Lost my virginity: was underwhelming

3rt41 · 2017-03-28T20:24:56+00:00

After a lot of good, bad, really bad and really good sex with different women, i agree with you that in the long run is not that worth it.

But fake alphas here are going to downvote you and tell you to hit the gym and fuck bitches like a raging bull, don't be surprised

DSetupDTitleDMenu · 2017-03-28T05:56:22+00:00

Sex is like any other skill. You're not going to be amazing on the first go. You gotta practice, practice, practice to be good at it. If you're expecting a mind-blowing porn fantasy, then yeah, you're gonna be disappointed, but the first time is always the most awkward time.

But hey, at least you're no longer a virgin.

billybob02 · 2017-03-29T06:58:19+00:00

It's the game and the journey that makes me feel alive, not the final result.

shitpommesfrites · 2017-03-28T10:52:11+00:00

It's pretty average the first times to be honest, at least it was for me. Sex is a skill like everything else in life, and with practice it becomes more fun and more rewarding.

The_Lightskin_Wonder · 2017-03-28T11:07:47+00:00

The intensity of the situation takes away from the enjoyment of sex on the first pass or so, but after several sessions, you will get into it more. Pussy is pussy.

Red pill or not I'm open to any women I date , on talking about what we like and don't like etc. You don't necessarily do this to figure out her sweet spot, but to learn how people work, and learn about yourself. Take feedback, try moves from karma sutra. If you want her to fuck like a hoe, you gotta fuck her like one too. I've noticed women do not open up sexually around men who keep it vanilla, keep it 100 try everything...every fucking thing

There's two things I know you can not teach yourself to become better at and thats sex & welding, and remember its not a performance, its an activity your doing with someone (like dancing)....ENJOY IT.

throw162534 · 2017-03-28T12:16:02+00:00

Dude I'm 25 and I still have bad nights. You'll have them now and then and this was your first time. Sometimes they're not doing their part and you have to do all the work, sometimes you're a little too drunk and you can't fuck them as good as you know you can. Sometimes it just takes being together a few times before it actually gets good. If you keep working on it with her it'll get better.

Occams_Stubble · 2017-03-28T12:37:50+00:00

My first time was not a very good experience, she was a virgin too and it was a lot of fumbling. After just a couple tries we made it good.

asktrpthrow123 · 2017-03-28T13:10:02+00:00

Congrats... I remember my first time I had no clue what I was doing, I actually told the girl I wasn't a virgin, felt so awkward during the process, I'm sure she realized, but when I walked out of that bitch's place, I had the biggest grin on my face.

Never heard from her again though.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-03-28T20:58:38+00:00

Lol I lost mine in a hot tub. Awful.

Easiest way to tell a guy is lying is when he tells you he had great sex in a shower or pool or hot tub or something.

PIeight · 2017-03-29T01:52:56+00:00

Lost my virginity to my gf

Congrats.

The best part was the weight off of my shoulders of no longer carrying the V card.

Yep.

Title	Lost my virginity: was underwhelming
Author	GenjiNeedsNerf
Upvotes	4
Comments	13
Date	March 28, 2017 5:43 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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