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UK: City trader, 24, cleared of raping university student who he helped home after a night out at a Brighton jazz club.

furchfur

December 14, 2017
70 upvotes
/r/MensRights
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5176107/City-trader-24-cleared-raping-university-student.html
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Title UK: City trader, 24, cleared of raping university student who he helped home after a night out at a Brighton jazz club.
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furchfur

Upvotes 70
Comments 19
Date December 14, 2017 12:06 AM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/7jnpgh/uk_city_trader_24_cleared_of_raping_university/
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Comments

[–]Dnile1000BC 23 points24 points25 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This is a clear warning and lesson to all men.

DO NOT HELP WOMEN.

Your good deed will be turned against you in one way or another.

[–]Sasha_ 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She probably just woke up embarrassed she'd fucked a bitcoin shyster she met at a jazz festival in Brighton. I mean that really is the definitive description of a prick, but that's her poor drunken decision-making in action.

[–]Aivias 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Misuse and abuse of alcohol is lowering in pretty much every demographic in the UK except for young women, they drink more and more every year, they have created a culture for themselves where is acceptable to drink wine at 11am because they have a day off, or a day in, or a childfree day, or a day of child care.

I personally think they use it as a crutch to justify whatever behaviour they engage in.

[–]orphancrippla 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Considering that women are absolved of all social and legal responsibility the moment alcohol touches their lips, I think you're spot on.

[–]Ted8367 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The complainant said she woke up to find Dinaj naked in her bed and no memory of meeting him or getting back to her flat. ‘I had never seen him before. I felt like I had sex. I don’t remember it happening. ‘I had no idea how I got back. I thought I have to do something about it because I don’t know.’

Yet the CPS prosecuted anyway.

Another Alison Saunders special.

[–]Hashtagme2 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe "cleared" but his life is forever changed and people will forever find his name on-line. As for the woman who ruined his life? I doubt it. Simply sickening.

[+]MagicTampon1 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (21 children) | Copy Link

It's interesting how quickly some women will assume they've been raped.

Their view of the world must be pretty dismal, to simply assume someone assaulted them, when they have no way of knowing.

[–]mwobuddy 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

Technically if she was blackout drunk and they did have sex she was raped. According to the law.

[+]MagicTampon1 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (19 children) | Copy Link

If she was unconscious, yes.

"Blackout drunk" - that depends on how she was behaving at the time. And in fact, people who drink to excess can lose memory of evens that happened prior to the time they became intoxicated (or prior to the time that their alcohol induced deficit became severe enough to produce the blackout.)

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20049223

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21919584

[–]mwobuddy -4 points-3 points-2 points 8 years ago* (18 children) | Copy Link

Here's my experience with the state. Blackness---- fall over and remember that ---- blackness --- getting to sleep when its cold ---- blackness ---- wake up.

Im not only aware of my memory of it now, looking into the past, Im also aware of my awareness going in and out in the present during that time. I have two signposts telling me when I was and was not truly conscious.

We can talk about things in the past tense, but it is my assertion that memory has everything to do with consciousness.

If you scalp off all of the brain matter except the brain stem of a child, we could hardly call that child conscious, yet it could act as if it were conscious, even to the point of remembering people's names and faces.

However, its executive function area and everything else is completely gone. Remember Phineas Gage. A rail spike through his head and suddenly he's a completely different person.

That single case convinced me of the lack of free will humans claim they have, given that a person is claimed to choose how they behave, but brain damage will alter a person's behavior with no choice of their own. Do we say the fully formed brain has free will and a damaged one doesn't? But the fully formed brain is just another state, like a 2, compared to a damaged brain state of 1 or 0, and was built by outside forces, just like a rail spike.

That's why personalities of people tend to be consistent over time. That's why twins separated at birth and living on other sides of the world have the same agreeableness, conscientiousness, etc.

In my opinon, a person is only conscious if they are aware of their surroundings, and they're only aware of their surroundings if they can "remember in the moment", which requires short term memory.

The sci community isnt even agreed on when consciousness is, but access and recall of memory within 50 ms would be a reasonable claim.


Yes. Let's get triggered here.

[+]krustyy1 points 8 years ago [recovered] (17 children) | Copy Link

I've been blackout drunk before. Friends were nice enough to take some photos at a party of me hitting on and trying to dance with a rather unattractive female who wasn't particularly into my advances. I had absolutely no memory of it, but based on the photos I was enjoying the shit out of every bit of it.

Being drunk can remove some inhibitions and result in you doing things you would otherwise not do. That's not exactly unknown. Hell, it's part of the reason people drink.

Being blackout drunk just means everyone else sees you as being drunk and you are no longer fully forming short term memories. Still conscious. Still making decisions, which are obviously affected by being drunk. A blackout drunk person is fully capable of initiating a sexual encounter and responding positively to a sexual encounter. An unconscious person is not. That's the difference.

[–]mwobuddy 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

You say still making decisions, but is it really you? If you are not there anymore because you're 'blacked out', then why do you assume it was you?

Like I said, you can shave off all the brain except a brain stem in human children, and they'll still ACT conscious, but the area we typically consider responsible for executive function (eg behavior and control) is completely GONE.

[+]krustyy1 points 8 years ago [recovered] (15 children) | Copy Link

Because, literally speaking, you made a decision. No figurative or philosophical arguments should be brought into play when you're talking about accusing someone of a crime.

Keep in mind that, aside from figurative "you" not recalling the decision:

  • Your body and mind in its current state made a decision.
  • The person you made a decision to do the nasty with observed and processed you making a decision. From their perspective, consent was given.
  • Any third party people in the area before, during, or immediately after doing the nasty would have observed you making a decision and probably got way too intimate of a view of that enthusiastic consent people talk about nowadays.
  • A recording of the encounter played back to a jury recall a tale of consent being given.

Going back to the whole philosophical thing: I've also had an experience in assisting a relative tho developed transient general amnesia. In non-technical terms, it means you lose all memory from the past several months and your short term memory resets like every 30 seconds. This amnesia lasts for like 12-24 hours before going away with no lasting effects. Aside from the initial fear of the person having permanent damage, it was an incredibly interesting experience. She was still absolutely herself. She just couldn't remember the recent past and every 30 seconds she'd walk through the same 5 questions with me. The next morning she woke up in the hospital with absolutely no memory of the previous day up to several hours before things started and, for the 500th and probably last time, she read the letter we left with her describing what's going on.

Taking alcohol out of the equation, a person with transient general amnesia is 100% themselves and is 100% capable of giving consent. They will also 100% not remember any of it. Failing to remember giving consent doesn't change that consent was given and consent was perceived.

[–]mwobuddy 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Aside from the initial fear of the person having permanent damage, it was an incredibly interesting experience. She was still absolutely herself. She just couldn't remember the recent past and every 30 seconds she'd walk through the same 5 questions with me. The next morning she woke up in the hospital with absolutely no memory of the previous day up to several hours before things started and, for the 500th and probably last time, she read the letter we left with her describing what's going on.

Right. This is exactly the same scenario when children who are literally born without brains can respond to their parents and learn names, but otherwise are not gifted with the parts of the brain that lets us know someone is "in there".

Literally speaking, an AI can make a decision. Does that mean its conscious?

Your stumbling block is that being blacked out is not like amnesia. Its like being asleep. A person can sleepwalk and do things. But they've been excused from murder crimes for 'not being conscious'. That's the whole point in my personal story. I'm aware of being blacked out, as in, due to some lucky instances of blood rushing to my head and "turning on the lights" again, I can distinctly recall the way in which I was not conscious while my body was moving, and I became conscious momentarily during extreme moments.

[+]krustyy1 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (13 children) | Copy Link

Your stumbling block is that being blacked out is not like amnesia. Its like being asleep

That is incorrect. Just going straight into definitions, conscious is defined as aware of and responding to one's surroundings; awake. Consciousness is very clearly defined and doesn't really have any wiggle room.

A person who is asleep is not aware of their surroundings and is not able to respond to their surroundings. Same with being in a coma. Same with general anesthesia. Those are clearly points where a person is not conscious.

A person with amnesia or a person who is blackout drunk is absolutely aware of their surroundings and is absolutely able to respond to those surroundings. As a reminder, the blackout part of being blackout drunk is not losing consciousness; it's in losing the ability to form short term memories. For all intents and purposes, it's a form of chemically induced amnesia. I'll yield that it is an altered state of consciousness, but consciousness is still there and a neutral observer would observe consent in those situations.

The only wiggle room is if someone is barely conscious or drifting in and out of consciousness. If someone recorded consent on film of someone in this state, a court would most definitely rule that they were incapable of giving consent as they were barely capable of moving or responding to external stimuli and it would be very visible.

As for the whole AI part, you're getting hung up on philosophical arguments again. I mentioned it before and I'll say it again: Philosophy/feelings and law need to be mutually exclusive in order to be impartial. When you're talking about criminal proceedings that can completely destroy a person, you can't go by feeling that a crime occurred because you don't recall consenting. In those instances, your feelings aren't what defines the law.

To answer the AI question just for fun: If you put an AI into a sex robot and that AI was designed to be able to see, hear, sense pressure, move, and speak. Yes, that AI is conscious in the basic definition of the word. My Google Home and desktop PC is conscious in terms of electronics/AI/robotics as well. It's able to receive and respond to external stimuli. Shutting off the power to the AI would make it not conscious. Should the government decide that sex robots have the same rights as people, having sex with an unpowered sexbot would be illegal as the sexbot was not conscious. If the sexbot decided to go hot tubbing and some water jiggered with its consent module, making it 8 times more likely to consent until dried out, it would not be illegal as the sexbot still chose to consent. Now, if I slip some water in the sexbot's motor oil beverage to cause the consent module to fry, or pour some water right on the consent module, things get more screwy and there's a high probability that the consent afterwards would be considered chemically coerced in some way.

[–]mwobuddy 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

That is incorrect. Just going straight into definitions, conscious is defined as aware of and responding to one's surroundings; awake. Consciousness is very clearly defined and doesn't really have any wiggle room.

That's not the scientific agreement of consciousness.

You're saying sleepwalkers are conscious.

No, the AI would not be conscious, because it's programmed machinery.

You can't give me 'the right definition' because there isn't even one today. No scientists can agree on what it is, but I can tell you assuredly it is when you're self aware and can run metacognition. This is something a person who isn't blackout drunk can do. It isn't something someone who is blackout drunk can do.

[–]mwobuddy 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thats crazy. He's 24 but he looks like he's 30.

[–]orphancrippla 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No good deed goes unpunished. Good job, slag, now there's another decent guy who will never trust or help a woman again. Keep them coming.

[–]Mr_MRAnarchist 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And what was her name again?

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