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xPost: Iceland has recently proposed a ban on circumcision. How would you feel about this in your own country? • r/AskReddit

perplexedm

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Title xPost: Iceland has recently proposed a ban on circumcision. How would you feel about this in your own country? • r/AskReddit
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perplexedm

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Date September 24, 2018 6:06 AM UTC
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Comments

[–]Themightysavage 11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

The ladies in my country say "My body, My choice". I feel like that should be true for the fellas too.

[–]hfldrd1 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I agree, I’m uncertain on my stance, but I think this is arguing more for parents choosing to get babies circumcised

[–]Themightysavage 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's exactly what I was addressing. A baby can't consent, so until they can choose they should remain intact.

[–]hfldrd1 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha then we are in agreement :)

[–]perplexedm[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Check with u/CapnPoot here.

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

Just because there is debate against women does not mean it is automatically identical for men.

FGM is a travesty and means of controlling a woman’s sexuality, at the cost of great pain, and almost guaranteed complications.

On the other hand, male circumcision is shown to have medical benefits, and no evidence of long-term trauma suffered.

So unless there is text to prove otherwise, I am inclined to believe the two are not identical in nature.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Just because there is debate against women does not mean it is automatically identical for men.

so men do not own their own bodies?

FGM is a travesty and means of controlling a woman’s sexuality, at the cost of great pain, and almost guaranteed complications.

FGM comes in 4 types including things more severe and LESS severe than circumcision. All are ban. Should the types of FGM less damaging than MGM (like clitoral pricks, labia removal etc) be legalized then?

On the other hand, male circumcision is shown to have medical benefits, and no evidence of long-term trauma suffered.

not true. The medical benefits are less beneficial than condom use... and in europe (where the rates are low) they have less STDs than in the US or other cutting countries.

So unless there is text to prove otherwise, I am inclined to believe the two are not identical in nature.

Cutting children's genitals for cosmetic reasons is wrong.... what part of that statement do you disagree with?

And yes, your own link says its cosmetic.

[–]Themightysavage 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Name checks out

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

so men do not own their own bodies?

You ignored my entire argument and went for the classic feminist argument. Well done.

FGM comes in 4 types including things more severe and LESS severe than circumcision. All are ban. Should the types of FGM less damaging than MGM (like clitoral pricks, labia removal etc) be legalized then?

Every “type” of FGM has negative impacts on women, and cripples them sexually. Compare this to circumcision which has shown to have health benefits.

not true. The medical benefits are less beneficial than condom use... and in europe (where the rates are low) they have less STDs than in the US or other cutting countries.

Please read the source I provided, and feel free to look through the sea of information online which show various hygienic and health benefits of circumcision. Also, you can use a condom while circumcised... not sure what your argument is there. They serve an entirely different purpose.

Cutting children's genitals for cosmetic reasons is wrong.... what part of that statement do you disagree with?

Where do you keep getting the idea that it is purely cosmetic? Do you think people are chopping off foreskin to look cool?

And yes, your own link says its cosmetic.

“The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) says the benefits of circumcision outweigh the risks.”

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You ignored my entire argument and went for the classic feminist argument. Well done.

I... asked a question.. one that you dodged lol

Every “type” of FGM has negative impacts on women, and cripples them sexually. Compare this to circumcision which has shown to have health benefits or be neutral.

or its damaging... you know because you lose all function the foreskin provided.

Please read the source I provided

it says that its a cosmetic surgery done because of religious tradition. Hardly a standing recommendation.

and feel free to look through the sea of information online which show various hygienic and health benefits of circumcision.

I'm not going to make your argument for you. That's your job numbnuts.

Also, you can use a condom while circumcised.

Yes... wear a condom or CUT OFF PART OF YOUR DICK AND wear a condom tough choice.

Where do you keep getting the idea that it is purely cosmetic?

because that's what the medical organizations say. And because even if its not purely cosmetic no other healthy tissue is cut off to prevent any disease.

“The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) says the benefits of circumcision outweigh the risks.”

you didn't finish the whole quote

The American Academy of Pediatrics found the health benefits of newborn male circumcision outweigh the risks, but the benefits are not great enough to recommend universal newborn circumcision.

Meaning "we want to say that everyone should do it, but we don't have the evidence to tell everyone to do it."

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I... asked a question.. one that you dodged lol

You asked a question which leads to an obvious answer - yes, men own their own bodies. But that is not the debate. The debate is whether it is ok to perform circumcision on newborns for religious purposes (or health). This does not include circumcision in third world countries which is done at an older age, unsedated, to punish sexuality.

or its damaging... you know because you lose all function the foreskin provided.

What “function”? There is no evidence to suggest people without foreskin function any differently than people with it. In fact, there are cited health benefits, as well as hygienic conveniences.

it says that its a cosmetic surgery done because of religious tradition. Hardly a standing recommendation.

Please reread the article. Or google for more information. To say that Jews or other religions do it for “cosmetic” reasons is ignorant and uninformed.

I'm not going to make your argument for you. That's your job numbnuts.

Thanks for the unprovoked insult. Also, I have provided you with a source multiple times. My suggestion to reinforce that source with more if youd like.

Yes... wear a condom or CUT OFF PART OF YOUR DICK AND wear a condom tough choice.

This is fear mongering

Meaning "we want to say that everyone should do it, but we don't have the evidence to tell everyone to do it."

Saying “we dont have the evidence yo tell everyone to do it” is not the same as saying “we are telling people specifically not to do it”. My point this entire time is that at the worst, it is a neutral outcome.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You are literally just rambling at this point.

You are refusing to address my points by calling them fear mongering or other labels and are running scared. Fuck off.

[–]marcooni1 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://blog.practicalethics.ox.ac.uk/2017/08/does-female-genital-mutilation-have-health-benefits-the-problem-with-medicalizing-morality/Extensive blog about MGM and FGM

[–]Wisemanner 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I would expect the laws of my country to be decided by a majority of the population and not outside activists.

[–]perplexedm[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That way, tyranny of majority can also be an issue. For eg., FGM will be legal in some countries?

For cases like circumcision, etc. we have to consider that separate?

[–]Wisemanner -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If you do, what's next?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

whats after we ban the genital cutting of infant boys? Well hopefully the extension of other basic human rights to men.

[–]marcooni1 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is non existant in Estonia. But it should be banned, just like FGM is and there is even less of it.

[–]WeAreTheSheeple 11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It should be a 'human right' to not attempt to modify your child in anyway until they are old enough to make an informed decision. Always hated seeing babies / children with their ears pierced. They never made that decision.

I'm just glad that I don't live in a country that actively takes part in male genital mutilation. The Americans and Jewish can try to claim that it is not, but I'm sorry, it obviously is.

[–]perplexedm[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

To be fair, ear piercing is not at all even close to the kind of problems circumcision can cause. And many young girls really want to do it because of feminine fashion reasons. Even boys get their ears pierced in some places.

[–]WeAreTheSheeple 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I know, and very true. I just don't think it should be a parents right to modify their child's body in anyway what so ever. Some cultures have and still do some weird and crazy shit to their children.

[–]perplexedm[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I mean, the issue you raised in extremely minor in comparison with circumcision, which is a serious issue and causes several deaths an year.

[–]WeAreTheSheeple 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True, but it's still along the same lines of 'protecting ones body.' Society / parents should never try to alter their child's body in anyway. Wither it's tattoos / piercings, or more extreme things like bandaging their heads or shoes that alter their feet, it should be a world wide human rights act.

[–]hfldrd1 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I’m honestly uncertain, can someone highlight why circumcision is religiously needed?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

because almost all faiths are anti sex.

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

It is true that many religions see it as a sin, but like you said, not all.

Judaism for example promotes it as healthy and “spiritual”, and so anything that would compromise that would be disallowed. That is why I am confused as to why so many people consider it “evil”, since there are cultures who carry it out with the aim of improving sexual function.

Source: https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/circumcision/about/pac-20393550

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Judaism for example promotes it as healthy and “spiritual”, and so anything that would compromise that would be disallowed.

not if you are doing it out of wedlock. And you aren't really providing any proof with that claim.

That is why I am confused as to why so many people consider it “evil”, since there are cultures who carry it out with the aim of improving sexual function.

and people in the middle ages put leaches on people to get rid of venom in their body. Doesn't mean it works.

Also, since nobody has been able to ever answer this...

How do you cut off something that has feeling and IMPROVE feeling in that area? You are basically saying that if you cut off a girl's clit then it might improve sexual function because there is now less tissue.

And just for the record, using your recourse

"However, the AAP doesn't recommend routine circumcision for all male newborns."

Circumcision is not medical. Its a cosmetic procedure involving a knife and the genitals of a child. That's evil. Full stop.

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

not if you are doing it out of wedlock. And you aren't really providing any proof with that claim.

... sex is always considered healthy by Judaism, except it is not promoted out of wedlock, since casual sex leads to the degradation of societies... but that is a topic for another time.

and people in the middle ages put leaches on people to get rid of venom in their body. Doesn't mean it works.

... “Leeching” is shown to be useful in many circumstances, and used in surgery for various purposes. That point aside, I agree that just because something is done in the past doesn’t make it correct... except in cases where there is corroborated evidence to show positive health benefits.

How do you cut off something that has feeling and IMPROVE feeling in that area? You are basically saying that if you cut off a girl's clit then it might improve sexual function because there is now less tissue.

That is false logic. I said “sexual function”, which research shows that circumcision can help prevent issues with in adolescence. It also helps with hygiene, among other things. Your incorrect comparison to FGM is also troubling, since it has been scientifically proven to cause severe damage to women’s sexual function by causing chronic infections, as well as the inability to feel pleasure through sexual intercourse.

Circumcision is not medical. Its a cosmetic procedure involving a knife and the genitals of a child. That's evil. Full stop.

Please don’t spread misinformation that has been refuted quite clearly by science. I see that you cherrypicked one sentence among the sea of positive attributes of circumcision, but that does not negate the fact that in the vast (vast) majority of cases, circumcision has shown health benefits.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

... sex is always considered healthy by Judaism, except it is not promoted out of wedlock, since casual sex leads to the degradation of societies... but that is a topic for another time.

citation needed on them saying that. Scripture verse works, as does really anything else.

... “Leeching” is shown to be useful in many circumstances, and used in surgery for various purposes.

so do we use it now in hospitals? And does it actually remove venom? No and no.

That point aside, I agree that just because something is done in the past doesn’t make it correct... except in cases where there is corroborated evidence to show positive health benefits.

correct. And you haven't showed that child genital mutilation has any real health benefits THAT OVERRIDE the person's own bodily integrity.

We could always remove a girl's breast nubs and 100% prevent all breast cancers... or remove (name a body part) and (name a disease it gets) but we don't in EVERY other case than male genital cutting because we understand that a person has a right to their body.

That is false logic. I said “sexual function”, which research shows that circumcision can help prevent issues with in adolescence.

citation needed... also the foreskin has a lot of sexual function its the most sensitive part of the penis citation is in the image btw.

Also how is that faulty logic? You asserting that it is faulty doesn't prove that it is.

It also helps with hygiene, among other things.

So you think boys are so dirty that they cannot wash themselves...

and

you think that all the other mammals (since all mammals have a foreskin) can keep themselves clean without needing surgery but male humans can't.

AND

you think that evolution fucked up the design of the foreskin to make it collect disease on the one part of the body that evolution actually cares about (the genitals) but only on human males.

k. Prove it.

Your incorrect comparison to FGM is also troubling, since it has been scientifically proven to cause severe damage to women’s sexual function by causing chronic infections, as well as the inability to feel pleasure through sexual intercourse.

I agree. Circumcision does the same to men. here are all the things, all cited that can happen to a man missing his whole penis

Please don’t spread misinformation that has been refuted quite clearly by science.

its listed as a cosmetic surgery by every medical organization on earth. All you have to do is list ONE that doesn't say its a cosmetic surgery.

see that you cherrypicked one sentence among the sea of positive attributes of circumcision, but that does not negate the fact that in the vast (vast) majority of cases, circumcision has shown health benefits.

what are these health benefits? And why do you consider them more important than a person's choice AND their access to their whole genitals?

Why aren't you cutting out your daughter's breasts to prevent breast cancer?

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

citation needed on them saying that. Scripture verse works, as does really anything else.

Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judaism_and_sexuality

so do we use it now in hospitals? And does it actually remove venom? No and no.

“Leeches were used in medicine from ancient times until the 19th century to draw blood from patients. In modern times, leeches find medical use in microsurgery, while hirudin is a valuable drug for some blood-clotting disorders.”

Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leech#Medicinal_use_of_leeches

correct. And you haven't showed that child genital mutilation has any real health benefits THAT OVERRIDE the person's own bodily integrity.

  1. Easier hygiene.

  2. Decreased risk of urinary tract infections.

  3. Decreased risk of sexually transmitted infections.

  4. Prevention of penile problems.

  5. Decreased risk of penile cancer.

Source: https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/circumcision/about/pac-20393550

We could always remove a girl's breast nubs and 100% prevent all breast cancers... or remove (name a body part) and (name a disease it gets) but we don't in EVERY other case than male genital cutting because we understand that a person has a right to their body.

Again, a false dichotomy. Removing breasts would yield no health benefits, and can be done if a woman shows signs of cancer at any point in life. This would also hinder her ability to breastfeed.

citation needed... also the foreskin has a lot of sexual function its the most sensitive part of the penis citation is in the image btw.

Debatable. Also, I cited how it is more hygienic, and reduces risks of infections and such.

Source: https://www.livescience.com/27769-does-circumcision-reduce-sexual-pleasure.html

So you think boys are so dirty that they cannot wash themselves...

Dont put words in my mouth. I did not even imply that. I said it helps with hygiene.

you think that all the other mammals (since all mammals have a foreskin) can keep themselves clean without needing surgery but male humans can't.

Again, a false comparison. There are other health benefits besides for just hygiene.

you think that evolution fucked up the design of the foreskin to make it collect disease on the one part of the body that evolution actually cares about (the genitals) but only on human males.

I dont know, I’m not a doctor. Humans have appendixes which serve no function other than to spontaneously combust and kill us, but that wouldnt align with your view that humans and animals have bodies which every organ serves an immaculate function.

I agree. Circumcision does the same to men. here are all the things, all cited that can happen to a man missing his whole penis

“Bleustein et al. (2003) claimed to measure overall penile sensitivity, but their methodology made that impossible. Even though the high innervation,6 21 29 40 the sensitivity,12 39 51 and the erogenous nature,6 of the foreskin had been reported previously, the foreskin inexplicably was not tested. The foreskin was held back out of the way53 54 and the contribution of the foreskin to overall penile sensitivity was not determined. Their studies reported little difference in glanular sensitivity between circumcised and intact males.53 54 If that is the case, then the decrease in penile sensitivity after circumcision and the increase noted after foreskin restoration must lie elsewhere.57 The most likely location is in the foreskin.57 Denniston reported loss of sexual pleasure in a survey of males circumcised in adulthood.61”

So the methodology was deemed “impossible”, the foreskin was “not tested”, the “contribution of the foreskin to overall penile sensitivity” was “not determined”, and “the decrease in penile sensitivity after circumcision and the increase noted after foreskin restoration must lie elsewhere”... “most likely location is in the foreskin”...

Very presumptuous, and it is regarding males circumcised in adulthood, which I have long since agreed is undesirable. Please read my aforementioned source about how the testing was deemed as “flawed”.

its listed as a cosmetic surgery by every medical organization on earth. All you have to do is list ONE that doesn't say its a cosmetic surgery.

Do cosmetic surgeries reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases, as well as infections?

Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circumcision#Effects

what are these health benefits?

I have mentioned the health benefits 10x by now. It is your choice to acknowledge them, or keep repeating that I did not provide adequate proof.

And why do you consider them more important than a person's choice AND their access to their whole genitals?

Who are you to try and get the government to intervene in a man’s sacred religious practices which has been around for thousands of years, especially when said practices have been scientifically proven to yield health benefits?

Why aren't you cutting out your daughter's breasts to prevent breast cancer?

Yet another false dichotomy.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

1) Easier hygiene.

2) Decreased risk of urinary tract infections.

3) Decreased risk of sexually transmitted infections.

4) Prevention of penile problems.

5) Decreased risk of penile cancer.

None of these are common or need to be treated when the infant is an infant... No other surgery on earth removes healthy tissue from a nonconsentual patient.. Therefore mutilation.

[–]thrway_1000 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Archive -- https://archive.is/A902g

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (62 children) | Copy Link

Im curious how this would work regarding religion. As a Jew, I’m not sure how it would affect an extremely important tradition.

[–]marcooni1 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Same way like FGM is banned despite being important religion for some religions. It is banned and thats it. Deal with it.

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

Im glad you think you can tell me to “deal with it”, when it has no effect on you. I also find it interesting that I was downvoted for asking a simple question about how it would affect a certain religion.

[–]marcooni1 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

For some religions fgm is important. Do you thoughed that anyone asked from them? No. They just banned it.

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

FGM is performed on girls up to the age of 15, and its only purpose is to nullify sexual pleasure. There are absolutely no benefits, and in fact, it causes severe pain when being done at an older age, as well as causing complications throughout a woman’s life.

Circumcision on the other hand is done immediately after birth (non-Jews), and 8 days for Jews. The theory behind this has been shown to be because babies have the highest amount of blood-clotting factor in their system at 8 days. Compared to FGM, it is done humanely, does not affect sexual pleasure, and has been shown to have positive health benefits.

So I fail to understand how FGM and male circumcision are “exactly the same”.

Source: https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/circumcision/about/pac-20393550

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

there are literally top posts on this sub where 9-13 year old boys are circumcised by the UN in africa.

Also, are you for FGM if they are infants?

[–]mikesteane 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

It could be like in Israel where orthodox Jews refuse to do military service and are consequently not popular with ordinary Israelis. If they avoid military service on this basis, they are expected and required to uphold all other orthodox beliefs.

If Jews demand an exemption from the obligation not to mutilate babies penises on the grounds of their religion, they should get the penalties applied to others for this crime against humanity when they do something like wearing clothes of mixed fibre or consuming milk and meat at the same meal.

No, religion does not give you the right to mutilate babies' penises anymore than it gives you the right to mutilate female genitalia. There must be no exceptions.

[–]hfldrd1 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Ok, what if the child grows to 16 and then chooses circumcision, is that ok?

[–]mikesteane 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I would choose 18 as the age, 16 year-olds are rarely independent in Western society. But the fact is, almost no one chooses circumcision for themselves without enormous pressure being put on them.

[–]hfldrd1 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is true, I’m doing more research into it and I’m agreeing with you, I think 18 should be the age

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

either 16 or 18 is way better than done without consent to them as infants so whatever for me....

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

In Jewish law, there are rules about how Jews are supposed to respect the “laws of the land”, so I see how there might be a loophole where people would just travel to places where it is legal to avoid penalty.

On the point of “mutilating baby penises”, I find it interesting that the issue has arisen out of nowhere, almost as a counter-argument to women complaining about FGM. Every single Jew I know is circumcised, and I don’t know a single one who is traumatized by it, or regrets it. To me, this is unlike FGM, which seems to be done as a punishment (at what age??), or as a means to control/dull sexuality.

[–]mikesteane 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Every single Jew I know is circumcised,

You only know male Jews then.

and I don’t know a single one who is traumatized by it (circumcisions are done at 7-8 days old), or regrets it.

Many of them will be in denial, they are unable to assess the damage that may have been done to their pain reception system, they do not know what they are missing.

To me, this is unlike FGM...as a means to control/dull sexuality

This is the purpose of MGM as well

(Search under "John Harvey Kellogg circumcision" to get an idea of how this principle works for a certain type of religious mind.)

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

You only know male Jews then.

Very clever

Many of them will be in denial, they are unable to assess the damage that may have been done to their pain reception system, they do not know what they are missing.

Are you Freud? The onus is on you to provide proof of your hypothesis. Anything else would be pseudo-scientific assumption.

This is the purpose of MGM as well

Again, the onus is on you to prove this. The AAP acknowledges many health benefits to circumcision which outweigh the risks. Saying otherwise without proof is fear-mongering.

Source:

(Search under "John Harvey Kellogg circumcision" to get an idea of how this principle works for a certain type of religious mind.)

Please explain this, since my google search is yielding ambiguous results.

[–]mikesteane 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

they are unable to assess the damage that may have been done to their pain reception system

They have no means to know how they would process pain information differently had they not been tortured at the age of 8 days. I refer you to the work of John W Prescott for information regarding how the practice of infant circumcision affects adult society. I would also suggest you research the link between Sudden Infant Death Syndrome and circumcision.

This is the purpose of MGM as well

See here

Please explain this, since my google search is yielding ambiguous results

J.H.Kellogg:

A remedy for masturbation which is almost always successful in small boys is circumcision. The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anesthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind, especially if it be connected with the idea of punishment. In females, the author has found the application of pure carbolic acid to the clitoris an excellent means of allaying the abnormal excitement.

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I would normally respond point by point, but your entire post comes off as a conspiracy theory.

How is a child “tortured” at 8 days, when they are given anesthetics? Also, SIDS is notorious for having no definable cause - you’re telling me you’ve found the answer to a historical enigma, and that it’s circumcision?

Finally, why are you quoting that J.H. Kellogg lunatic? He is clearly mentally unstable, and is proposing a solution similar to lobotomy. Circumcision has been practiced for thousands of years - just because some moron wants to use it as a form of “mutilation” does not make that it’s primary purpose.

[–]mikesteane 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

when they are given anesthetics

No, they are not.

The fact is that there is a statistical connection between SIDS and circumcision. Easy to research for yourself but here are some links:

one two three four

[–]mikesteane 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Can you reference the rules about respecting the laws of the land, please?

[–]hfldrd1 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (42 children) | Copy Link

Did some reading, I’ve decided that it should be ok once the child has turned 12. The reason for this number is he has not reached adulthood yet, but legally he is old enough to make a decision like that (at least in Australia).

I do not however believe it’s an extremely important issue however because I would rather fix the growing problem of hiring inequality before this. Is circumcising an issue? Never heard of it before now as a problem

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

not 12. At 12 a child still is under full control of their parents and their parent's beliefs.

Most FGM in the world is done when the girl is around 9-13. Most MGM in africa happens when the boy is around that age as well. A 12 year old cannot consent to sex, or to genital cutting.

I do not however believe it’s an extremely important issue however because I would rather fix the growing problem of hiring inequality before this.

A boy having the right to his whole body is the most important issue for the MRM right now (in my opinion). Its a huge problem when boys literally don't even own their own bodies. My body, my choice right?

[–]hfldrd1 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree in a different thread I changed it to 18

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (39 children) | Copy Link

I dont understand the logic here. Circumcision is one of the most painful operations that can be done, and if a person for any reason gets an erection, it can completely botch the operation... permanently. Theres a reason it is done pre-puberty, and at only a few days of age.

[–]hfldrd1 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (34 children) | Copy Link

I changed my answer to 18+ if you check the thread, idk how to edit comments

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (33 children) | Copy Link

Thats fine, but its the same issue. 18+ is just as hard, and the risk of complications skyrockets. As I said, the whole point of child circumcision is to avoid pain, and prevent complications.

[–]hfldrd1 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

So if I was born to Jewish parents and I avidly didn’t want to be Jewish, I am now marked forever with a reminder that I was Jewish.

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (12 children) | Copy Link

Sorry to hear that, but being circumcised is done more outside of Judaism than in it, so I don’t know if it is a “mark” of Judaism.

[–]hfldrd1 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

I thought most circumscising was religous

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link

Apparently 60% of Americans are circumcised. 60% of America is not religious for sure.

There also seems to be research by the AAP suggesting that circumcision has multiple health benefits, so it wouldn’t be surprising if non-religious people are doing it.

Source: https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/circumcision/about/pac-20393550

[–]hfldrd1 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

At the end of the day, I still think it should be the persons choice, because it is a massive cosmetic decision regardless of benifits

[–]hfldrd1 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Right but if your 18+ you can choose to undergo this operation, if your a child, you cannot

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (14 children) | Copy Link

Kind of sounds like a catch 22 to me. Every Jew I know is happy to be circumcised , as it aligns with their religious views.

If we were to not do it, and only allow them to do it at 18+, do you think they would be happier, or angry that now they have to do an extremely painful, more costly, riskier, and more time consuming procedure? Or do you think they would have rather had it done at an age where pain was much less severe, with less complications, and no traumatic memories?

[–]hfldrd1 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

I would still argue it’s their choice. There will still be kids who aren’t ok with it and it affects them

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link

I understand your position, but that still doesn’t satisfy my question.

Lets say 99% of Jews would choose to be circumcised for their religion. Now, let’s say the government banned the procedure. Do you think it would be fair to make those people wait til 18 to make a decision, which now comes at the cost of extreme pain, high infection rate, high rate of complications, and immobility for months? All so 1% of the children could avoid getting a procedure done, which has been shown to have health benefits?

Source: https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/circumcision/about/pac-20393550

[–]hfldrd1 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

It is a tricky question, you have made me uncertain where I stand on it in all truthfulness. Your argument is perfectly valid, however so is the argument that it should be the Persons choice

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

every jew you know is so happy they are circumcised that they don't even think that what they lost has any value lol

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

how is it more of a risk to cut a bigger organ that is fully grown vs an infant's organ that will not only grow but is much smaller (IE a slip up = no more penis)

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Grown men get erections far more often, and can therefore cause more complications. Also, healing is much quicker the younger you are. This is true for almost all procedures.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Still is healthy tissue that has no reason to be cut off.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

you have to give the child an erection before you cut them as an infant. That's why the fucked up mohels give the infant a blow job first.

[–]mikesteane 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually, they stimulate the penis manually to make it erect. The suction comes later.

[+]CapnPoot1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

You have no idea the amount of ignorance you are spewing. You are calling a person who derives no pleasure from a religious procedure a child molester. I would dare you to say that to a Rabbi’s face, and see the level of disgust in his face as you mention an idea that would never even cross a man’s mind, as it crosses yours.

Also, I have been to dozens of Bris Milas, and have never seen that happen once.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fiddling with a child before cutting off part of their genitals is child abuse... And sexual assault.

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