So I am originally from /r/marriedredpill and I am back in the game.

Got myself a date through tinder - I know there are controversial views on these apps.

Date went well - kissed closed in my car. (This was Sunday)

I am struggling with my inner game now. I really want to see her again. Asked about a second date. She said yeah, when she can make some time.

So gentlemen you see: I showed low value, by asking too early and I am heading right into a oniets trap. And I get totally caught up in her frame

And this is my problem: As soon as I get female attention I throw everything overboard and become absolute beta. Things like: Waiting for her text, responding immediately, feeling down when she doesn't respond immediately. In short: a drooling beta monkey.

Gentleman think about this: This is one date - yeah kiss close is cool but this should not be uncommon. And this should not affect me as it does.

I guess this is not all too uncommon for a recovering married guy or a beginner so could you help me over with some comments, readings and exercises on my situation. I believe I need more training on the frame part as on the techniques.

Thanks

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