Thats not my point.. The male decided to have sex. By law it was rape but he still made the decision. Thos is ine if those where morality and the law collide.
If he didnt willingly participate in the sex that would be different.
You're reading way too much into it. We're not talking about my standards for women. We're talking about this particular situation and this person's role in it.
No. Men do not have as many options as women when it comes to pregnancy and taking responsibility.
As far as being hormone filled and making rational decisions.. I had plenty of girls willing to have sex with me from 13 up and I was able to refrain and use my head... It's not impossible.
since part of the country wants to force female actual rape victims to carry the resulting children to term, how would it be fair to let male victims off the hook scott free.
plus wouldnt every deadbeat man say "i shouldnt have to pay for it i was raped."
We've been killing and eating each other for millions of years too, but at some point we advanced to the point where the perfectly normal human behavior of cannibalism was deemed criminal.
having read the article now.. girls who are taken advantage of by grown men in authority over them do not just forget about the whole thing and grow up perfectly ajusted, graduate high school, and go on to colledge. something breaks when this happens. theresa stigma in society where this girl must have deserved it, its her fault, shes been used now and therefore has less value if any value at all. then theres the why me feeling, depression, anxiety, fear
with boys (right or not) if a teenaged boy has sex with a woman, especially if its a teacher it is generally looked at like,,, 'awesome for you kid'.
having said that, i read the article, and i have to say that he was a grown up when he recieved the court papers and he didnt respond, and this is what happens when you ignore court papers.
had he got right on it he could have got a lawyer and his age at the time of conception would have been relivant. but he lost by default. so. thats why. not male discrimination.
well, still better then how girls look at other girls who been raped by a teacher or classmate. i assure you its not they call you gay. and not one high five either. we dont even have duct tape. its extremely emotional because females , especially teenaged females, are just naturally very emotional. it effects everything about them. i bet they wish they were boys. they couldnt keep quiet about it if the suddenly forgot how to speak.
theres a difference between men and women. thats why there are men and women. if we were supposed to be exactly the same, we'd be exactly the same .
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Well hold on. The sex was consensual though?
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Thats not my point.. The male decided to have sex. By law it was rape but he still made the decision. Thos is ine if those where morality and the law collide.
If he didnt willingly participate in the sex that would be different.
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That is very far from the same thing. Legal consent and against your will are totally different. What is this sub becoming.
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If he killed someone you wouldn't be calling him an innocent "child"... He's 1 not 2. Bad situation all around but still.
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You're reading way too much into it. We're not talking about my standards for women. We're talking about this particular situation and this person's role in it.
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No. Men do not have as many options as women when it comes to pregnancy and taking responsibility.
As far as being hormone filled and making rational decisions.. I had plenty of girls willing to have sex with me from 13 up and I was able to refrain and use my head... It's not impossible.
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doesnt mean he wasnt willing.
since part of the country wants to force female actual rape victims to carry the resulting children to term, how would it be fair to let male victims off the hook scott free.
plus wouldnt every deadbeat man say "i shouldnt have to pay for it i was raped."
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We've been killing and eating each other for millions of years too, but at some point we advanced to the point where the perfectly normal human behavior of cannibalism was deemed criminal.
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having read the article now.. girls who are taken advantage of by grown men in authority over them do not just forget about the whole thing and grow up perfectly ajusted, graduate high school, and go on to colledge. something breaks when this happens. theresa stigma in society where this girl must have deserved it, its her fault, shes been used now and therefore has less value if any value at all. then theres the why me feeling, depression, anxiety, fear
with boys (right or not) if a teenaged boy has sex with a woman, especially if its a teacher it is generally looked at like,,, 'awesome for you kid'.
having said that, i read the article, and i have to say that he was a grown up when he recieved the court papers and he didnt respond, and this is what happens when you ignore court papers.
had he got right on it he could have got a lawyer and his age at the time of conception would have been relivant. but he lost by default. so. thats why. not male discrimination.
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i dont council any rape victims.
well, still better then how girls look at other girls who been raped by a teacher or classmate. i assure you its not they call you gay. and not one high five either. we dont even have duct tape. its extremely emotional because females , especially teenaged females, are just naturally very emotional. it effects everything about them. i bet they wish they were boys. they couldnt keep quiet about it if the suddenly forgot how to speak.
theres a difference between men and women. thats why there are men and women. if we were supposed to be exactly the same, we'd be exactly the same .
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