"No sex today unless you promise not to tickle me"

bolognesesauce · 2017-05-21T18:55:12+00:00

This entire thread is absolutely fascinating. It is obvious none of you have ever interacted with actual women, and you have no idea what women want. Half the comments are also extremely rapey. I hope for the sake of humanity all the women in your lives just leave you so that you don't pass on your genes, but I'm kinda doubting you even have women in the first place.

redaftrp · 2017-05-18T15:46:56+00:00

Tickle her till she pisses herself

xianwolf · 2017-05-21T21:56:51+00:00

...Don't tickle her? Ever considered that? I mean you clearly want to continuing having sex with this woman.

tropzumuch · 2017-05-18T21:20:05+00:00

Im missing here something. Most guys say tickle her anyways, it seems to me like you are serious and tickling is something sex related? I have never tickled a girl... I got the feeling I'm really missing something out.

Do you guys tickle in the foreplay or just like that, without sexual intent?

OPs question seems weird to me. Till today I've thought tickling is something only kids do?

COLIE53 · 2017-05-18T15:47:31+00:00

I would pin her down and tickle the shit out of her, then proceed to have sex.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-18T15:54:13+00:00

She wants you to tickle her.

d4nonymous · 2017-05-18T16:08:33+00:00

Yeah there's a 0% chance she's serious.

bolognesesauce · 2017-05-21T18:51:59+00:00

What the fuck is wrong with you, you sound so creepy. If she hates being tickled don't fucking tickle her. You sound like some sort of sex offender.

But her withholding sex for this is unacceptable yet such AWALT behaviour

Maybe she's withholding sex because she's fed up of you treating her like she's subhuman and not respecting her when she says she hates you doing something?

I don't give a fuck about the sex now, this just pisses me off

I love this so much. You guys talk about how immature and passive aggressive women are yet you do shit like this. Hypocrites.

What's the most alpha way

If you have to ask on the internet you're not alpha.

SpinPlates · 2017-05-18T20:00:57+00:00

How is this even a question?

Sit on her chest with your knees holding down her arms and tickle her until she begs you to fuck her.

palacesofparagraphs · 2017-05-22T19:12:05+00:00

She hates being tickled more than anything. I love doing it.

Then you may not be compatible.

But her withholding sex for this is unacceptable yet such AWALT behavior.

First of all, she's not obligated to have sex with you any time you want. She can say, "no sex tonight" whenever she doesn't feel like having sex, just like you can. If it's a long-term thing, then you're having relationships issues, and it's certainly not cool for either partner to use withholding sex as a manipulation tactic. But it makes perfect sense that she doesn't want to sleep with you after the tickling incident. You've shown that you don't respect her boundaries. She's told you not to tickle her, and you're ignoring that. I sure as hell wouldn't have sex with someone who didn't respect my boundaries; that's a big red flag.

How do I answer this to show I'm in control? What's the most alpha way

You're not in control. You are in a relationship. You are not her boss or her master, you are her partner. You need to have mutual respect for one another.

At this point you have two options. You can decide that no tickling is a dealbreaker for you, and you can break up with her, or you can apologize for tickling her and promise never to do it again.

RedEyesBlueShades · 2017-05-19T00:15:35+00:00

First you fuck her, then you tickle her.

Alternatively, just tickle the shit out of her, and if she says no sex, tell her you didn't even want to have sex and she'll have to seduce you hard if she wants your dick. And act it out like you mean it - At that time, your frame should be fucking solid steel. You'll get to fuck her when she comes after you, that should help keeping frame.

chachaChad · 2017-05-18T16:18:50+00:00

I don't get what's so hard about her having a boundary?

The most alpha thing you could do is tell her that tickling her is important to you and that the relationship is over is she doesn't allow it.

Continuing to tickle her after she has asked you to stop is just kinda rapey and not in a good way.

[deleted] · 2017-05-18T16:52:57+00:00

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Title	"No sex today unless you promise not to tickle me"
Author	XZTALVENARNZEGOMSAYT
Upvotes	5
Comments	32
Date	May 18, 2017 3:37 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6bwyhi/no_sex_today_unless_you_promise_not_to_tickle_me/
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