Women have asked me "Why do men always notice the ring?" or something to that effect. I usually just shrug it off, but the last time this was brought up, I finally responded "Why DON'T women notice that?"

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-04-26T22:47:19+00:00

"why do men shy away from me if I am obviously taken?"

"Because we don't want to waste our time trying to bang a woman who is already 'taken'. That's why women fucking WEAR rings, so that other men will know that she has an Owner already."

Docbear64 · 2017-04-26T22:06:34+00:00

Women notice but all having a ring means is that someone else wants you and women are attracted to valuable men and what better way to know if a man is valuable than to know that other women want him too ?

Pre-selection is a thing and having a ring while also being attractive is a form of pre-selection.

blackedoutfast · 2017-04-27T03:18:44+00:00

tbh fam that's funny bc i'm at the point where that ring is a green light to make a move. i'm not saying that all married chicks are total whores looking to cheat or whatever, but if a girl with a ring is out at a bar/club and shows up on my radar, yeah a lot of them are looking to cheat.

single girls always have a long list of requirements for "husband material" but married chicks are just looking for a guy who isn't their husband.

refelgallo · 2017-04-27T00:40:43+00:00

Having been married and a cad in my youth. I would never turn down a woman if she had a ring on. In fact I would be more receptive to a married woman than a single woman. Because they did not want to risk their marriage. Simply add a little spice and they would leave me alone when it was over.

YongeArcade · 2017-04-27T00:31:09+00:00

Women lack empathy for anyone but themselves and other women.

Now there are men who are cads and sociopaths who do not have empathy either but, a) there is no gender limit to their sociopathy as in women B) they are ostracized and looked down on and not the majority of the community or celebrated as are empathy lacking in women's circles.

1.The feminist delusion ( TwoX -- numerous articles in magazines ) of sexism because men back down if a girl tells them they have a boyfriend. On the false belief that the men only respect another man's ownership of her.

--Since women have no empathy for a man, they can't imagine him having any for her and not want to cause her pain and break up her relationship for a few dates, some fun and sex. . The male "love at first sight / I must have you" is a trope from Romance novels, Romance novels are only read by women. Believing that it is some respect man to man rather than the reality of tepid "liking her" and see what happens. Breaking them up is a step too far and would hurt her if you are wrong so fore go continuing to ask her out.

She projects her complete lack of empathy for men since she leap frogs/ can not consider the idea that he does not want to hurt her for a few dates.

2.Every story of being "the other woman" ( mainstream media , women's magazines) . Any sympathy or emotion is only ever for "the wife" never for him. Not in the tempting him or any guilt he might feel, or an emotional weakness that the woman might be exploiting in him in the affair or when his life destructs when it is found out. He is a piece of cardboard to them. A non-person who's only motivation or thought processes are bad and there for unsympathetic.

Seeing the ring or told "boyfriend"

A man can put himself in her shoes and feel their conflict and doubt and possible shame and guilt if he keeps pressing for a date or they go on one. He backs down.

Women sees the ring and ignores it, because they feel no empathy for him and "wife" is someone far away at the moment.

*The Mystery of _ Women totally ignore you when you are single and are hitting on you left right and centre when you are in a relationship. *

Had that happen so much in my beta years and did not figure it out till the red pill. Was getting regular sex and was in love, so was happy and confident and was better groomed, and dressed better for her. Also the factor of being "pre-approved". Women I notice have a herd mentality, following fashion and fads a lot. Being a part of the group . So if some other woman finds you attractive enough to date you, you must be attractive. There must be no hidden problems with you, women have such a poor view of men from feminism and other women that they imagine something horrible about a man right off the bat.

Also she can justify you to her friends if there is currently another woman having sex with you. ( I do a lot of interracial dating so I hear of the problems my dates have when the girlfriends of her race find out. All problems can be wiped out if you have high value. If you are near on the same level as the men her friends are dating, she is mocked for dating for the sex or your big dick) .

Have not been able to replicate the same interest as when I was in love. So must be body language .

Burlaczech · 2017-04-26T22:19:05+00:00

I honestly never notice rings.

quicklogaccount · 2017-04-27T13:25:05+00:00

Furthermore, why do they seem to be more interested in men who are already in relationships?

Objectively speaking, for her:

Double profit:
If she hooks the guy, she's validated by his interest in her. Furthermore, bear in mind she is hypergamous, so she also feels like she is SUPERIOR to the guy's partner.

Zero risk:
She has all the plausible deniability in the world for herself.
She's just "playing" because he has a girlfriend, she's not a slut, just a bit flirty.
If she fails to hook the guy, she tells herself "I didn't want to get him, he's taken. I wasn't rejected, I wasn't playing".

Besides the objective reasons, you also have reasons that relate to game, aspects that effect attraction.

Non threatening:
Committed men don't want to pump and dump her, by standard. She trusts them not to game her for it.

Pre selection:
The committed men satisfies one of her peer's hypergamy and she is aware people are more than what they show.

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