Let's say a transsexual male to female pre-op withholds his penis information to a male date, who do we fight for?

mrwhibbley · 2018-03-17T04:33:25+00:00

I feel anyone transitioning has a responsibility to disclose that information to anyone they become or attempt to become romantically involved in.

TibsKirk · 2018-03-17T06:01:09+00:00

There should be no deception if possible. Given that only like 0.3 percent of the country is trans, and deception isn't usually possible (given that we just kind of know when a man tries to be a woman or vice versa), then what percentage of dates are we actually talking about here? A man who doesn't know that his date was born a man? I've seen about 10 fairly passable examples (on the internet) in my life where that might occur, but b/c people want to normalize it and exaggerate the extent that it's possible for a man to pass as a woman or vice versa, then questions like this one are raised.

Probably the most convincing trans woman I've ever seen is Blaire White, but it's still quite obvious that she was born a man. And she is called "the lucky one" who transitioned well.

rodrigogirao · 2018-03-17T06:55:02+00:00

It's deceit, no matter if pre-op or post-op.

BlindGardener · 2018-03-17T16:35:36+00:00

Withholding information is somewhat rude. Lying by omission is somewhat rude.

_Desert_Beagle_ · 2018-03-17T18:16:38+00:00

As a trans female, I say the male date. Trans people need to be upfront about where they are transition wise, when it comes to romance.

aussietoads · 2018-03-17T05:07:48+00:00

First up, get with the times. Even stupid feminists in the 80's realised that you can't really change your sex, so instead they refer to it as transgender not transsexual, in spite of the Rocky Horror Picture Show in the 70's making the word transsexual a common household utterance.

Fight for? I'm sure both males can fight for themselves, they don't need my help.

Title	Let's say a transsexual male to female pre-op withholds his penis information to a male date, who do we fight for?
Author	Xanexx
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	March 17, 2018 4:29 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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