It's ironic that they talk about a "lack of empathy" and "lack of understanding others perspectives" when at the same time, they are automatically anti-MRA and say a man can't even have his own opinions about his own lived experiences.
It's also in the same vein of the emotional labor argument that feminists love to throw around. Everything a woman does is emotional labor but nothing a man does in a relationship is so women are always doing the most emotional labor in a relationship.
It's not that those "young white men" are speaking out and battling what amounts to a hate group that is pushing misandry and discriminatory practices against men...it's that it is a problem with young white men.
The cognitive dissonance of the feminist enveloped young female and the inability to see beyond their own privilege and entitlement to the plight of those facing discrimination and trying to speak out.
...and it is he that should have escaped her, not the other way around.
The people who rage around claiming issues can only be understood by people who experience it suddenly turn around and declare there are more knowledgeable on issues they do not experience.
Removed removed removed. Take a good look. This is the direction the internet is going. It's going to be impossible for anybody to say anything online that's not pre approved by the feminist oberfuhrer.
Feminism decries the inequality of male billionaires (apex fallacy) by beating the crap out of the poor guys of the working class. No wonder they've engendered so much resentment.
There is zero accountability. I have never seen a feminist, as a feminist, apologize.
I have never seen a feminist, as a feminist, apologize.
I have. Feminist CEO of the local rape crisis service apologised in a board meeting for the decades long exclusion of male victims. Actually admitted it had been wrong.
Keep on mind that Feminism functions as a religion. So when you look at this, imagine 100 years ago a woman finding out her husband was holding seances and communing with the devil. That is the level of outrage and irrationality.
Beware of anyone who tells you, "Beware of this book,(or video or any source of data,) it will corrupt you."
That sub must be moderated as harshly as feminism is... Just another hate sub full of feminists that can't stand actual equality and want all the special privileges without any of the responsibilities.
Nothing wrong with men fighting for certain things they believe are double standards with their gender. Head over to r/menslib for some good discussion on that. This person is probably referring to the group of MRAs which in general just shit on feminism.
Reminder that reddit womens subs are not what ordinary women think. Only a fraction of the population is feminist. Most women do not want to be feminists because they correctly assess it is a man-hating movement. Don't let them gaslight you into thinking this is normal. Feel free to be open about your opinions on this topic with the women in your lives.
There's also some real internet tough woman shit going on here because this is the politically correct answer they have to give in order to avoid being abused by the other (single) feminists there. The point is to gaslight men into feeling scared of standing up for themselves. Do not fall for it.
Did anyone ask the obvious question of why this woman was looking at this guy’s YouTube history in the first place? He should run because she sounds controlling and crazy.
“I was going through my boyfriends phone computer and personal space and found out that his personal beliefs differ from my own. Women of reddit, please feel sorry for me!”
My boyfriend used to look at those videos before we started dating. Ive completely changed his perspective on feminism since then (3 years later). He genuinely thought all feminists were the types in those videos (usually TERFs) and that's why he wouldn't consider himself a feminist even though he agrees with the ideology that men and women are equal. After a few rational discussions over the past couple years he now will say that he is a feminist and understands that the cringey minority doesn't represent the majority of the movement at all.
So she forced her boyfriend to identify with a group of people who consider him to be human garbage.
"Don't listen to all the angry women telling you to fuck up your relationship. Unless he's an abusive bastard, all that his YouTube history means is that you have landed one of the few men out there with some spirit and self-respect."
Wow, thats a very thorough deletion of comments, the topic itself aaand basically I have no idea what the topic really began with or any of the replies to it were, as theres like four comments.
Quite a number of those responses are actually proposing discussing the issue with him. But I'm looking at this 11 hours after you posted this on r/MensRights, the people commenting now aren't the same kind of person that scrolls through new posts on r/AskWomen.
[–]BlueOrange22 53 points54 points55 points (3 children) | Copy Link
It's ironic that they talk about a "lack of empathy" and "lack of understanding others perspectives" when at the same time, they are automatically anti-MRA and say a man can't even have his own opinions about his own lived experiences.
[–]ckiemnstr345 18 points19 points20 points (1 child) | Copy Link
It's also in the same vein of the emotional labor argument that feminists love to throw around. Everything a woman does is emotional labor but nothing a man does in a relationship is so women are always doing the most emotional labor in a relationship.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I like to ask "what about actual labor"?
[–]boogerhookerblunder 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
It's even worse than that at this point. Merely questioning a particular issue will get you labeled alt right or an incel.
They seriously equate being a mens rights supporter to being an incel or a alt right nazi. Its fucking ridiculous.
[–]DJ-Roukan 26 points27 points28 points (1 child) | Copy Link
It's not that those "young white men" are speaking out and battling what amounts to a hate group that is pushing misandry and discriminatory practices against men...it's that it is a problem with young white men.
The cognitive dissonance of the feminist enveloped young female and the inability to see beyond their own privilege and entitlement to the plight of those facing discrimination and trying to speak out.
...and it is he that should have escaped her, not the other way around.
[–]VadersDawg 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The people who rage around claiming issues can only be understood by people who experience it suddenly turn around and declare there are more knowledgeable on issues they do not experience.
[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points (6 children) | Copy Link
How would you know? The mods deleted like 75% of the shit there.
[–]uhohNotThisGuy 10 points11 points12 points (3 children) | Copy Link
I tried to peek and most of the comments are removed for “derailing”.
[–][deleted] 26 points27 points28 points (2 children) | Copy Link
AKA having an opposing opinion
[–]EsraYmssik 11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
AKA trying to explain the reality of the MRM?
[–]uhohNotThisGuy 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Poor things.
[–]SpyderByte42 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
https://snew.notabug.io/r/AskWomen/comments/c6zyx9/what_would_you_do_if_you_discovered_that_your_sos?sort=confidence
[–]rahsoft 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
i had a quick look at your link
all i can say is
there is seriously a world of very deluded double standard narrow minded people there...
[–]goalposthead 19 points20 points21 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Removed removed removed. Take a good look. This is the direction the internet is going. It's going to be impossible for anybody to say anything online that's not pre approved by the feminist oberfuhrer.
[–]1LegendaryWombat 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I found this the other day: https://www.reddit.com/r/WatchRedditDie/
[–]xNOM 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think it has much to do with feminism. Women are offended by everything, and men are not allowed to criticise women anymore.
[–]Egalitarianwhistle 17 points18 points19 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Feminism decries the inequality of male billionaires (apex fallacy) by beating the crap out of the poor guys of the working class. No wonder they've engendered so much resentment.
There is zero accountability. I have never seen a feminist, as a feminist, apologize.
[–]Greg_W_Allan 4 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy Link
I have. Feminist CEO of the local rape crisis service apologised in a board meeting for the decades long exclusion of male victims. Actually admitted it had been wrong.
[–]Egalitarianwhistle 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Good for her. Small stuff makes a big difference. I retract my statement.
[–]Egalitarianwhistle 14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep on mind that Feminism functions as a religion. So when you look at this, imagine 100 years ago a woman finding out her husband was holding seances and communing with the devil. That is the level of outrage and irrationality.
Beware of anyone who tells you, "Beware of this book,(or video or any source of data,) it will corrupt you."
It means that their own beliefs are fragile.
[–]RacelessSexlessName 13 points14 points15 points (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.removeddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/c6zyx9/what_would_you_do_if_you_discovered_that_your_sos/
That sub must be moderated as harshly as feminism is... Just another hate sub full of feminists that can't stand actual equality and want all the special privileges without any of the responsibilities.
[–]ThePigmanAgain 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL!
[–]azazelcrowley 11 points12 points13 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Reminder that reddit womens subs are not what ordinary women think. Only a fraction of the population is feminist. Most women do not want to be feminists because they correctly assess it is a man-hating movement. Don't let them gaslight you into thinking this is normal. Feel free to be open about your opinions on this topic with the women in your lives.
There's also some real internet tough woman shit going on here because this is the politically correct answer they have to give in order to avoid being abused by the other (single) feminists there. The point is to gaslight men into feeling scared of standing up for themselves. Do not fall for it.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I hope it's not normal, the stuff in that thread is depressing and cringey lol
[–]bhullj11 10 points11 points12 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Did anyone ask the obvious question of why this woman was looking at this guy’s YouTube history in the first place? He should run because she sounds controlling and crazy.
[–]nkid299 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
omg i like this comment
[–]bhullj11 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
“I was going through my boyfriends phone computer and personal space and found out that his personal beliefs differ from my own. Women of reddit, please feel sorry for me!”
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
So she forced her boyfriend to identify with a group of people who consider him to be human garbage.
Sounds like a healthy relationship to me!
[–]ThePigmanAgain 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Here's what i told her in a PM...
"Don't listen to all the angry women telling you to fuck up your relationship. Unless he's an abusive bastard, all that his YouTube history means is that you have landed one of the few men out there with some spirit and self-respect."
[–]1LegendaryWombat 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow, thats a very thorough deletion of comments, the topic itself aaand basically I have no idea what the topic really began with or any of the replies to it were, as theres like four comments.
[–]Mythandros 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I checked that post and wow. So many brainwashed women advising leaving him just for having different beliefs.
It's discouraging that so many women subscribe to feminist views and the hate that goes along with them.
[–]DownrightCaterpillar 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Quite a number of those responses are actually proposing discussing the issue with him. But I'm looking at this 11 hours after you posted this on r/MensRights, the people commenting now aren't the same kind of person that scrolls through new posts on r/AskWomen.