I am in IT and this has been a thing for a long time. They want more women in math and science so they are pushing for it any way they can. But in the mean time receptionist jobs that only require a high school diploma and pay $25 an hour are going mostly to attractive women because businesses want the person people see and deal with to be a pretty girl. And men just have to settle for physical labor at $13 an hour if all they have is a high school degree.
Friend of mine had 50/50 custody with the mother. He still paid child support. So he was supporting him 85% financially.
They had in writing, in a legal document, that they would switch off claiming the kid of taxes each year. For a little while he was on the dad's insurance. Well the mother is Indian on paper. (She's a white woman, but it is common here to be Indian on paper because you get benefits and at one point no one really checked into it when claiming your kid was Indian. A friend of mine is same way. Indian on paper and gets 100% of benefits but is really 0% Indian.) So the mother gets insurance free. So she forced the dad's hand and got the kid on her insurance.
As soon as the kid was on her insurance, she took him to court over the agreement on claiming the kid on taxes every other year. Court said, "Mother is paying for insruance. That's costly She gets to claim kid every year on taxes now."
No one looked deep enough to see, the mother isn't paying anything for her insurance, the mother has the kid like 51% of the time now so child support is way more meaning the dad is paying the bulk ofthe kid's expenses since he pays during the 50% he has him and then on the mother's time too. No one is listening how the mother is pawing the kid off on the dad now more and more. She got what she wanted on paper so now keeping the kid more isn't important to her as much. No one is looking at any of that.. They just dump it all on dad and call it good.
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I am in IT and this has been a thing for a long time. They want more women in math and science so they are pushing for it any way they can. But in the mean time receptionist jobs that only require a high school diploma and pay $25 an hour are going mostly to attractive women because businesses want the person people see and deal with to be a pretty girl. And men just have to settle for physical labor at $13 an hour if all they have is a high school degree.
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Friend of mine had 50/50 custody with the mother. He still paid child support. So he was supporting him 85% financially.
They had in writing, in a legal document, that they would switch off claiming the kid of taxes each year. For a little while he was on the dad's insurance. Well the mother is Indian on paper. (She's a white woman, but it is common here to be Indian on paper because you get benefits and at one point no one really checked into it when claiming your kid was Indian. A friend of mine is same way. Indian on paper and gets 100% of benefits but is really 0% Indian.) So the mother gets insurance free. So she forced the dad's hand and got the kid on her insurance.
As soon as the kid was on her insurance, she took him to court over the agreement on claiming the kid on taxes every other year. Court said, "Mother is paying for insruance. That's costly She gets to claim kid every year on taxes now."
No one looked deep enough to see, the mother isn't paying anything for her insurance, the mother has the kid like 51% of the time now so child support is way more meaning the dad is paying the bulk ofthe kid's expenses since he pays during the 50% he has him and then on the mother's time too. No one is listening how the mother is pawing the kid off on the dad now more and more. She got what she wanted on paper so now keeping the kid more isn't important to her as much. No one is looking at any of that.. They just dump it all on dad and call it good.
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