 09:59 AM
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I can explain things eloquently and comprehensively This is a good strength, especially if you have to delegate taskings and present the end goal without micromanaging.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 09:58 AM
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I am about to live in NYC this spring. I am quitting my job after I use my vacation days and going to enjoy life with my fiance while I job search (I have a nice savings cushion thanks to two deployments). Big change for me as someone who has been living in central PA/Afghanistan the past seven years. Thank you for the tip!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 05:36 AM
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So don't take it personally. I don't get how RP men can comment in here and yet when a woman does it in TRP they are not welcome. Because we are obviously awesome and welcoming.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 03:58 AM
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"expensive" clothes i paid less than $50 for. When I shop online for clothes, the first thing I do is click sort by price, lowest to highest :) I can get good deals on brand name websites when they put half off sales up.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 02:31 AM
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They can audit my asset's SMV but not misappropriate it :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 12:22 AM
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Haha I like the museum analogy. IDK, I find it reassuring that women hit on my fiance, because he is a handsome young man for sure. Perhaps dread game needs another name-like SMV auditing. Ha.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 12:14 AM
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Thank you. I am over the midway hump. The good thing about this deployment was that I was able to focus on getting my abs back and losing the fall fluff I picked up the month before deploying. It is crazy how easy it is to lose weight when you no longer drink wine and orange chicken!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 10:49 PM
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I'm in the army national guard and deployed. My fiance relocated to Manhattan and is already settled in waiting for me to get home this April. I cannot wait to have soooo many restaurants and fresh markets from which to pick!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 10:43 PM
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I am dying for sushi :((( I am in this landlocked country known as Afghanistan struggling to get lean proteins and veggies while avoiding sugar as much as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 10:34 PM
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Whateva whateva I smite who I want.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 09:47 PM
3

You called?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 09:46 PM
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Did you just assume my mortality?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 09:29 PM
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Ah, that is a good motivation to keep in mind then: Being pessimistic DOES hurt others because you send out negative waves and they have to absorb it. I am going to pause before blurting out a negative nancy comment. Thank you for that.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 09:08 PM
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No. Women aren't God. Pssh. You don't know me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:59 PM
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I am working on becoming more positive. I got told by a coworker I am sorta pessimistic :/ Do you have to actively prevent negative thoughts or did it just become natural?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:55 PM
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Believing in the best of people is a good way to avoid negative outcome thinking :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:43 PM
1

Have you ever considered being sponsored by a fitness type business and posting pics on instagram with their product tags?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:42 PM
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I have learned to listen to understand versus listening to respond :) Good for you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:41 PM
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I am good at budgeting This is a very necessary strength! I have an accounting degree, but I still find myself lacking discipline as far as making impromptu purchases because I see something shiny. I have learned to pause and think about it-I take a few hours to mull over a purchase and I end up saving money and not going above my means.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:40 PM
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A tired dog is a happy dog!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:37 PM
1

I have three computers to deal with at work-you IT types are gods.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:28 AM
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You sound like an awesome mediator and can facilitate peace and compromise :) Your third strength makes you sound like a good strategic analyst-something I do for a living right now. Number four, I like that and it sounds like you're a good mentor.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:27 AM
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Hahah wow. There is my empathy strength.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:22 AM
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I don't know why, but I am picturing a sweet anime type girl while reading this :>
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:17 AM
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Youtube. Youtube helped me pass calculus, I bet that it might get you started somehow.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:14 AM
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LOL she would be going against the herd for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 06:30 AM
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Only 4 :> Resiliency is a component of the feminine mind frame.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 05:50 AM
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All too often, dogs that are supposed to be "biters" are all too happy to come and wag their tails at me. Dogs love a calm, assertive leader. Do you watch Cesar? I watched a lot of Dog Whisperer before I got my first dog.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 05:49 AM
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Welp. I guess she will just have to make sure she keeps her macOS nice and updated and service her battery. Stay away from those Beta PCs.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 05:48 AM
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I love it and I just adore waiting on people, showing off my culinary skills, and making sure everyone gets pleasantly drunk :) When I cooked dinner on the weekends, I always made extra because friends would always swing by to hang out. I always bought extra wine, too! I miss cooking so much. 2.5 months left before I go home. I hope you enjoy the opera! My fiance treated me to The Cure last year for Vday, my favorite band.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 03:07 AM
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Number 5?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 03:02 AM
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Shhh. Don't let my MacBook know she is post-wall.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 03:02 AM
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hahaha no, fortunately for me. It's an old 2009 macbook. Still kickin!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 02:24 AM
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It is holding, it just looks like a botched surgery.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 01:07 AM
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I used a butter knife to open up my macbook so i could stuff in more RAM hahah
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 01:06 AM
5

a gentle scolding The best kind of scolding.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 12:46 AM
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I have to trust my fiance. What is the point of regarding all prettier, younger women a threat? That does nothing for my self esteem and relationship happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 12:18 AM
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I wish I would've paid more attention in Home Ec. I tried to sow my shower caddie handle strap that tore back onto the mesh and it looks horrible.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 11:48 PM
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LOL dread game. I am actually entertained by women hitting on my fiance, we high five at the end of the night after exchanging stories of shenanigans. We love no longer having to date nowadays.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 11:17 PM
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It was a very good post! These kids need to realize they can be post wall but still have an enduring high SMV relative to younger women who don't take care of themselves and have terrible personalities. Just take care of yourself and you'll look awesome for your age, and don't fret about lost options if men prefer younger women. There will never be a shortage of good men who want an LTR with you if you are willing to work for it! 60 percent of Americans are overweight/obese, and having RPW as a …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 10:35 PM
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This fear of the wall is being unnecessarily amplified. We all know we age, but this wall fear is doing more harm than good as far as self esteem and increased susceptibility to settle.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 09:15 PM
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I love wearing cute outfits at the gym and hauling ass on the treadmill.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 09:06 PM
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Heck, yeah. WE ARE!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 08:27 PM
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Yes, please write a post about lifting. I want to walk like you, talk like you... I jog but I am timid as f*ck at the gym and want to start lifting but my schedule prevents me from buddying up at the gym so I am alone, surrounded by deployed dudes who stare and have not had been with a woman in months. I feel like scrutinized idiot trying to figure out how to squat and deadlift.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 07:31 PM
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I apparently peaked in my 20s. I didn't know a 'wall' existed until I hopped onto reddit and found this sub. I am sure a lot of men don't consciously know what the wall is, too. Therefore, being post-wall did not stop me from being able to easily date. Perhaps I lost out some options to younger women, but I never was able to know that because I did not perceive the loss. There are so many men out there willing to commit and pursue women at all ages (to me, at least) I was able to remain picky un…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 07:21 PM
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These post-wall posts are killing me.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 07:12 PM
1

we are kinda redneckety Pshhh I may be a New Yorker now, but I will never forget my central PA hillbilly roots.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 05:41 AM
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This is too cute.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 09:53 PM
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Refer to this post
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 04:18 AM
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I'll be 33 in March :) Ugh I hate lifting. I am a cardio queen myself and would rather jog a mindless four-five miles on the treadmill than venture over to where the cavemen roam by the mirror and weights. I am too timid at the gym. I will use weights though when I do my lunges.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 11:30 PM
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I grew up really poor to a single mother/absent father and escaping poverty and becoming financially independent were highest on my hierarchy of needs. I am happy there is encouragement for women to become independent, because we live in a society that features unreliable parents and an insufficient number of masculine men willing to commit and provide. This is just my opinion. I am envious of women who are taken care of by their parents and are able to go from a loving father to a good man seam…
/r/RedPillWives28/01/17 09:31 PM
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You are right about trying to gain weight-it will not necessarily go to a particular body part, weight gain/loss doesn't work like that. If it did, losing weight would mean I would still have boobs (RIP boobies). I think you are doing a lot to accommodate his wants. I hope this big fake butt thing is just a phase!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 09:02 PM
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RPW promotes the strategy of women securing a commitment with a high value man-not ending up in a man's slutzone. Being a plate is a waste of time, energy, emotion, and an unnecessary addition to the N count. Being a plate is equivalent to being friendzoned.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 06:52 PM
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As long as Mexico pays for it...oh, wait.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 02:18 AM
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I shudder when adults mention 14-17yo as sexual beings. My instinct to protect kicks in because they are children.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 02:16 AM
3

Salt baes and cash me ousside
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 01:09 AM
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Men don't see your age when you can rock a hot bikini body. Butterfaces. Ever since I have discovered the RPW, I no longer consider hearing about guys wanting to hook up with me because I know guys DATE DOWN and will have sex with women they wouldn't necessarily commit to. I wish there was a cool way to ask, oh he would bang me right? Would he wife me up and take care of me and 2.5 kids tho?
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 12:52 AM
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I was going to say the next dimension lmao
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 12:47 AM
1

Damn hormones that cause the face to make more oil.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 11:37 PM
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Are you touching your face with your hands, phone, or other bacterial ridden items? I used to get cyctic acne from resting my face on my hand. I also got it from taking biotin supplements. Have you tried retinol for your acne? Retinol sloughs off dead cells and unclogs pores.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 11:19 PM
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In The Red Pill, it is important that we do not ignore reality. Howboudah
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 10:01 PM
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My aim is not to make people happy or lighten their mood. And I guarantee you that criticizing someone will not be as effective as using positive reinforcement. It is good you want to help people. I am sure you have many experiences and wisdom that could be of great use in this community. But negativity and criticism will hinder your message being received by others. It is just human nature.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 09:38 PM
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As long as it is not the wall Oh noooo's
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 09:25 PM
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You don't have to kiss ass. At the same time, what do you hope to achieve by putting people down over things they cannot control or mistakes that are done and over with? One of the books RP recommends on BOTH subs is How to Win Friends and Influence Others. I think you should check out at least the first three chapters-Empathy will get you far with people. I enjoy listening to people and learning how to make them feel important-one of the most basic human needs next to food and shelter. I promis…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 09:22 PM
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I hope I have already slammed into the wall. I am content with how I look. I can see my abs, and now I am focusing on having Michelle Obama arms.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 09:13 PM
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Don't be sorry, there is nothing wrong with wanting a relationship with a good man. I did not meet my fiance until I was 30 and the only reason I met him is because I ventured out of my huge college town (surrounded by either way younger than me college boys or local rednecks) to go out with coworkers in a larger city. Don't give up or beat yourself up. You have to keep looking and yes, it gets discouraging and you face disappointments. Just guard your heart and time by continuing to vet men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 09:10 PM
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I think our liberal society encourages this sort of behavior to animals and it's just another perversion that is a symptom to an even bigger problem. It's nearly always women who do this, and defective women who have issues building a relationship with humans because they need constant validation and control. One woman I knew personally some years ago springs to mind. Why am I picturing a late 30s/early 40s angry man typing away that rant under the guise of a young woman...
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 09:01 PM
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The Wall is a thing and should be taken seriously but don’t let it rule your life. And for God’s sake, stop saying you’re about to hit The Wall. Women my age and older, when we hear you lament about it are literally rolling our eyes and I’m worried mine will fall out of my head the next time I read it. Thank you, OMG. By the way, I am about to hit the wall. I couldn't help myself.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 08:51 PM
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Why is everyone afraid of the wall like it is a boogeyman. I want to settle this wall thing once and for all. 'Hitting the wall" is basically comparing a 20yo version of yourself to a 35yo version of yourself given both versions of you have the same access to the gym, makeup, hair, clothing, etc. 20yo and 35yo walk into a public setting, and you realize 35yo might not be able to get as much attention as 20yo you. 35yo you is still attractive, and can attract men, but 20yo has the most options.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 08:47 PM
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You should be plated... Okay, and you should be cucked...The point of cucks is really to discern whether or not you have the qualities to progress to sex. Cucking is a necessary first step to that objective.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 08:43 PM
6

Have you read The Surrendered Wife?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 10:44 AM
6

Yikes! I feel bad for you gals. I have been surrounded by alpha men all my life thanks to the military. I found myself being more masculine than a lot of the civilian guys in college and it was disheartening. I thankfully met my fiancé who can be sweet and beta with me but turns into Ace Attorney at a moment's notice. Don't give up!
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 08:55 AM
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I used Strivectin Retinol night-it is pricey, but a good formula and packaging. I think my skin got used to that retinol amount so I switched to Paula's Choice retinol, but I mix it with cocoa butter until my skin gets used to this dose.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 02:17 AM
3

Create an online business?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 09:40 PM
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Sailor Moon is sweet, loving, feminine, empathetic, loyal, forgiving and her kindness and bravery are her biggest strengths. When I watched the anime/read the manga as a 90s kid, I wanted to be just like her-kicking bad guys' butt in a skirt and knee high boots and hanging out with my prince and close friends.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 09:06 AM
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Hey, from a fellow RPW who grew up without a dad. I am listening to an audiobook called "The Fatherless Daughter Project." It is really resonating with me and explaining many emotions and feelings I have dealt with and continue to deal with at almost 33. There is not much material out there for fatherless women, and this book really helps you face your feelings. I would recommend it and it can be used as a springboard for seeking therapy to help navigate your emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 03:55 AM
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Sailor Moon
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 08:36 PM
2

Nah, I was socially awkward, shy, and grew up impoverished. No jock/cheerleader friends for me. I didn't bloom until I was 18.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 07:08 PM
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Wouldn't the conversation determine their RMV? This is funny because my younger male coworker was a guy I wouldn't give a second glance to if I was single based on his looks. After getting to know him, I am finding myself thinking that if I was single I would pursue him because his attitude is so awesome. I wish I had a high quality single girlfriend I could set him up with.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 06:48 AM
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Exercise exercise diet diet exercise! Thank goodness the army has kept me in shape to help keep that wall a soft landing despite a decade of stress and drinking. A 27yo air force captain at work kept asking me my age and I kept teasing and saying 42. He said I am 26 based on my position at work and looks. Only when he snooped and saw my ID card did he realize I am almost 33.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 06:03 AM
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You have me curious. I would love to see your sources :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 05:35 AM
1

I actually did meet my husband at a bar I met my fiance at one, too. Life doesn't follow the rules sometimes :D
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 04:04 AM
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Come to my base in Afghanistan. You will be a 10 instantly.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 03:46 AM
4

Byyyeeeeeee
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 03:34 AM
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Rough sex? I thought exercising (vigorous sex) helps fight the clock LMAO
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 03:19 AM
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Your comments and advice must be useful and relevant to women, as determined by women. Avoid becoming an example of male human solipsism by giving advice that's an obvious disadvantage to the female, or how she can change to better meet your personal standards.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 03:11 AM
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I really didn't mean to do it, but he heard it and got competitive. I do provide plenty of positive reinforcement-when he sends me pics after he works out I comment on how big he is getting and how awesome it is. I am going to order him some premium protein for Vday, too.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:45 PM
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Well, I am not proud to admit this, but I may have inadvertently dread gamed my fiance when we first started dating. I work for special forces/ranger dudes in the Army and I made a comment to my fiance one day, "OMG they look like lumberjacks with their beards and big arms." It worked because he has become very diligent in the gym and downing kale/protein shakes these past few years.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:23 PM
3

Stache passion tho
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 01:10 AM
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Society has deemed femininity as a weakness. No wonder women are not happy.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 11:40 PM
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When I am around guys that don't make me feel sexual tension, I am confident and witty. When I am around good-looking guys that I think are overwhelmingly handsome, I confidently say dumb things trying to be witty, then I run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 08:57 AM
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I have been platinum blonde for six years and I agree the blonde does work wonders for increasing how much male attention you can get. Guys may say they like brunettes but a shining sparkling head of blonde hair catches the eye first.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 12:44 AM
1

Thank you. I have iTunes money from Xmas and I will download those books :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 08:45 PM
1

Yeah, I would never post something like that, and I know to be super careful out here because I am surrounded by males because of the job and I do my best to show my fiance he has nothing to worry about.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 08:43 PM
1

I have been reflecting on this and I have read another post on here about female friends. I think another factor that bugs me is that I am not getting the reassurance of him showing me affection in front of her to discourage her. I have noticed it has been three months since he has last posted a woman crush/fiance crush picture of me on his instagram, which would ultimately act as a shut down to her.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 08:22 PM
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Thank you. I am not worried about him cheating, I am more butthurt he didn't take into consideration my feelings. I asked him he would feel if I posted a video of a good looking male friend doing something that should be promoted and having never met him. My fiance said he wouldn't care ;/
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 05:48 AM
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It sucks because I don't personally know her and I only know her as an attractive homewrecker and she comments on my fiance's insta. I am fine. This is fine.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 12:31 AM
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Betas types can definitely be successful at their career. Your mix of alpha/beta qualities is dependent on what you need to be able to respect your SO. They need to be alpha enough to plate women over there. If you check out Married Red Pill, it highlights strategies for an alpha in an LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 05:49 AM
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RBF!!! LOL The only good thing about RBF is that you won't get premature wrinkles from smiling so much since you're not using so many facial muscles. I am a RBF, and the only reason I am engaged is because I had to approach my fiance.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 03:39 AM
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Go on... You are in charge of your happiness and can only change yourself. There will be pros and cons of leaving/staying with him, so you'll have to pick which way you want to go and be ready to deal with the consequences. When I was in my early 20s and even WAY BEFORE RPW, I had to let go of a guy who wanted to marry me because I could not respect him because of his overwhelming beta-behaviors, even though he was a good guy on paper. He deserved someone who would.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 03:22 AM
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I am happy to hear the problem is improving! I am sure your husband would feel super bad about hurting your feelings especially if he didn't mean to :) That is awesome he is learning to recognize what he does that might be deemed hurtful to you without you having to point it out now.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 02:42 AM
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Hahaha I am sure my fiance loved being sent away to boarding school so he could claim victim and snowflake status.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 11:52 PM
2

And Catfish
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 12:55 AM
1

It's my guilty pleasure, along with Hoarders.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 12:37 AM
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Sometimes age is irrelevant depending on the man. If you filter out all men just based on their age, you might miss the one. Granted we are in our 30s, my fiance is almost two years younger than me, and that initially turned me off when we first started dating because I have always wanted an older man so that I would feel like the young woman. He has proven himself to be captain material; but that might not have been the case when I was 23 and he was 21. Ultimately, I think it depends on where y…
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 11:50 PM
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Try watching Younger. It is about a divorcing 40ish yo mom who pretends to be 26 in Manhattan. She scores a younger boyfriend who was okay with letting her cheat because she has never had a slut phase, and her alpha boss at work is overlooking all the younger women and chasing her.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 11:46 PM
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My fiance's former boss has OCD. It made my fiance's job a nightmare because he could never do right by that man. I read in the Surrendered Wife, that if your husband says something that hurts your feelings, instead of escalating respond with an "Ouch" and leave so that your husband has to stop and think about what he said. I hope things get better on your end and keep us posted!
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 11:35 PM
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I don't have a favorite yet, but so far I am favoring Surrendered Wife and How to Win Friends and Influence Others. I am currently listening to The Fatherless Daughter Project. I think it is RPW related because it recognizes the negative consequences of what happens when a woman loses/never has a father and how they affect her relationships with men. Very important, as far as self improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 11:32 PM
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My fiance. LOL I am guilty of getting distracted with convos and not replying to strings of texts!
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 02:59 AM
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Ugh. I cannot wait to get home after this six-month deployment and enjoy the build up of tension with the fiance.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 02:22 AM
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hahahah okay.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 12:07 AM
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Dangit. You win this round.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 11:25 PM
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Gotcha. But the chart still shows women prefer men around their own age. I guess what I am trying to wrap my head around is that not every man 30+ is going to get a 20-24 yo woman based on them wanting men around their own age. Not every post wall woman is going to get a man in her preferred age range due to men wanting women 20-24. Something has to give assuming everyone has the goal of an LTR? In microeconomics, we were taught about a concept known as the reservation price-the highest a buyer …
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 10:58 PM
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I treat it like cookies and candies. Short term happiness (stuffing my face with cookies and candy but regretting it afterwards) < long term happiness (enjoying the stability of an LTR without having withdraws of dopamine resulting from hooking up with Chads)
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 10:38 PM
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I think hypergamy, like other biological urges, used to be good as far as ensuring survival of the fittest, but might cause more harm than good considering society today. I compare it to how most people love sugary, sweet things. Biology makes us want sugary, sweet things because eating foods that were fatty and packed with calories helped us survive when food was scarce. But now that same craving is what is killing us with obesity because society has advanced in terms of food production/availab…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 10:26 PM
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My computer at work won't let me open the link ;< But my question remains: A 35-year-old man prefers a 20-23 yo woman; however, the 23 yo woman thinks that the 25 yo man looks best. How does the dating market reflect these preferences? Does the 35 yo man just not date if he cannot get a 20-23 yo?
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 10:00 PM
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interesting
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 09:29 PM
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I know men prefer women 20-24. But that chart shows that women prefer men around their same age. What happens when you combine these preferences in the dating market? There has to be some sort of compromise.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 09:15 PM
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I have seen this chart many times. As much as men will be attracted to the 20-23 yo's, their chances of getting them must be dampened by the fact the women prefer men about one-three years around the woman's age.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 08:56 PM
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This was written up by a RPW contributor by u/wub1234
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 08:31 AM
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I have been in Afghanistan for three months, and I have been missing my comfort meal I would make for myself back at home. It was basically last night's refrigerated salmon that I would put into a chopped salad with spring greens, quinoa, blueberry granola, tangy Marzetti honey mustard, and sriracha sauce. It was sweet, tangy, and spicy and the quinoa and greens balanced it out perfectly. drool
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 08:25 AM
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I am definitely not worried.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 04:01 AM
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It is okay. I went to a safe space. :D
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 02:48 AM
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80-95% of males are losers. I am curious to see how you have obtained these metrics.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 02:46 AM
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Welcome! I like how you are noticing the positive feedback from your SO when you make the effort of self improvement. Just my two cents: Men suffer more from illnesses because of testosterone. I ended up in the ER twice in one weekend with my fiance who thought he was dying from a ruptured appendix when it turned out to be just the flu. THE FLU. He was even given a morphine drop.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 01:31 AM
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At least no one has called her a cunt. Source: I got called a cunt on my first post like three years ago.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 01:18 AM
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Your boyfriend can't change his number of sexual partners. You can only change your attitude about it. It would be unreasonable to continue this relationship if it truly affects you this negatively.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 12:30 AM
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If you cannot accept someone for who they are, then it would be kindest to let them go so they can find someone who will.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 11:52 PM
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Lovesong by The Cure, which I plan to have played at our wedding
/r/RedPillWives16/01/17 09:03 PM
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When I was single and before reading RP: 7/10 When I was single and after reading RP: 5/10 Engaged: 9/10 How do you know you are ever a 10/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 02:43 AM
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extremely fit with no kids Ah, the fountain of youth.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 02:20 AM
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Also, I just read your piece on the PPD regarding the wall. It makes me feel a lot better as far as my self image. Since I found out about RP (didn't find out about RPW till later) when I was about 28-29, I thought I was a post waller that was useless to a good man unless I was a pump and dump prospect. If a good looking man expressed interest in me, I would get very suspicious and hurt my chances of even finding out about his intentions out of fear of being a plate just because of my age.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 12:42 AM
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What are you missing? What am I missing!? Do tell us your secret.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 11:48 PM
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I can't help but notice a lot of brag-plaining.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 10:17 PM
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But I can't help but worry that "this time might be time" he fails This is negative outcome thinking. Try to train your mind to always picture him coming out on top, and chances are, he will. Even if he does make a mistake, you guys will get through it. Getting through a mistake is worth it when you think of the long term gain (having a happy husband and thus, marriage). When you have faith in your husband, his confidence will go up because he needs that to be masculine. I just finished the Surr…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 08:49 PM
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only losers are not married by 25. Well, I won't bother giving advice because no one wants to hear what a loser has to say.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 06:49 PM
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You love rap/hip hop beats? Have you ever tried listening to EDM/Trance/Dubsteb? Seven Lions and BT are my favorites right now. Sorry, I don't really listen to rap and don't pay mind to the lyrics because it all sounds the same to me for the most part. Yeah, there are some memorable and catchy rap songs, but I don't let the lyrics get to me because, well sh*t, I would say the same crap if someone gave me a nice fat check.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 10:04 AM
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Noted.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 08:04 AM
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I think it depends on the town and what type of bar you go to. I met my fiance at a bar. I was in a bigger city, and the bar I was at with coworkers was frequented by young professionals.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 06:12 AM
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I read it just to see what the hype was all about. Meh, it had lady boner moments-just some of the sexy time parts because it is fun to have your guy take charge in the bedroom-but I did not care for the rest of the context. The movie was awful.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 04:06 AM
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Psycho Cybernetics. I shall download this after How to and recommend if I like :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 03:56 AM
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Would it kill her to do the approaching? This. I had liquid courage, but I was the one who approached my fiance :) I think a lot of good men out there are too shy to approach women. You should see how guys' eyes light up in the my building when I approach them to share food (I try to get rid of my junkfood I get in care packages because I will eat all of it). I am pretty sure they are more excited about a woman approaching them instead of getting food.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 03:52 AM
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Also, I met my fiance when I was out with a bunch of coworkers. I actually approached him and initiated the conversation. I was 30, he was 28. I heard later he was checking out (He naturally denies this) a younger coworker before I talked to him. I am pretty sure I caught him checking me out, too, damnit. So, your sister could try leaving her comfort zone and initiating with guys. She doesn't have to ask them out, but just starting a pleasant convo might do her some good.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 03:43 AM
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she is significantly over weight OP, as a woman who underwent a chubby stage in 2013, I can tell you she needs to get to the gym. A major part of her health and happiness depend on it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 12:56 AM
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Anyone else fascinated by salt bae?
/r/RedPillWives14/01/17 10:53 PM
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I don't think you will get down voted. This sub is about improving ourselves and self awareness so we can get what we want.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 10:11 PM
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That's the joy of the hamster Use the hamster's energy to better yourself!
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 09:41 PM
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Also, my two cents, if it matters...I wouldn't regard guys who want you to pay as sissies. Going to college, grad school, etc. for a self made man is debt incurring and spending money on dates is expensive. My fiance is an attorney, which is awesome, but that entails law school debt. I was with him when he was making less than I was, now he is making more. If I would have regarded him as a sissy back then versus seeing his potential, I wouldn't be here enjoying him progress in life and realizing…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 09:12 PM
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Good questions.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 09:05 PM
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An observation I have made from my single days: Guys with a lower SMV tended to insist on paying for every date. Guys with a higher SMV would go dutch or we would take turns (But the first date he would pay). Now that I am engaged, we are dutch AF. When we are married, no one will be paying since our finances will be combined into one entity to which we both contribute.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 08:55 PM
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This is a whole post unto itself; I intend to go into it later. gets popcorn ready
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 04:01 AM
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Ha. I am at work but spend way too much time on reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 03:59 AM
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I am no longer in college, but I miss it! Enjoy it as long as you can. WE ARE!!!
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 09:42 PM
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I found the version that is read by the author on iTunes. The quality seems a bit off compared to newer audiobooks, but the author has a nice voice and so I stop noticing.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 09:12 PM
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Aw, man. I missed it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 08:58 PM
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Agree and Yawn? Writes that down
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 09:26 AM
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Never surrender to a beta! I am trying hard to find fun and exciting things to do, but I am deployed and it is difficult. My fun thing nowadays is listening to audiobooks to help pass the time at the gym after shift. I am listening to the Surrendered Wife now and my head almost exploded a couple times, but I think I will be okay. Something exciting? I have my feelers out for job searching in Manhattan so I can join my fiancé after this tour. It is exciting but scary, going from being a hillbilly…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 08:09 AM
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I just started listening to it today while I was on the treadmill. Granted, my fiance and I do not have a paper marriage and have yet to combine our finances, I am a bit confused on this chapter about how to relinquish control. I have an accounting degree. Handling money is not a burden for me at all. He has even told me I am going to be in charge of the finances and I just replied, okay. So, I am thinking to approach it like this: I will be the accountant by keeping score of the finances and ke…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:52 AM
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I just started listening to Surrendered Wife and she said TWICE "us feminists." I had to rewind a few times. I am confident to assess she is referring to first and second wave feminists.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:48 AM
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Everyone, come meet the RPW beta orbiter.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 03:24 AM
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Ahhhh. Perhaps you should direct your sister to this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:44 PM
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Okay, good. What are his thoughts?
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:38 PM
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I mean your sister's father.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:35 PM
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Whoops. Read that incorrectly. Is her father in the picture?
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:33 PM
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Has she ever known how wonderful it is to be around a man who has his shit together, leads, and displays unwavering stoicism? This would be her second failed marriage if she leaves him. Can you have a man-to-man talk with your BIL?
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:25 PM
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keep him from getting bored with me? I would try not to worry about this. Captain material men tend to not rely on their LTR for entertainment. If he does get 'bored' with you, he is probably not interested in commitment because commitment means stability (and giving up plates) which seems boring in some people's eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 09:19 PM
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I think the problems we're seeing today are rooted in economics -- the loss of blue-collar jobs to offshoring and automation Agreed. The author addresses this by mentioning that people flocked to towns where the factories/mines/railroads were hiring. But the town could no longer support them when these industries left. Only the educated and those with some money were able to leave these rust belt towns and the others stayed behind and basically had to endure the poverty.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 06:50 PM
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As I read this, I pictured my younger army guy friends trying to get a rise out of women from which they were trying to get attention. If you wanna be snarky and don't care about what that guy thinks, the agree and amplify method works. "Thank god we're actually men, amirite."
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 06:00 AM
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Agreed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 05:59 AM
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Big congrats on taking steps on self improvement! You should celebrate mini goal accomplishments, as in did your average weight for the week end up being lower than last week's? Aiming for weight loss, in my opinion, requires a long term change in lifestyle and habits. Fad dieting often results in weight returning because your body needs time to slowly adjust to your new 'set weight.' Example: I dipped four pounds below my body's set weight and I spent a week craving pizza and anything dipped in…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 02:55 AM
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What's funny is that when I was in college, I was kinda mad that our public schools never taught personal finance :/
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 02:15 AM
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Hahah no they actually tasted fine. They just looked like they may have swallowed the red pill ;D
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 01:05 AM
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I will never understand guys and makeup. I attracted my fiance with my female deception, and now he is all about me being natural. I look tired when I don't wear make up. Source: Guys at work tell me I look tired when I don't wear makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 11:01 PM
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My fiance told me I am in charge of finances when we get married and combine our assets/liabilities/expenses because I have an accounting degree. That is fine.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 10:59 PM
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Hello to you as well :) Last night this guy had me rolling.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 09:05 PM
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Be careful, OP. My instinct is that younger, 'alpha' men sometimes think women older than them are an easier target for a plate. I get hit on by Chads in my building (and they don't care that I am engaged) who like to flatter me with asking me my age and then suggesting 25. I might actually look good for my age, but I know a Chad when I encounter one. This post is making my plate radar go off.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 08:58 PM
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They hand pick those kind of guys who have been deeply hurt in the past, and have this "I don't give a fuck" attitude, but deep down inside they crave attention like a 5 year old child. So they behave tough, and even abusive to their women. Yup. Guilty of this.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 08:54 PM
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Aww, don't be salty and thirsty. You will end up dehydrated. Good night.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 10:44 AM
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Congrats on baby. :) LOL I think it is a waste of time to reason with this guy. I am actually torn between staying up and laughing at this, or going to bed. It brought me a good laugh, but I gotta get up for work. Good night, all!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 10:25 AM
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Agreed. Age is something we can't help, just like how a short guy can't help being short which lowers his SMV. Cruel market.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 10:18 AM
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8====D
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 10:00 AM
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Psshh everyone hits on me. Worst gaslight/neg ever. Hahah I am just glad we saw this post and called him out before someone did send him pics. Now it is just harmless trolling.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 09:52 AM
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Get dicked.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 08:52 AM
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I hope your inbox fills with dicks.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 08:51 AM
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IDGAF who you are trolling for, you are on a sub that is dedicated to weeding out boys that pull this creeper crap. Move along. This sub is for women who have loser radar more sensitive than your ego.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 08:45 AM
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RPW is NOT your flirting ground! Nothing creeps out and drives away our users like unsolicited flirting PMs from impossibly mismatched guys. This will not only get you banned from this sub, you'll come to the attention of the head of the entire Red Pill Network. This isn't a lounge; Captain Morgan, GTFO.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 08:38 AM
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Read the sidebar
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 08:34 AM
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Alright, this post has been up for 35 minutes. I would like to bet it stays up for no more than 12 hours before the mods remove it. Other bets, GO!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 08:28 AM
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I smell domandheart.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 08:21 AM
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Is this for, you know, science? Edit: You will get bonus SMV points if you send him dick pics.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 08:13 AM
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I have had guys do this to me. One guy was pretty much border line emotionally abusive, but I was dumb and pre-RPW and thought he was 'leading' me because he cared. Well, he cared about himself. And then once I was post-RPW, younger guys in college would try to pick me up in bars and I would refuse to entertain the idea of getting physical. One guy even told me, like it was some kind of a major inconvenience for him, "OKAY, I will take you to Applebee's for a date." SRSLY lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 05:37 AM
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This is where I make a bad joke about a goat having an SMV where I am at...
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 05:28 AM
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I would say more often than not lol.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 02:23 AM
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What matter is the number of guys you want who will fight and die and go out and break his back to support your entire family and your children. YASS.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 01:09 AM
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Redditor for 22 hours... Sounds legit.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 12:18 AM
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PLATE ALERT
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 11:27 PM
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TL;DR: Be 21 and not fat
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 10:46 PM
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I think location is a major factor. I am a 10 while I am deployed (LOL, desert queen). I am an 8 in my Appalachia PO-dunk hometown. I am probably a 6 (with make up and and a nice root bleaching) at BEST in Manhattan when I get home.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 09:05 PM
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Ohhh Busted
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 06:29 AM
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Ugh. I wish I knew about this hysteresis band earlier in life. I thought it was gross how my guy friends would hook up with these low SMV women knowing they would get picked on the next day. Little did I know the same thing was happening to me-just in a higher SMV bracket...
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 02:38 AM
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One of my coworkers said life is like a pie. If you spend more time on something, slice(s) of something else will get smaller. I hope the men on this sub can provide more insight.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 01:22 AM
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Sort of a disastrous failure: My fiance loves how I cook bay scallops with wine, garlic and lemon. I accidentally poured red wine instead of white wine into the pan (guilty of enjoying the ingredients while cooking) and we ended up eating pink scallops that night. They tasted okay, they were just...pink.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 12:31 AM
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Yeah, we take the dog for walks and go to the gym together. He will go off and do his routine while I do mine. I hate the gym but it is like my church I have to go to to get to heaven (enjoy looking at my body in the mirror). We go to the grocery store and have our cheat days together. Good for snapping back into shape after the baby! I am terrified of having children at my age, because I don't think my body would snap back. Don't be too hard on yourself. Ignoring the appreciation for hot guys i…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 10:28 PM
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His postings did not make me bitter at all. Joyous from the laughing that ensued from his train wreck of rants, yes. Thanks for the laugh, domandheart. I needed that.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 09:55 PM
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This resonates with me, as I am a recovering alpha widow. I took the frustrations I had regarding Chads in the office (I work in a hyper alpha-male dominated industry, so there are a lot of them) and used them as fuel to better myself and my relationship. I hit the gym HARD. I channel my attraction energy and use it on my fiance-which means I game him, pretend he is the Chad by sending pics, and ensure I do not potentially waste time on anyone else outside of work shift. All my time and energy m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 08:45 PM
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Aww, thanks for doing all that work for me. You probably are such a good friend for us girls to have.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 07:03 AM
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Nobody is taking you seriously. You have no self awareness.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 05:49 AM
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Yeah some guy posted an AMA because he was a "single male mechanical engineer alpha male looking for a wife." His past comments involved him preferring to fuck his fleshlight instead of his wife...
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 05:47 AM
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You know, blow-up dolls aren't really good for that :*( poor dude.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 04:14 AM
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Your advice is bad, and you should feel bad.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 04:09 AM
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So Alpha, coming onto the RPW sub and stomping around shouting about how awesome you are... Gee, my alpha widowism must be gone because I FEEL ZERO TINGLES. Oh wait...there is something, oh nevermind just gas from my protein shake. Oh well, smell ya later!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 03:47 AM
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Go me. I got a full 60 seconds of his commitment. Does that make me more current than his current girlfriend?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 03:33 AM
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Hahah but are you not entertained?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 03:31 AM
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Aw man, was I supposed to? I stopped reading when I saw some fine male hamstering.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 03:25 AM
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And here is the daily trainwreck. Two in two days on this sub with these guys.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 03:21 AM
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And sex does not lower your RMV, not if it's with me.... If it's with lots of other guys, then yes it will, but not if its with me. Seriously?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 03:06 AM
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He didn't read the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 01:29 AM
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Sigh. You need to read the sidebar. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/4n3o19/commitment_or_gtfo_guide_for_men_considering/ No male-centric advice or discussion. Your comments and advice must be useful and relevant to women, as determined by women. Avoid becoming an example of male human solipsism by giving advice that's an obvious disadvantage to the female, or how she can change to better meet your personal standards.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 01:03 AM
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Commitment or GTFO.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 12:39 AM
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She is going to release the day's catch in bed while you're sleeping.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 12:30 AM
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Hooray! I needed my daily dose of beating a dead horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 11:55 PM
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Yeah, I get that. My takeaway was that if you respected your relationship, you would bring up the smaller issues before cheating occurred :P
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/17 11:29 PM
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About how it comes down to respect? Yeah, I think I snoozed during the mountain part.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/17 08:35 PM
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I just have physical and emotional needs, and they are not being fulfilled by the type of man I unfortunately, happen to find physically attractive. Okay, here is your problem...I don't like the idea of sweeping generalizations, but to me, it seems like your type of man, who happens to be Asian, is not good for you. This may sound abnormal, but I am disgusted by own female parts. I don't like touching them, I don't like the way they smell,. Yeah, this needs to be fixed before you start looking f…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/17 08:33 PM
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He does admit his own faults, which I think humbles him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/17 08:24 PM
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Yeah, I did zone out a couple times lol.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/17 09:12 AM
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I'm engaged you idiot, stop hitting on me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 11:17 PM
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Well at least we like having sex with our SO's instead of bitching on reddit about how we would rather fuck our fleshlight instead.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 10:25 PM
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Yeah, you probably need tight ones to adjust to your tiny peen.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 10:24 PM
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Go talk to your fleshlight.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 10:10 PM
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Wow, you don't say? Get outta here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 10:06 PM
2

I hope the mods banhammer him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 09:42 PM
6

OP comment history: It's takes me like a min 15 jerking of to cum and 1 hour for sex no joke . I'll fuck a fleshlight any day over me wife .
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 09:24 PM
1

You guys do know you will never know how many partners your woman has had? Your sweet, quiet girl could've gotten down in her college town before she moved for that new job in a new city :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:41 PM
1

Sounds like a fun game. Happy hunting!
/r/askTRP07/01/17 07:41 PM
1

She probably is aware you just want to hook up and then stop talking to her. You are her daily entertainment at work by 'chasing her'-why would she want to give that up?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 10:47 PM
1

Hello, fellow veteran :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 08:46 PM
3

No, not really. I know my target weight and height and entered them into a BMI calculator.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 06:48 PM
2

Also, I would be happy with a BMI of 22.6. I have an athletic build, wide hips with an hourglass figure-so I start to look gross-looking if I get too lean. I was told I was too skinny by a couple peers when I got into prime BMI range...
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 09:49 AM
2

My fiance got fired right before I deployed to Afghanistan. He had a month to find a job and it was looking grim as he is an attorney in a very specialized law. I told him, no matter what, I love and will be there for him. His parents were also supportive, which helped a lot. I also told him it was good for him mentally because his former boss treated him like shit. He got a new job making more money in Manhattan a few weeks later! I think just focusing on the positive things and providing suppo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 09:13 AM
3

Do you have recommended products I can order off of amazon for skincare? I take multivitamin/minerals everyday and apply a retinol and moisturizer twice a day. I don't have a lot of control over my diet right now because I have to eat at a dining facility and I am usually limited to chicken and veggies-they usually never serve salmon.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 02:25 AM
6

I don't consider marriage/engagement a final goal-more like a marathon. I never want to be comfortable and have him lose attraction.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 02:23 AM
3

I feel like a hamster running on the treadmill every other day. My fiance is also against me getting abs. I can't help that my abs show when I lose fat. I can't tell my body where to prioritize fat loss :(
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 01:23 AM
3

OMG I could not imagine my SO berating my body whatsoever. Yikes, I hope the pregnant wife's SO grew up! My SO actually gets mad at me if I say something negative about my appearance. I have been keeping my rants about my face to myself, but I get so frustrated because my fiance likes getting pictures everyday to wake up to.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 01:09 AM
3

I will look into that once I get home in about three months. I am also hoping when I get home, having days off that let me sleep in will help boost my collagen production.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 12:32 AM
6

Yeah, this is BS. My boobs are decimated and my face sucks. I am taking fish oil and using retinol on my face.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 11:46 PM
6

I can see some sunken in areas around my mouth and under my eyes. My facial features are too sharp right now. I have lost weight from deployments before, but this is the worst diet face I have ever had.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 10:59 PM
12

No point being bothered. We can only control our own behavior. Guys will spin plates because women will let them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 11:50 PM
2

I am just happy I grew out of my 'dirtball' phase ;D
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 09:47 PM
3

LOL she was a shit person in high school, but I think we all tend to be.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 09:28 PM
9

One man's trash is another man's treasure. shrugs
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 09:19 PM
14

I grew up poor and socially awkward. I didn't start to blossom until my senior year because I was working and able to buy nicer clothes and makeup. Nonetheless, I joined the army at 17, and the army lifestyle which included exercising all the time has kept me in shape. I remember when I would get messages from the 'hot guys' from high school asking me to hang out when I would visit the home town. I would be really excited because these guys would not give me the time of day but now they were all…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 02:30 AM
2

I agree. I am deployed and I am finding myself dealing with a plethora of orbiters and it is killing me-I can't determine if I am actually good looking or just an artificial HB8 thanks to the horrible men-to-women ratio. Double-edged sword.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 11:09 PM
1

Aww thank you. I hit my halfway point in a couple days!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 11:04 PM
1

Thanks, Salemkitty. I have done some self reflecting and I can't beat myself up too much. I am deployed and haven't seen my fiance in almost three months and it is okay to have workplace crushes as long as you don't act on them. I am flooding my fiance with email/facetime attention and showing him how in shape I have gotten FOR HIM. I cannot wait to get a real job and be done with this line of work.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 03:05 AM
1

I think once women are made aware when they are young Chad will have sex with 6s but only wife up 9s alpha widowism wouldn't be so rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 02:55 AM
12

Thanks for the petting, friend.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 12:04 AM
1

Just because I am engaged doesn't mean I am perfect. I found this sub fortunately before I met my SO. Back then, I sucked and three years later I may have improved but I won't stop trying to better myself as a partner.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 08:41 PM
2

Is there sidebar material that helps with what you can do once you're an alpha widow? Some of us haven't discovered RPW until years after feminism/hook up culture/shitty parents, etc. I feel like it's almost like dealing with an addiction problem in a way. I thought I was good but found myself sort of relapsing a few weeks ago.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 10:06 AM
5

How I recovered from a break-up when I was 27: I made the gym and jogging an obsession so my physical pain from sore muscles would override my emotional pain. And looking at myself in the mirror was more fun. I traveled as much as I could with my friends and left my comfort zone to learn more about myself. I kept dating. Dates are still fun and enjoyable only if all you get out of it is a nice conversation. Recognize alpha widowism for what it really is-it is a high from your brain releasing dop…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 11:51 PM
10

Well, more like 'tingles.' When you become Alpha-widowed, you long for that excitement you got from a guy(s) that are usually the type that won't commit (higher SMV than you). The guy who will commit usually is more equal to you and the excitement isn't as high. Passion in your long term relationship can be maintained but it requires work on both ends (staying in shape, gaming each other, investing time). Just my two cents as a recovering alpha widow.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 11:13 PM
5

It is hard to fight our caveman brain :( Just remember passion is fun but not stable in the long run.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 09:47 PM
1

It took me until age 30 to meet 'the one.' Getting my shit together was my priority over marriage in my 'prime.' Age 17-30 involved me escaping poverty by joining the military, getting my education, and getting a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 03:41 AM
2

If a guy hurts your feelings, make the gym hurt you more!
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/16 03:44 AM
7

lol i have discovered the agree and amplify method works on guys, too. Chad: Britany is hot. Me: OMG yeah I would go homo for her.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/16 12:34 AM
1

Tingles are just the brain getting a hit and releasing a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/16 12:32 AM
3

Tingles won't cuddle with you every night and let you cry on their shoulder. Tingles won't see your crows' feet and grey hairs and say, shut up, babe you're hot.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/16 12:31 AM
4

Guys will try to pit women against women. They like to say things like, so and so is hot and try and cause competition. United we stand, divided we fall.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/16 11:55 PM
3

My lizard brain can release all the hormones it wants, RPW cracked the code and I resisted a chad. And the idea of being a cat lady scares the heck out of me.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/16 08:33 PM
18

Be wary of hot guys that game you-they might be above you as far as SMV but have no issue sleeping with you, just not committing to you. It is fun and exciting, but the game will die once they know you know their intentions and they move onto the next girl(s). I also recommend befriending girls at work or wherever so you can exchange stories on what guys are hitting on you so you know if one guy is trying to plate multiple girls at work/school/town. Chad defense network. If hot guy does score a …
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/16 01:23 AM
0

Chad is a guy who marries young and then later discovers steroids and decides he can do better. And it is easy because there are more pretty girls than attractive men on the market :P
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 02:44 AM
1

haha i sadly agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 02:29 AM
2

Bring it, wall. I will battle you with botox, fillers, and squats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 02:58 AM
5

I wish I would've known about RPW when I was 18. I grew up without a father figure and my mom was not a good parent. Without any guidance, I was instantly shaped by society (hook-up culture and feminism) and made A LOT of bad relationship decisions because I did not know any better. Thank goodness men like my fiance exist. On the outside I look like I have my shit together, but inside of me there is a lot of turmoil.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 02:48 AM
1

Gracias, but I have iTunes money for Xmas to burn and we don't have good interwebs around here. I will enjoy listening to it after shift today on the treadmill.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 08:02 PM
12

Thank you so much for this. That longing feeling is what I am trying to kill. I am on a military base AGAIN surrounded by high tier males with a low number of females. I got hit on by an alpha male, and my lizard brain enjoyed the attention until I realized (thanks, RP) he was just looking for what plates he could get out here. Ugh. I have to remember there was a reason my heart hurt when I left my fiance at the airport for this trip.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 05:32 AM
1

Thanks. I will look for the audiobook for when it is jogging time.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 02:07 AM
3

Same reason someone would eat three whole cakes within 24 hours?
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 05:28 PM
1

There is a chance he is using a deception approach...he has done that before...he said he is allowed to lie to me about presents...But Paris would be an awesome proposal site.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 05:21 PM
7

I am just gonna let him go and figure this out for himself. I wanna be totally surprised. He knows my size because he got me a really nice David Yurman ring for my birthday.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 06:24 PM
1

Agreed!
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 04:10 PM
12

I don't think 33 is that old. I am 31 and I met my SO when I was 30. He is 29. If you take care of yourself and exercise, you can pass for a younger age. Plus, you know how to be feminine to attract the masculine. I won't try to change your mind anymore, but it just seems to me you are being too hard on yourself. You're kicking yourself for your marriage you say you blew, I hope you don't kick yourself when you're 43 realizing you could've had another go at a relationship. Good luck :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 03:57 PM
2

Do you want to be alone?
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 03:29 PM
5

I know you already know this, but you only have one shot at life so try to be as happy as possible. If you have internalized RP, you should know about girl game. You know a cheat code to life and can find a guy-even one that is younger lol. I know the game favors youth, but there are guys fed up with younger women and only want older ones. A 30s RPW has got to have an advantage over a 20s BPW in some aspects.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 03:19 PM
1

Don't give up :(
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 02:41 PM
4

Yeah, she needs to fix whatever is going on in her life before even bothering with dating.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/15 11:22 PM
18

I think she needs to take accountability for her mental health and get professional help. No high quality man in his 30s is going to want someone with issues.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/15 11:01 PM
9

I make more than my SO right now because I am a dirty defense contractor (lol) and he is a lawyer. If he felt emasculated about me making more than he did, I think he is over it by now. I think he gets that we are team, not a competition. Just make sure you shower him with blowies and dinners, make him feel manly lol. If he talks about achievements at his work, make sure you compliment him and encourage him. I am sure he will come around and get over it eventually.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/15 10:56 PM
0

Two of my coworkers actually just went Daenerys Targaryen recently as well. Copy cats.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 10:08 PM
1

I have been brunette, auburn, and strawberry blonde. Platinum blonde has been my favorite color so far. I get mistaken to be a lot younger, and I can tell I can turn heads a lot more often. It's just a really pretty color.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 09:53 PM
1

Can confirm dying my hair platinum blonde rose my SMV.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 08:15 PM
3

Last night he mentioned how much he wants to get back into photography. I think he def needs a hobby outside of work besides coming home to the couch and smoking weed after he goes to the gym. Problem is, SLRs are expensive and he doesn't have the cash flows. I do. I could buy him one, but, once again-I don't wanna be mommy. I am already funding our trip to Paris when I get back for our first couple vacation.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 12:28 PM
6

"I feel like im entering work depression meltdown mode again" I just got that message. I am not home yet so I can only Facetime him and chat. It bums me out he hates work so much.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/15 06:17 PM
5

That's my biggest worry right now-coddling. I have done that before and I have ended up being mommy instead of girlfriend. No bueno.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/15 06:09 PM
3

Wow, 20 years! Congrats to that and on your husband's retirement from the military. I have eight more years of national guard before I can retire at the ripe old age of 38 ;) The whole daily contact thing-Well, we have our settled in routines down-I know I do out here. My 12 hour shift overlaps his shift while he is at work so we chat because we both have office jobs. Then we have a quick face time before I go to bed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 03:28 PM
1

OOO that's a good idea, I can send him a pillow case. He is def focusing on bettering himself. He is job searching and has a second interview for a MUCH better salary in a couple weeks and he has been hitting the gym hard (we both have). Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 03:19 PM
1

My boyfriend is a lawyer and I'm a defense contractor/national guardsman. We make the same salary, but I bring home more because of the guard and I don't have to repay massive student loans from college/law school. I am usually the one who ends up buying groceries, giving him extra money for the week, and paying for travel expenses of we go on road trips. He feels bad, but I don't really mind. He seems to worry about it more than I do.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 03:55 PM
3

Next him and start healing. He is wasting your pretty and energy that you could be investing into a relationship with an awesome man.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 01:15 AM
4

I don't know-my dating past makes me love and appreciate my boyfriend so much more. That's just me though.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 11:56 PM
1

Yeah, me too.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 08:16 PM
9

awww, bunnies
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 10:04 PM
3

Gross. Next him and the friend of the friend.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 01:16 AM
1

This ^
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 12:49 AM
1

You're right. The article is definitely written by a man for men.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 12:34 AM
-2

Short hair? Get extensions ;)
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 10:46 PM
0

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2cw9iv/a_better_recovery_strategy_for_trpers_who_acted/
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 09:38 PM
0

There was a post on TRP about guys discovering the red pill and trying to take over as captain while the first mate bucked-her behavior is normal. I will try to find the post.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 09:30 PM
2

Hahaa I think it's because we want to feel protected. We're shark bait when we're hemorrhaging. We feel vulnerable because of the pain and emotions.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 10:29 PM
4

That depends. If he is using his money unwisely, then I will state what I think once. Since he is a full grown man, he will then have to deal with the consequences later. He has not really done anything else-He has never acted like an asshole and is very nice, but not a push over.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 05:58 PM
9

My boyfriend doesn't even know of TRP. It seems if I act feminine, I draw out his masculine traits. I do not nag him, I only encourage good behavior using positive reinforcement. Give him sexytime. I try to look cute as much as possible for him. I learned to be the stoic one during the passing of his cat-I wanted to cry, but I withheld emotions, and helped him get through it. The next weekend, I was rewarded with him being the first to say, I love you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 05:32 PM
4

I am a bit frustrated I did not know about RPW when I was 25 and let myself become a plate of this 'alpha asshole.' Now I am 30 and am with a really awesome guy who deserves the best I can offer.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 04:54 PM
1

So, are there stages for women to go through when swallowing the pill?
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 03:43 PM
1

My boyfriend def misses me living at his place during the week because I would get home earilier from my old job and clean/cook. He can be a bit messy-I let him have my Roomba.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 03:27 PM
1

0;)
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 11:19 PM
1

Well, godspeed to them on the process.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 10:59 PM
12

I'll file this into my No Shit, Sherlock folder.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 10:04 PM
3

I wish your positivity, strength, and love would spread to some of those guys over there.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 12:45 AM
3

That's what I have read when an OP on TRP posts negative and angry posts about women.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/14 11:24 PM
1

Oh yeah, def. I may have made the first move months ago to talk to him that one night, but since then he has been the hornball.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 07:16 PM
1

Hahah he barges in on me when I am in the bathroom trying to put on makeup and straighten my hair. He just can't wait another 30 minutes.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 06:52 PM
1

I know lol. We have not really had our own fun for almost two weeks (Weekend before last I was exhausted from National Guard drill from being on the shooting range in the sun for two days, and last weekend he was a mess from the sick kitty). Last month when we were in NYC he was obnoxiously horny, so I think this will be a much better weekend.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 06:40 PM
1

A weekend in NYC should cheer him up. He loves the city.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 06:09 PM
1

He had to put his kitty down late Monday night. He seems to be handling the loss well, from the outside. He went to work the next day, and later that night told me he would have been embarrassed if I was there to see his meltdown. He seems worried about his masculinity right now because of his financial difficulties and the grievances of his recently deceased cat. I told him he is being strong, saying I would have never been able to have gone to work the next day if my cat died. He told me I am …
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 05:56 PM
1

Thank you. I see him this weekend and he wants to spend Saturday up in NYC. He seems to be doing a lot better, probably because he got to have his cat pass in his arms and this whole situation was not drawn out for months like it was for my cat who had a urethral obstruction.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 04:32 PM
1

That's a good idea. He just got done with work and is heading over to see the cat. I'll tell him that tonight during our nightly face time.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:58 PM
1

Thank you. I told him cats are tough little shits and I thought my cat was going to die but it pulled through. I am making sure I am not mommy, and he is calling his parents for support, too. I am telling him we will get through this, and to be strong for kitty, and that I got his back.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:50 PM
2

So many guys in the military who seem alpha at work end up with women with kids.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 05:58 PM
-5

My first sergeant in my national guard unit is an alpha. He may be a ginger, but all the females in my unit dig him (I'm guilty, too). He is engaged to a woman who is okay-looking, but she has three kids, too. She and them moved in with him.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:53 PM
2

Perhaps. But it seems like a ticking time bomb when the younger/equivalent aged guy realizes he can get younger chicks.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:33 PM
-7

OP must be a REALLY great beta imitator then.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:26 PM
4

Why do 30-year-old women like her bother even going for younger guys?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:16 PM
31

Damn. Red Pill philosophy has made me NOT be that 30-year-old gal. Yikes.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:42 PM
1

My dream is to get into threat economics. My forensic accounting class was challenging but I loved it because it was not your boring typical financial accounting class. I have 10 years experience as an intelligence analyst, and I hope to get into the threat finance field so I can actually start using my degree instead of just saying I have one.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:05 PM
2

You're still going to have fraudsters and you'll need the auditors and forensic accountants.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:27 PM
2

I interned for a bullshit $9 an hour while I was a senior. Then I applied to some places that had entry level positions that ranged from $35K-41K. Like any profession, you will have to do your time to get to a more senior level. Go for positions that offer training and upward mobility. My friend from high school graduated from college in 2006 and is now a staff accountant-making $50-$60 I think. I am not an accountant right now-I blew off the interviews that week when I found out I got picked up…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 07:39 PM
2

Finance is more about investing and making decisions in the future based on accounting information. Accounting is more score keeping and analyzing transactions-and tax. I hate tax.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 07:36 PM
3

Accounting. There will always be a need for accountants. I had five interviews in one week for entry level accounting.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 04:33 PM
1

I miss PSU! I just graduated in May, and now I am working full time. I miss my little Happy Valley. Such a beautiful, huge campus and food and drinks everywhere downtown.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 03:23 PM
1

He is the most awesome boyfriend I could ask for. He is the perfect mix of alpha/beta for me. It's just this issue...
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 08:10 PM
1

I think he is just lazy and I spoiled him. He knows I aim to please, and even if I try witholding, he will just feed me a bottle of wine. I love wine. He knows alcohol makes me sexually aggressive and then I take charge of sexytime and my drunk ass does porn star moves on him.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 08:06 PM
1

He's broke. I have seen the balance of his student loan thanks to college and law school. I do not expect luxurious dates, but since now we only see each other on the weekends, we do make it a goal to do something fun or romantic-ie, see a movie, good dinner date or homecooked dinner, go out with friends, etc. If he is actually as well off as those persons of whom you speak, he deserves an academy award for his acting lol.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 06:17 PM
5

I can really agree with this. He does tell me all he wants is me to be there with him. It just sucks when he brings his financial hardships up because I grew up dirt poor and really feel for him. I will get groceries for myself while I am home (his place) and cook some big meals anyways. I am sure he'll view it as me cooking dinner for him like I have in the past.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 05:39 PM
3

He kept mentioning he needs new clothes. And his birthday is in a couple weeks, so I thought new shirts would be a more appropriate gift for him instead of a weekend at the beach which I had originally planned.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 05:15 PM
1

Yeah, I really want to do that for him this weekend. I had been living with him for a couple months while I worked at my national guard unit and would be home hours before he was-so I would have dinner ready for him when he got home, and I would clean his place for him. He let me live there before I got my dream job 3.5 hours away. We miss this arrangment, but the goal is for us to be living somewhere together (hopefully NYC) when he can land a job somewhere else eventually. He has been applying…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:42 PM
-2

He has never made any inqueries about my past...he is just really happy I am not crazy like his exes.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 02:27 PM
-2

Well, it's been six months...how long does it take?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 02:22 PM
1

oh jesssiiss http://imgur.com/gallery/cXwDYtd
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:51 AM
2

I usually initiate. He just lies there and I go down on him, but he never returns the favor. He'll just go into the act and switches me around in positions. I've never climaxed from P/V. I've told him this. I subtly mentioned the issue with this sprinting/marathon analogy. He started talking about him going jogging today. Lol wtf.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:19 PM
1

Sort of. One commentator said I should make "down there" as pleasant as possible. I shave and shower before I see him and freshen up if I anticipate us getting it on...
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:03 PM
1

I work 3.5 hours away during the week and come home to see him on the weekends. As soon as I got home Friday, he basically whipped it out and pushed down my head.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:38 PM
1

Many, many times, the man is finished before the woman really gets started. Many, many times, after the woman’s body gets going, she can be still humming along, ready to keep going but the man is asleep. These are both frustrating experiences for her. I practice RPW methods by always being open sexually to my SO. But he is getting so lazy in bed with me initiating and doing all the work. Sometimes I have to really kick my own butt to get it on with him because he never returns the favor-when he …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:31 PM
2

I've never met a man who has asked about my history, have any of you?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 07:05 PM
-1

My boyfriend is awesome, but he won't run marathons...like ever. He loves his BJs and me on top, but what the hell...
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 06:51 PM
6

It doesn't help. This post wall, single mother revenge fantasy gives the warm and fuzzy feeling equivalent to a girl getting likes for posting selfies.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 05:04 PM
1

Do guys ask their ladies this? How could you ever know if she lies?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:17 PM
5

I only get maybe 10-15 likes for a selfie. I'm done, I quit.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:07 PM
2

I can't answer that objectively :/
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:59 PM
3

I'm a new employee in a sea of cubicles. I'm 30 and guys always say I'm in my low 20s...is that a flirt?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:51 PM
1

oh, hamburgers
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 03:06 AM
1

oh...okay never mind...
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:55 AM
1

oh...maybe i'll check it out one of these nights.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:53 AM
1

some of these ladies have been with their SO for many years-that demonstrates an indication of relationship success. Why not find out what they can tell us younger ones about how we can be successful as well...
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:51 AM
1

sorry, not familiar with that thread.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:49 AM
1

I'm 30. So I am not a dream woman for the red pill fellas. That's perfectly fine with me, though.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:41 AM
3

Yeah, she texted me in frustration that she is too good looking and young to experience being turned down for sex. I would have probably nexted the guy if it were me;but, since I am friends with him, I want to try and root for him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 12:14 AM
6

My deadbeat dad once told me to "treat them like shit" when he was giving me advice on dating...I think he forgot he had a daughter.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:44 PM
6

Boyfriend is feeding me a bottle of wine before we see it and then when we get home he's gonna get it.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:36 PM
2

OMG get a prostitute or Craigslist account.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:27 PM
27

d*cks or gtfo I'm kidding im kidding
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 11:09 PM
1

Were they serious?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:16 PM
1

What did the person above have to say anyways?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 08:30 PM
1

Well, lol, he asks for it when he has a bottle of wine waiting for me when I get home for the weekends...it's like he really likes my drunk alter ego who goes porn star on him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 07:07 PM
1

Funny thing. I used to make guys wait, and the relationship didn't last/progress...I met my boyfriend out at a bar (he does not drink, but was out with his friends) while I was drinking and had the liquid courage to approach him. We had a really good time, and we hooked up. Naturally, I expected nothing more from him, but he invited me over for dinner after work the next day. We have been together ever since and I even lived with him for a couple months after I graduated college. Who'd have thou…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 04:24 PM
1

2014 was my worst year ever. Meeting my boyfriend this year was the silver lining and I probably kept my sanity with him being in my life. I found a job 3.5 hours away from where he lives, and when I feel any stress, a quick text/thought of him makes me feel way better.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 04:13 PM
2

Same boat. My mom had me to "save her marriage" with a bad boy who already had a daughter from another marriage. My dad passed at 50 from issues stemming from drug use. I was notified on Facebook by a woman he was seeing who was younger than me when he passed. I got two deadbeat parents, yay. That meant at 17, I was in the army and had to put myself through college. At 30, I finally have a career making a cozy salary as a defense contractor and met an awesome guy. The red pill helped me embrace …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 12:15 AM
3

Ugh. Another politician saying something stupid and getting the liberal media fired up. Now she is getting the spotlight, I'm sure. Well played.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 08:47 PM
4

He tried to downgrade my NCOER-he was NOT in my rating scheme and my Latina female squad leader found out and confronted him about it. My NCOER was readjusted to how it was originally. No one messed with our squad with the Latina Fire at the helm.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:55 PM
7

So far in my 13 years in the Army, my shittiest leadership has been male. It's pretty bad when half your company submits sworn statements against the 1SG due to his mistreatment/favoritism of Soldiers in a combat zone.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 04:52 PM
1

Umm...America was a colony, too.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 06:36 PM
2

Oh my goodness. All she had to do was say, thank you, and carry on. It's not like he was being gross-he just said, "you're pretty." She should try going to another country like Afghanistan or somewhere in Latin America where the guys are 100x worse.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 02:38 PM
8

Kesha wrote a song about this.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 04:39 AM
2

That sucks! I'm sorry. Dating can be fun, and not so fun. Don't lose hope. Keep up your motivation to look good and don't be afraid to approach men.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 12:53 PM
1

RPW: Attract the type of man we want for a relationship by improving ourself and not being a plate.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 11:17 PM
2

Boyfriend is taking me to NYC for the weekend :>
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 04:44 PM
6

...Sugar tits...
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 04:37 PM
3

Exactly. Above all reasons to next a cheating SO, the fact he is exposing you to sexually transmitted infections.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 04:36 PM
2

And knowing is half the battle.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:20 PM
2

Oh shit, son. OP needs to place the period AFTER the closed parenthesis, too.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:03 PM
1

Any more editing requires a fee...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:59 PM
3

I like this game. OP, you need to change losses to loses :O
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:58 PM
1

Don't forget our two best friends, your and you're.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:53 PM
1

Best of both worlds!
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 10:25 PM
1

Newb lurker here, too. So far I have gotten some pretty good advice. As far as your situation goes, based on my understanding, alpha guys can have beta traits in LTRs.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 09:10 PM
1

I am a big fan of hair extensions. Get a couple clip-ins (most gentle) to give your natural hair some lusciousness.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 09:02 PM
1

I can't allow myself to mooch off of him. I buy the groceries, cook, and clean up. He is a really awesome guy. Even when he is busy with work and his side projects of directing/editing, he will still check up on me :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 01:04 AM
1

Yeah, but at least you can get an idea of how the opposite gender is feeling about romance and relationships. I did not know how bad it would be to be a post wall female who is looking for a good guy. Luckily, my guy thought I was 24 the night we met. When I met his friends, they were astounded I was 30. I hope I already hit the wall, because then it couldn't be that bad.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 12:58 AM
1

Thanks for the input. I make dinner that consists of veggies, lean meats, and whole wheat carbs. I even ask him if any of his friends are coming over so I make enough food. I def give him space-over the weekend, he shot an indie commercial with friends from college. He invited me over to the place in which they were shooting but I ended up staying back to clean up his place and continue job searching. We actually went out for sushi that night when he was done and we had a really good time-played…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 12:47 AM
2

Thank you, danabanana. I got off of the computer after applying to a bunch of jobs and cleaned up his place. It was a good work out, too. He is out shooting an indie commercial with his friends so he'll get to come home to a much tidier apartment.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 09:01 PM
1

Noted. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 04:15 PM
1

Yes, definitely. I have a bad habit of being too much of a mothering girlfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 04:13 PM
2

Sorry. I have to stop being so negative. I am happy with him or I would not be wasting our time. He is a fresh breath of air compared to the guys I have dated. He is really kind, smart, and gives me a lot of attention and I am not used to that. Fingers crossed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 03:27 PM
2

I can see why. Maybe I am overthinking things and putting myself down a rabbit hole. I have been on my computer A LOT the past few months job searching so maybe all the reddit and negativity from the prospect of being jobless are festering in my head.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 03:18 PM
1

You're right. I messed up relationships because I would be an army bitch with boyfriends. It's laughable nowadays.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 03:13 PM
1

I take the pup out for 2-3 mile jogs and then do some push-ups.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 03:03 PM
1

I am going to ask him straight up what he wants as far as foreplay. i always thought oral was what he wanted. He told me a couple months ago I was the best he has had in the bed. I am just not used to being the initiator I guess. Hahah I am hygienic and hairless down there. I try to make it a place that is as inviting as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 01:08 PM
2

Thank you. He told me to not let him order Chinese, so I took that as a rule I was to enforce. He ordered Chinese last night because some of his college friends were visiting. He then said he felt crappy from it. Ah well.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 01:05 PM
2

I should have mentioned I have lodging on base but I am staying at his place.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 01:02 PM
3

Nightmare. Yyyyeah...How have others reacted when they discovered the pill?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 01:00 PM
3

Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 12:53 PM
1

This is good, but why is it bad to love yourself? If I didn't love myself, I wouldn't bother working out and eating healthy...am I interpreting this incorrectly?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 09:50 PM
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