Women: how do you handle female friends who treat men poorly and in a way that demonstrates that they clearly value the feelings and well-being of themselves and other women over those of the men they interact with?

StuWard · 2016-11-15T19:05:15+00:00

Make them non-friends.

Kyle_Fischer · 2016-11-15T19:21:46+00:00

People do this all the time on both sides of the innie/outtie continuum. Just because she is a woman doesn't make her any more or less of a bad person. It's her actions that make her less of a good person. She doesn't fail to treat men well because she thinks women's feelings are more important than men's feelings. She does it simply because she is a selfish person.

2016-11-15T19:09:34+00:00

Not a woman, but I honestly can agree with her friends even if I don't condone her actions. He IS at fault, certainly. I'm sure it's clear even to him what she's doing. If he chooses to continue as he always has, the consequences are on him.

Which doesn't absolve her of her actions, mind you. It speaks volumes of her character that she'd be willing to treat another human being like that. I certainly wouldn't want to associate with anyone willing to do that to another.

Mythandros · 2016-11-16T00:50:49+00:00

People like this aren't worth being friends with. If they are willing to disregard the feelings of a stranger, they are very capable and probably will disregard your feelings if they don't match theirs. People like this are not honest and not worth devoting any energy or time to.

Lice138 · 2016-11-15T20:05:34+00:00

Stop being firends with subhuman people
Stop being a pussy (xunt for trans fold) and tell the people they are fucking with "Hey that stupid chick you want to put your dick in? She is a fucking retard, read these texts from her"
Be satisfied that girls like that tend to get guys who treat them like shit and cheat on them constantly. She will probably be doing porn for her new boyfriend's meth money by the end of the year.

bashar_speaks · 2016-11-16T00:56:02+00:00

Lol, who cares? This is like a political correctness type situation, but with behavior. Girls will be girls. The guy is in that situation by his own choice, he can walk away anytime he wants. He's only a victim of his own naviete and gullibility.

The answer to these kinds of issues to raise and condition kids, male and female, to be strong and smart... not to police and micromanage and nitpick's people's behavior.

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