[27F] "My husband is divorcing me because of a sex tape I made in the past. What's especially damaging was that in the video I was more vocal and did things that I don't do with my husband." Lots of comments supporting OP and criticizing the husband. (Follow-up post in comments)

Ass_Guzzle · 2018-10-25T15:24:40+00:00

"more vocal" he saw this birch getting railed out and was like wtf she don't fuck me at all like this.

oodles007 · 2018-10-25T16:58:43+00:00

r.relationships is filled with people who for some reason believe that past activity has no bearing on current relationship and frequently there's a barrage of people replacing rational thought with emotionally charged drivel, based in the post-modern tradition of denying that there is a truth to which everyone can objectively understand. "My girlfriend had a gang bang with guys she just met" Response: "What's important is that she wants a relationship with you now...her past is her past...you should be happy she wants only you" The worst part is most guys eat it up like candy. That must be the patriarchy!

Noah4224 · 2018-10-25T11:34:18+00:00

Yes your husband is being insecure but only because every button that can be pressed to crush a guys ego was just pressed. Thought he had a great idea to introduce something new to their sex life finds out you've already done it. Sees an actual video that you still possess of the sex act he thought was going to be unique to your relationship. In that video the guy has a bigger dick,you seem to enjoy yourself more and are doing things you don't do with your husband. Also how would he have known the sex tape was in a broken laptop did he try to work on it or specifically went through it looking for dirt

I like this comment. Sums it up from the male perspective well.

2018-10-25T21:30:35+00:00

“Just because she was louder doesn’t mean she enjoyed it more”

L-O-FUCKING-L. Women are wonderful.

thelordofunderpants · 2018-10-25T14:00:10+00:00

I don't see this as PP. And I'm coming from a male point of view, shit I'd be devastated if I was in the guys position and I'll say it openly, it's because both of us have poor self-esteem. Although it was incredibly incredibly stupid on the lady for keeping a tape of her ex, from a females pov it would be considered a form of cheating if a guy did that.

This guy has to decide if he wants to mend the relationship or if his esteem is so broken that he won't be able to look at his wife without seeing Mark.

Sp0kySc4rySk3l3t0n · 2018-10-25T13:52:20+00:00

saved

Religion_N_Polyticks · 2018-10-25T18:43:49+00:00

And the tape was made while they were together...

txdesperado · 2018-10-25T15:40:09+00:00

I've parted ways with women over less. One got a haircut after I specifically told her, 'No!' And yes, she does have the right to have shorter hair. But I also have the right to choose not to be in a relationship with women with short hair.

witheringslights · 2018-10-25T23:35:22+00:00

Pro tip: do NOT watch a sex tape involving your wife and another man. No good can come of it.

Also, dont make a sex tape. I mean like duh.

CharitableMiser · 2018-10-25T19:54:03+00:00

Seem like a variation of the 'key and lock' scenario.

A guy doesn't want to think of the one he loves as easy, cheap or slutty (bad lock).

Those arguing in favor of the woman fail to see this.

aef823 · 2018-10-25T19:31:50+00:00

Why the hell would you even keep your sex tapes?

jfc release it anonymously in pornhub or something, then download it there.

Now you can pretend it's just one of the many ones you have.

SrGrimey · 2018-10-25T17:29:22+00:00

Is this PP?? This... how? I don't get it

lazzy811 · 2018-10-25T16:30:12+00:00

Fuk that dude!

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