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I (33/M) was sexually assaulted (on video) at a big gym then banned for no other reason than reporting it to management, what should I do?

pain_perdu

October 14, 2017
180 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://medium.com/@ColinHeilbut/i-was-sexually-assaulted-at-equinox-and-banned-for-reporting-it-b82a266fe25d
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Title I (33/M) was sexually assaulted (on video) at a big gym then banned for no other reason than reporting it to management, what should I do?
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pain_perdu

Upvotes 180
Comments 24
Date October 14, 2017 12:51 AM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/7691rm/i_33m_was_sexually_assaulted_on_video_at_a_big/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/i-33m-was-sexually-assaulted-on-video-at-a-big-gym.912990
https://theredarchive.com/post/912990
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SF man says Equinox wrongly terminated his membership over sexual harassment report

20 upvotes
October 24, 2017
/r/MensRights

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[–]mikesteane 51 points52 points53 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The petition is a waste of your time. You need to 1. File criminal charges against the teacher and 2. bring a civil charge against both the gym and the employee.

[–]pain_perdu[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Consider it Done.

The city of SF is filing its own human rights complaint as well.

[–]aussietoads 67 points68 points69 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Sue them. They are complicit in sexual harassment.

[–]pain_perdu[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Consider it Done.

[–]aussietoads 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good luck! Hope it teaches them a valuable lesson.

[–]PlastIconoclastic 18 points19 points20 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That is completely awful. Banning you from the gym sounds like a result of a very poorly informed legal opinion. It sounds like they assume you’re going to sue and want to limit any further liability, but they are actually doing you harm by banning you.

[+]Exactly_what_I_think1 points 8 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

have charges been filed?

[–]pain_perdu[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lawsuit

[–]pain_perdu[S] 14 points15 points16 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My Petition: https://www.change.org/p/head-of-global-communications-equinox-fitness

[+]boradin1 points 8 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

If the odds were stacked against me, I can only imagine how much worse it would be for a young person, or a woman or transgender individual in a similar or even more traumatic situation.

[–]threesixzero 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lol god dammit >.<

[–]typhonblue 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Despite all the organizations fighting on behalf of female rape victims to get them justice and help... we're still disadvantaged relative to men? Why? Because my brain is inferior to yours? Because I'm more vulnerable emotionally?

[–]AudioAssassyn 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Get jacked at another gym, go in and whoop some ass without signing in first. No, but in all seriousness, it's lawsuit time baby! You need to work fast to subpoena the footage before they delete it (if, hopefully, they haven't already).

[–]ThomasTheWarpEngine 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

$10,000 for 2 years at a gym?!

[–]pain_perdu[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

tell me about it!

310/month + 1200 for each set of 12 training sessions.

[–]pyropup55 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You wrote the article? I'm sorry this happened to you man, keep your chin up and reach out if you need someone to talk to.

[–]pain_perdu[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

thank you

[–]rjschwerin 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're going to try to get sympathy from equinox... good luck

[–]Tymalic 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well, lawsuit. I just hope you don't get laughed at in court, but it was another man so I'm sure you'll be fine.

[–]pain_perdu[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Consider it Done.

[–]Megazone_ 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Take them to court

[–]pain_perdu[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Consider it Done.

[–]killzon32 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Escalate the situation, lawyer up.

[–]pain_perdu[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Consider it Done.

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