During university classes, when feminist teachers say their feminist bullshits and I stand up to debunk what they say and declare that I don't feel oppressed. They tell me that society is so misogynistic that women like me accept the oppression without even realizing it, so my opinion is just another proof they are right, because, you know: internalized misogyny.

I thought a lot about the internalized misogyny thing and I can't really see it in society, even sexual objectification is happily accepted from some girls because it can actually offer real advantages and can make your life easier and for someone even better. Therefore sexual objectification is not accepting oppression, but making a trade, or, at least, trying to make it.

Then my cousin got beaten by his wife. She's a batshit crazy psycho and she's vegan, he wanted their 4 years old daughter to drink milk, and she beated him up badly with a stick. He went to the police with the marks of the aggression on his body, and tried to press charge against her. When he explained his wife beated him up the policemen there laughed about it, discouraged him and eventually sent him back home. When he told it to the rest of the family my father, as well as the other men of the family, laughed about him. I fought with my father telling him that it was shocking and terrifrying, and he told me that it was a silly thing and the reaction of the police was normal.

I heard a lot of men saying that the double standard about children custody is right, because, you know, they are the mothers.

I know a lot of men who are unable to open up or cry, and they are ready to consider weird men who do it and even laugh about them.

I could go on for hours listing injustices against men, that men accept and even think are right... I wouldn't call this internalized misandry because I'm not an idiot like the feminists who rant about internalized misoginy, because it's not a matter of hate. But the thing is that I don't really see women accepting disadvantageous conditions without realizing it, on the opposite, a lot women fight way more than they should. But I see men accepting double standards against them every day, and some of them even think it's right.

I believe this is just another proof of how much stupid feminism and feminists really are. Academics theorized this problem, which, in their opinion, oppress women to the benefit of men. This problem doesn't really exist though, and while they rant about it, next to them men are the ones who live it every day and a lot of them don't even realize it. It's as if I would complain about how much for me walking is hard, because once I twisted my ankle, talking with a man without one leg. Or even worse, it's as if a very rich person complained about how much hunger is a problem for rich people, because another rich person she knows is starving on a diet to lose some weight.