I really liked this post. Not all of Tumblr is misandry. (xposted from TumblrInAction)

jp_mra · 2017-12-26T23:09:54+00:00

I've had women specifically ask me for dick pics (sending them is not my thing). I know one woman who keeps a collection of them, but "it can't be the first message he sends." I've been told women ask for it so they "don't waste their time and get disappointed when the time comes."

Also, I get like 2 compliments per year on my looks. It's so rare I feel awkward and don't know how to respond.

McFeely_Smackup · 2017-12-26T19:10:30+00:00

Feel free to whistle. They'll tell you when to stop.

Don't hold your breath for being asked to stop.

TheLonelySnail · 2017-12-27T01:53:35+00:00

Be right back. I'm going to compliment all my male friends.

This is so sad :(

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2017-12-27T06:29:28+00:00

I’ve had a dick pic taken of me without my consent after sex. Luckily my face isn’t in the photo but I’m still pissed about it.

SoulofEquality · 2017-12-27T10:16:08+00:00

I posted this on my Facebook last week, and added my own thoughts to it, basically saying that maybe 2018 is the year we can finally get to the point where males receive compliments (real ones, not fake "catcalling" by drunk women) as much as females for their bodies/physical features.

Got a bunch of upvotes from my male friends/acquaintances. And a long ass comment from a dude I barely know who wanted to flaunt the fact he got compliments everyday when he used to work out and went on to say that the only men who don't get compliments don't deserve them...Dude, no. TONS of good looking men don't get compliments.

damac_phone · 2017-12-27T02:22:54+00:00

Last time I had a girl compliment me she said I was surprisingly fit and that I looked like Marc Maron, who she was a fan of.

circlhat · 2017-12-27T06:24:12+00:00

I had maybe 3 compliments in my entire life time, Not that I'm complaining as I have given 0,

blamethemeta · 2017-12-27T06:32:49+00:00

That last compliment I got was when I got my permanent employee badge. It basically meant that I was competent enough to make it through training. First real job, I was working in my field, I was productive, I was a true man.

Then my entire department was laid off a month later. Such is life.

2017-12-27T10:09:45+00:00

yeah, even when you know the girl is attracted to you, like when im talking to a tinder match, she will very rarely give you a compliment, and im a pretty good looking and masculine guy, and hav around 400 matches on currently on tinder. I think maybe 10 times at most do i get a straight up compliment on my looks even though body language in the girls shows attraction anyway.

Girls are just insecure and prefer to be pursued rather than pursuing, so they want compliments first, however since i got redpilled a few years back, i almost never give them compliments either, and when I do its always a very small but still flirty compliment.

not that I care much wheter I get complimented or not anyway.

2017-12-27T14:19:43+00:00

I was thinking about something like this on the way to work this morning actually. Women don't touch men. They don't want to or know how to. Men want to be felt up by their significant other like they do to them. If i could afford it I would get an hour massage every week. It would be much more physically satisfying then having a girlfriend. (and I'm not talking about a happy ending massage either. Just a regular professional deep tissue one)

armaadi · 2017-12-27T23:00:28+00:00

I got told by my senior drill instructor that I wasn't half bad. At the time, that was the best compliment I'd ever received.

bufedad · 2017-12-26T19:43:10+00:00

Goodish post. The men sending dick pics are trolls though. There may be a component of sexual satisfaction. But the majority of the payoff is simply the tiny satisfaction of misanthropic schadenfreude. And sure, humans deserve whatever humans get, but I would’nt connect that with the desexualisation of men. Men are considered to be hypersexual in American society. Explicitly sexualizing men is like having to say that lions make poor vegetarians. Kinda? Although I empathise with the OP’s point. As a man I feel like sexuality is a taboo subject for me. Like an Anabaptist or something. Persecuted yes. But the punishment is so vague and institutional that its hard to tell from normal life.

Title	I really liked this post. Not all of Tumblr is misandry. (xposted from TumblrInAction)
Author	Rudrahp72
Upvotes	181
Comments	24
Date	December 26, 2017 5:38 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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