What steps can someone take to completely change his life?

iHeartCapitalism · 2017-04-07T05:22:13+00:00

You can't build power, wealth, relationships - or anything really significant (unless you're a hermit) without other people involved.

My focus now is sales. I have good experience from before but with my skills as I programmer, I see that the main thing I lack to reach my goals is to become an even better salesman.

For you, it may be getting better with girls. Being better at networking. Making friends. Hell, even being a better salesman.

But improving the way you interact with others to reach your goals is a very important part of being a man, in my opinion.

throw162534 · 2017-04-07T03:47:17+00:00

You should travel. Experience different cultures and places. That will change the way think, give you stories to tell, help you identify with more people you meet, and expand your worldview.

[deleted] · 2017-04-07T01:43:45+00:00

Join a local fascist organization. Read everything you can about Augosto Pinochet.

Surfincloud9 · Thu Apr 6 23:13:04 2017 UTC

Meditation. Hobbies. Pick up something that includes other people.

Cunt_Robber · 2017-04-07T04:19:19+00:00

Among those 4 you mentioned, you need to add social skills and social status. Having a network of friends, acquaintances, career-related relationships, etc. will take you far. Nobody can make it on their own. Your value increases the more you can offer others. Practice the people skills to compliment someone and keep a conversation pleasant and interesting with everyone you meet.

SetConsumes · 2017-04-07T22:45:56+00:00

I presume you have some goal.

Then you want to change your beliefs and habits to support your goal. Slowly but surely.

Change your beliefs, then your habits will probably begin to change accordingly.

ThePoorAreWorthless · 2017-04-06T23:13:09+00:00

If you've done the top 4, you're life will have already drastically improved, yes? You've said hobbies, but I'd make sure you really focus on that. If you're lifting, reading, doing your own self study, all you need is to have a crew you go surfing with, or camping, or a rugby team etc, and you're absolutely set. It sounds like you're already on the right track.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-04-06T22:54:13+00:00

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Title	What steps can someone take to completely change his life?
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Date	April 6, 2017 7:53 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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