Woman gets rejected because of her weight. Anybody find anything wrong with the long text the guy sent her?

feedmecarrots · 2016-08-10T02:36:12+00:00

Someone speculated that his rejection text may be fiction. I suspect that too. If I were in his place, I would not have been so blunt. Women are not used to rejection and they don't take it very well. I think that she has been down this rod a time or two and the post is a fiction illustrating that modern women cannot handle rejection. However, they get to reject men at their whim.

Consurgent · 2016-08-10T02:06:25+00:00

This reeks of bullshit.

hackableyou · 2016-08-10T01:42:30+00:00

She said the only possible explanation is he was trying to belittle her or bring her down. While that is a possible explanation, I don't think it is the most probable, and it certainly isn't the only one.

My thought behind him writing it was that he felt the need to be open with her because he probably felt that was the most respectful and I actually thought he was trying to be as nice as possible while being open and blunt too.

Ultramegasaurus · 2016-08-10T04:35:03+00:00

So, women are literally so romantically entitled now that rejecting them is news-worthy?

McFeely_Smackup · 2016-08-10T03:44:14+00:00

Odds that she wrote both letters: 96.5%

it just doesn't read like something a man letting a one-date woman down would write. It sounds like something a person would write to set up their scathing "I'm so amazing" rebuttal. A classic straw man.

I especially liked the "I was actually on another date..." part. Sure you were...we haven't met him though, he lives in Canada.

2016-08-10T01:48:32+00:00

Anybody find anything wrong with the long text the guy sent her?

Yes, he shouldn't have bothered.

I hope he deleted his account right after he messaged her, because otherwise he's in for hate mail and death threats from feminists.

explicitlarynx · 2016-08-10T06:32:21+00:00

"He bought me dinner [...] pretty standard evening."

Seriously, American men, you need to stop doing that. They're starting to think getting free food and drinks and attention is nothing special.

Regnes · 2016-08-10T10:18:29+00:00

This is really old news, but yeah, it's almost certainly fake. She probably felt like she had been slighted by men in the past over her weight, so she invents this bizarre over the top story to make her feel better about herself. IMO

nerdkingpa · 2016-08-10T02:04:48+00:00

I think she wrote both so she could have something to rebut and get her 15 mins of efame.

Saintmyname · 2016-08-10T03:18:11+00:00

I don't believe a man wrote that. It's too sensitive and provided immediate closure. Men don't typically do that. Also men don't typically burn bridges like that. But if it is real, he's an asshole.

oshmkufa2010 · 2016-08-10T03:33:45+00:00

Your tone is saccharine and condescending

She's projecting so hard... Honestly, what a total bitch. Yeah, in my opinion he did overdo it a little, but not with malicious intent. I believe he genuinely thought this was the best way to put it and tbh he didn't completely screw it up either.

Does that mean that I can’t love and enjoy my body now?

Yeah, he never said that, cunt. You took it and ran with it. He said you aren't his type, he didn't say you're a hideous unmarriagable monster. For fucks sake, he explicitly stated that he would marry you if you were physically his type, because he was blown away by your personality. But yeah, typical woman-move. Receiving a compliment and just hearing everything bad. And she ought to have the last word. She couldn't just let it go, ignored him and never messaged him again. Damn that pride. "You know what I'm gonna do is write a butthurt letter to tell you you're stupid and to never message me again!" Her thoughts in a nutshell.

"She has far too high an opinion of herself, she needs bringing down a peg or two?"

Yeah, again, projection much?

Give her the tools to develop a bomb-proof sense of self-esteem so that if (I’ll be kind, I’ll say “if”) the time comes that a small, unhappy man attempts to corrode it, she can respond as I do now.

Because nothing screams bomb-proof sense of self-esteem quite like a hypocritical, butthurt remark. Only this cunt may squeeze where it hurts. Cause she is holier than thou. "How dare you call me fat, you small goblin?! You're not even 5'11. If I have to suffer humiliation, then so must you!" Kindergarten.

CHRIST ALIVE, that’s creepy.

Of course he is creepy. Why not? That's femspeak for "I'm not interested", isn't it?

As a side note: the comments under her mental diarrhea make me wanna puke.

oshmkufa2010 · 2016-08-10T01:44:08+00:00

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Sasha_ · 2016-08-10T03:21:38+00:00

Dyed-red hair.

'Nuf said.

AtticusFrenchToast · 2016-08-10T05:05:17+00:00

It blows my mind that commenters here can't tell the difference between being straightforward and just going on and on and on in a really unnecessary way. No, there's nothing wrong with the preference, but jesus christ, just say "I think we'd get along great as friends but I'm not feeling the physical connection" and be done with it. After that point, it's no longer about being informative and efficient; it's about you trying to get an "aw, it's okay" back from her so you can feel like a Good Guy.

boringcarpets · 2016-08-10T08:51:10+00:00

Lol! I want to meet the guy who wrote that, he might be able to tell me where I can find unicorns, Santa and the Easter Bunny

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