Boner trouble after 7 months of constant sex with my LTR

Docbear64 · 2017-06-29T13:47:01+00:00

IT could just be you're not attracted anymore . MY first suggestion would be go a week without touching yourself nd see how / if things change by the end of he week. Secondly look at how your girl gets you turned on versus other women .

It''s unfortunate but I've had situations where I just couldn't get it up for a certain chick but then I'd meet new one and it was like I got a new dick or something.

Duzand · 2017-06-29T15:25:22+00:00

Jesus, did you really think 3-4 times a day is sustainable? You're 19, there's one thing on your primitive ape teenage mind right now and that's to spray your seed into a fertile womb as often as possible so your genes live on and you achieve immortality.

You think it's a problem because the goalposts have moved in the 21st century. Everybody's fucking, sexting, and has access to hardcore pornography 24/7.

Are you still having sex 1-2 times a day? If so, shut the fuck up and enjoy it and get back to me when you're 30.

UnluckyPenguin · 2017-06-29T17:46:54+00:00

You're subconscious is telling you that you need more variety in your life or your going to regret it when you're older.
Hooking up less often is normal the older you get. You lose a little of the drive for sex, but your other interests grow (like motorcycle rides, cooking/eating, working out).

Ak_Float_Flyer · 2017-06-29T18:11:09+00:00

Most men have what is known as a "refractory period": a physical limit to how much sex he is physically capable of. A teenager can get it up about as often as he wants, but you are only just barely a teenager anymore. Time to start pacing yourself.

If you are getting it every day, then getting off once a day is more like it. You can fool around as much as you want, but hold back for the "grand finale'" at the end of the day. Outside of a relationship, avoid fapping and you should be able to go all night on the weekends.

AverageJoe04 · 2017-06-29T13:51:12+00:00

I think you are troubled by her perception of your performance in bed. Don't be. Only have sex when you want to. Climax only every few days if you want to. You don't get hard. The sky is blue. You shouldn't crave to change things.

Lift more and you will be too tired to have sex or you can use that as an excuse. Or, see if you enjoy only doing foreplay. Two days of that and the only way to get her to stop begging for your cock will be to make her choke on it.

Just make sure you stay in your own frame, not hers.

FrameWalker · 2017-06-29T16:25:19+00:00

Look man if you're using porn regularly it may have simply caught up to you. Try going porn free and see how that goes. I don't think you can blame your LTR for a soft dick if you're using porn every 2 days or more.

Occams_Stubble · 2017-06-29T18:32:12+00:00

The Coolidge Effect

The President and Mrs. Coolidge were in separate parties touring a large chicken farm. Mrs. Coolidge’s entourage happened upon a rooster getting very amorous with a chicken. The first lady was impressed and asked the farmer if this was a once a day event or was the rooster capable of repeat performances. The farmer assured Mrs Coolidge that indeed the rooster could carry out his duties several times daily. Mrs. Coolidge turned to one of the entourage and said to him “please go and tell THAT to the President!”<

When informed by the messenger of the rooster’s prowess, President Coolidge turned to a farmer in his entourage and asked “is this with one chicken or with different chickens?” The farmer informed President Coolidge that this was indeed all with different chickens – several a day in fact. President Coolidge turned to the messenger and said “please go and tell THAT to Mrs Coolidge.”<

Gawernator · 2017-06-29T14:39:43+00:00

See what happens if you stop watching porn. Internet porn is a pretty big known cause of Erectile Dysfunction.

RibRack · 2017-06-29T17:43:40+00:00

You could consider your hormones as well, and yes men have hormones. If your testosterone is low for any reason, it could be effecting your meat might. Lack of sleep, poor diet with not enough healthy fats, lifting too much and your CNS is fried, or not lifting at all. Even summer heat can effect this, take a couple cold showers a week before bed to bring your core temp down before you sleep (when your test is highest) Your 19 so your test should be running rampant, though. A good way to tell is if your getting morning wood. Even playing heaps of video games can effect your pork sword, due to the dopamine ( same effect as porn, which increases your dopamine and can have an effect on your wizard staff)

wtg2989 · 2017-06-29T19:57:18+00:00

Exact same problem with me too. I'm in my late 20s though

Title	Boner trouble after 7 months of constant sex with my LTR
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Date	June 29, 2017 1:24 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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